You fucked up! You thought you would fuck a crazy bitch, then what? Exactly what happened to the others? I know because I saw what happened with a woman who walked out.because of you. I don’t have any framed degrees hanging off my walls but I am telling you that I am not an idiot like the others. I heard rumours about you, rumours I didn’t listen to. I constantly defended you to people. I believe and still do, that you are warm, gentle and a man with a heart of gold. When you want to use it.
You tell me to leave you alone, then you tell me you’re interested in me again, why? Did I say or do something to piss you off? Or did your narcissistic personality become frightened by the lack of attention I wasn’t bestowing upon you any longer. You then had string me along again. Playing games with my fragile already broken heart.
I am not stupid like the women you’ve done this to before. I do honestly care for you and I thought you felt the same about me. After months of stress you added to my already over stressful life, without showing any remorse or caring enough to meet me for coffee. To see for yourself how I am.
I want you to feel something for me but I know you don’t, you never did.
It’s very frigid and lonely out here. — I Was Never Good Enough
This article appears in Feb 14-20, 2013.
…another desperate woman chasing after assholes…
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You know he is a prick but you defend him and want him to feel something for you… yet you comment that he is narcissistic… Here’s a quick clue-in for you, narcissistic people are incapable of feeling any complex human emotion… If it appears they do, it is only because there is something in it for them. To a narcissist, emotion is a tool that can be used to manipulate. These are people you should totally steer clear of!! In other words – RUN!!
ladies when you recognise badly behaved men just back away, fade to black, disappear but for the love of all that is holy stop whining and sounding so desperate for the guy. he’s not your cup o tea we get that. what we don’t get is the excuses you are naking for his bad behavior. leave the bum and move on. he will never be who you want him to be stop trying to fix this broken man. i agree with shamira 100 %.
Holy crow, OP, your neediness is so sad – I’d suggest you learn to love yourself first because the signals you’re putting out are like a fucking tidal wave – no, make that tsunami. It’s obvious you scared him off with your apparent lack of self-confidence – to be truthful, I’d run like a fucking antelope on crack if I had to listen to someone with a ‘fragile’ heart go on and on about the injustices of the past. Stop putting all your eggs in one basket and work on yourself before sharing your life with another.
Ok. I’m not trying to sound mean but honey, you’re a hot mess and you need a reality check..
First of all.. damn you people when will you understand that until a declaration of exclusivity is agreed upon you are DATING. You are NOT a couple and your partner can see whomever else he or she wants. Maybe op this person really DID like you but you were being clingy and overly needy too early in the sceme of the relationship so he’d run. Then come back because he did like you.
Or you put out the second you meet someone and are as dumb as you sound in which case, you’re easy to use over and over.
You need to figure shit out.
if you sleep with everyone you date, it’s unlikely many of these will turn into something serious because most DATES don’t turn into something serious. There is nothing wrong with putting out early but you CAN’T GET ATTACHED just because you’re moving superfast.
Remember how when you were in high school and people said “Dude, putting out without a thought is NOT how you find love” and you said “Leik whatEVERRRR”? Well those people were right. If you put out without a second though you may very well find the person you love on one of those dates. I did. But it doesn’t help you. You sleeping with someone doesn’t bind them to you. It just means you fucked another person. Gawd..
Just because someone is dating you doesn’t mean they owe you exclusivity. That takes time op.
Overly attached scary chick much? Damn you scare ME..
OP you are one of the dumb ones. You’re following exactly in their footsteps. Still trying to get him to love you despite the fact that he played you.
You’re one in a vast sea of stupid women op. It’s time to make a change and gain some fucking dignity.
o.p., you sound like a bunch of people i have nothing to do with anymore. there are times when i wish there was no law against killing people, really. some people deserve to die. but maybe you are not one of them, ergo, maybe the other person is not either. we only have a one sided comment here to deal with. no rebuttal or any more info to base a good strong opinion on.
Didn’t stop you from thinking she deserves to die… Ya fucking psycho!!!!
I find myself a little confuzzled by this post … Tell me I’m not alone y’all…
From what I gather they were beyond 1-3 dates in which case Houdini-ing seems callous. Now, as TTFN pointed out you do sound like a headache …
LIFE SUCKS YOU SAY SHE DESERVES TO DIE!? YOU NEED HELP. THAT’S FN SCAREY THAT YOU SAID THAT.
Steve called you a psyhco because of what you said and he got dislikes.So some people think she deserves to die too?!
Why because she fell in love with someone?Billions of people deserve to die as well.
He’s not going to kill anyone.
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you’re using the word frigid in the wrong context. He can’t commit. Move on.
boru, i really think you should learn to read what is printed there. no fucking place did i say that she deserves to die. i said some people. what the fuck is to matter with your brain these days? are you fucking harper or what? you seem to be getting just as addled as he is.
then i even went a step further by saying,MAYBE YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM. did you read that part too? i think you are seriously fucked up lady, and therefore, i will have no more to talk to you about. and harper, yeah, i am an employer in the sense that i have my own company, and other business interests. but none of which is any of your business. you too are relegated to the no answer back zone.
i have not come here to argue with anyone, i have only made a comment or few to the poster’s of the bitches, and to say hi to woggie. and an answer to paul. that’s it. but if you want to go on being a complete asshole, go for it. people will tire of your bile and whatever else is inside your bag of skin.
I think she’s trying to ease the pain of her broken heart by making excuses for the reasons he says he’s interested in her,but doesn’t make a move towards her .She’s taken responsibility for the reasons he hasn’t contacted her in person when she’s not to solely to blame. We’re only getting one side of the story.
I also think she’s afraid , so she’s making herself look bad by seeming overly needy.Again trying to ease the pain of a possible broken heart.In a sense,giving him excuses not to make a move towards her.
LS Other than the obvious sickos child molesters…Why say anyone deserves to die? ..and I did read your whole comment.
Congrats on owning your own busyness,you should be proud.I never asked you about it.
gary you could stay away for ages and try to come back with a clean slate till a couple on here will pick at your every word like they woul pick at a healing scab. forget it buddy and just let fly. be yourself and say whats on your mind, no body cares and you just might get the odd chuckle. for the most part the boards are quite informative and entertaining. we’re all different and all have our own view but it keeps things interesting. don’t get mad at them just have fun with it. i like your posts. they are to the point and pretty funny. dont take any remarks to heart. its all in fun. or not. who gves a crap.
LS and Woggy I wouldn’t have cared who the hell said it.I still would’ve shit on them for saying it.LIFE SUCKS your taking my being offended at what you said too personally.Unfortunately, you were the one that came out with it.I have nothing against you personally,I just didn’t like what you said. 🙂
eats_crayons There are women just as stupid as OP who refuse to see it.
“Players” come in all ages,shapes and sizes.So do stupid women.
Steve Do you believe OP deserves to die?Just asking
Why are you asking does someone deserve to die? Noone said the OB deserves to die.
Just let it go.
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yeah really. why stir up shit where it dont exist. have u never heard of figure of speech boru.
It’s best to just ignore Gary and WogSlag whenever possible.
Never fuck with family, those bites hurt.
Yep,It is best to just let it go. 🙂