Swingers. Show me a sexy swinger and I’ll join! If what you had on “display” at the Sex Show was an example of sexy than you’re confused. Your table stood out, but not for attractiveness. The guy stalking every sexy woman that walked by looked like a sleazy 1970’s car salesman. UGH! Who finds that sexy? And in the column the Coast gave you you said the ages of your “club” are between 25-50, right. No one at your table was under 45. I want to meet these under 30’s, they’re must only be 2 of them hiding in Halifax because I’ve been trying to find them for years! The reason people have the idea that swingers are old, obese, and sleazy is because that’s what people saw at the Sex show or on sites like Adult Friend Finder. You may post pictures of sexy under 35’s but they aren’t of anyone who’s a swinger.
—Show me the sexy swingers!!!
This article appears in Feb 19-25, 2009.
Swingers were old and ugly back in the 70s, for Christ’s Sake. Don’t even get me started on the gold chains and matching white shoes and belts. These must be their spawns.
Gross.
When will people get that the people they watch in pornos don’t exist?
Yeah, when I was talking to the guy I wanted to ask how many 20-35 year olds there were but didn’t bother. The Hedonism Resorts look pretty cool, though. But its probably more of the same with slicker brochures.
I think these days, its referred to as an “Open Relationship” or something along those lines… As soon as I hear swinger I think 70’s nasty porn… involving a bowl full of car keys and cigarettes…
People in their 20’s have enough anonymous sex with each other to have to give it a name and structure.
general promiscuity… is what you’re going for there trevor.
The open relationship concept is a little different.
It’s like both partners cheating and making up ad infinitum without all the yelling or legal troubles. I think. I dunno, Maybe it’s not, I haven’t exactly written a paper on it, nor would I want to bother reading one.
I concur with the other posters. Maybe “Open Relationship” will conjur up some sexiness pour toi.
What my husband and I do is not cheating by any stretch of the imagination. And yes I am under 35, 109 pounds, 25 inch waist, not hairy, not blind, deaf, or dumb either. I have a secure relationship with a loving husband who supports the fact that I’m bi-sexual. Why settle living in a situation where I have to put that side of myself in the closet just because I’m married? I don’t know about the ESP group, but I do know that I am not a minority in club SOS. There are way more younger people coming forward and exploring their sexuality in a sane safe way.