Let me start off by saying that I’m a junior in college who moved in with his girlfriend of one year in an a apartment near campus. After living with her for six months and repeatedly confessing that we both wanted to be together forever and resigning our lease for another year, she mentioned that she wanted to brake up.
This last spring brake she went to Daytona beach with her family for spring break. I couldn’t go because I just didn’t have the cash. One night she got really drunk and said she was sorry and still loved me, turns out she slept with some asshole down there that week…
Now we have to live together for two more months until the semester ends and also have committed to a contract for one more year at our current residence. I love her so freaking much and she begs me to forgive her but I can’t bring myself to look at her. The thought of her with some other guy makes me want stab my eyes out. What the hell should I do
—Fuck Florida
This article appears in Mar 12-18, 2009.
Cheat on her in return. Bring home some chick that you wanna screw and go at it. Make sure it’s a girl that she really, really hates too. Spend a drunken night screwing this skanks brains out and kick her to the curb in the morning. If you ‘girlfriend’ has any objections to it, who gives a shit? The girl already cheated on you anyway. I can tell you from experience man, more than likely, your gf is just trying to make herself feel like less of a bag of shit for having cheated on you. Teach her a lesson about commitment and fidelity.
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Cheat on her in return? Never Wrong… you’re wrong and so’s the guy who would fuck some girl just to make another jealous. Nobody wins.
The relationship is simply corrupt, OP. There’s no fixing that especially when there’s no “marriage” to save. Cut her loose… there are another 30 billion or so people on the planet. She ain’t so special.
Somebody should tell women that just because they appreciate confessions, can deal with the truth and may even require understanding of the truth in order to forgive that guys do NOT share this appreciation. Women should NEVER confess anything. Men can’t deal with a picture of their heads of their woman with anybody…. ever.
If you want to fix it, you have to either stab your eyes out and be done with it or EJECT the picture you have in your head. As long as it’s there you’ll never get over it, will resent her for it and will dump her ass for it anyway. Better sooner than later.
Kay: Your comments are always a waste of time.
OH and “there are another 30 billion or so people on the planet” are you fucking stupid!
My ‘advice’ is in no way intended to make her jealous at all, or to repair the relationship. I despise cheaters and think that they all deserve a taste of their own medicine. This girl already claims she feels like shit for cheating on him, well she should and deserves to feel a whole lot worse for a whole lot longer. She should have to suffer the pains of knowing her ‘bf’ is fucking some other chick.
I hate to say it, but for the most part, kay is right. Dump this cheating, skanky, slut of a whore and find yourself a real woman. BTW kay, your generalization is pretty far off the mark as to who can and cannot handle the truth. It has nothing to do with gender and everything to do with the individual, so drop the sexism.
Holy shit… the moment that some girl says she is going to Daytona Beach for spring break without you is the moment you should have broken up with her. Seriously, she says she slept with one dude, but more likely she was involved with some form of gangbang. You will find out for sure when the video comes out online.
Toss that broad to the curb and get a flat mate, dude, and quit being a dupe to scandalous women.
I agree with Never Wrong. Those feelings of love you still have for her are essentially just emotions, don’t let them guide you, use your judgement instead. In this case, you’re right for wanting to leave this girl.
You’re a fucking junior in college, why are you getting into this commitment bullshit at your age? Your situation would be different if you held an open relationship with this girl, but you didn’t. Imagine if you fulfilled your wish of being ‘together forever’, got married and then she cheated on you.
If they’ll cheat once on you, they’ll do it again.
adios to that girlfriend…she couldnt go a week without fucking another guy as soon as you werent around? whore…thats not a slur…thats the truth. im a firm believer alchohol doesnt make you do things you normally wouldnt…just makes you do thinks youve refrained from doing.
as never wrong said…have sex with another woman. it doesnt have to be a skank as far as im concerned, it could be a girl youre into. all the better. to put the icing on the cake, have her catch you doing it. not really much your girlfriend can say. then tell her you are moving out.
if the lease has not began yet, speak with the landlord about moving out. there’s still time for the landlord to find tenants for that building!
about the gf, dump that trashy femme. if you can’t look at her, sharing a fridge will become mighty weird!
Oh yeah, Gustov? Describe even one healthy and successful relationship that weathered the storm of infidelity.
“Once bitten twice shy” is a good motto. It’s practical advice that can save you years and years of crap in a relationship that will end the same way it began. TTFN gets it. You should listen to her.
Two words: See ya!
She cheated. Dump her sorry, fat, ass and get over it. Simple as that. Don’t give me that “I still love her” BS either. If you’ve been a stand up guy the entire relationship, and she does something like that, she deserves to be alone.
When you are fucked up and don’t know what to do…use your head and not your emotions. Emotions will lead you to being even more fucked up….be smart. Dump her ass!!!
Dude… you know exactly what you should do….you should cheat on her with her mom…. that’ll get her ….
I have a friend who just took her cheating BF back who treats her like shit because she “loves him.” She says things have been wonderful since she took him back. Sure, it’s wonderful because he’s sucking up to you. I give it another few months and he’ll be fucking some other girl and treating my friend like shit again. I told her this and she won’t listen and I said when (not if, WHEN) it happens again I don’t want to her sob story.
Please don’t end up like my friend, OP. DTMFA. She’ll only fuck you over again. Guaranteed.
you sure do have alot of friends pretty kitty, and what seems more amazing to us is that they all had experiences similar to the OPs.
You know EXACTLY what you should do, but you are obviously (unfortunately) not ready to do it yet. Take her back and she will do this to you again because she knows she can. Leases can be broken. Grow a set; move on.
Cheating should not be tolerated. Seriously, like said above, she couldn’t go a week?!