Hey, drunk waitress. yeah, you. Are you so boring that you can’t do anything else but drink and party? It’s your night off, and you’re at the fuckin bar? Your shift is over and you’re at the fuckin bar? You’re so desperate you need to sit your drunk ass and get attention from all the drunk creeps you call friends at the fuckin bar?? You’re a classic case of desperation. Ever notice how most people move on?
Yeah yeah, others do it too – some more than you. But you’re 30 something. Stop pretending and do something with your talents before you turn 40 and blame everyone else for your problems.
Denial – it might be sweet now, but turns sour over time.
Life is amazing. MAKE IT SO.
—Starship life
This article appears in Mar 13-19, 2014.


It’s not you so why do you even fucking care. It’s her life, leave her the fuck alone.
Ugh.
I use to care when I saw friends go down that path…but you can’t do anything about it. Got burned too many times trying to help.
Some people are just fucked up, and as much as it sucks to see good people go down that path, there’s NOTHING anyone can do for them.
Self-destructive personalities and low self-esteem are too powerful for mortals to curtail.
You might be on starship life, but they’re on starship denial, and both are in different quadrants.
jhey, you should make friends with this poster, you can drink tea or something and rant about waitresses who drink and sleep with guys other than yourselves.
the lady is probably having a great time. leave her alone.
I didn’t say anything other than you can’t help these people.
What are you talking about?
And why would I want to sleep with annoying self destructive women? I’m kind of into strong intelligent women. It’s my thing. : )
And I don’t drink tea!
What ”talents” could a bar wench possess? If they had not done anything in their 30’s they are not likely to improve in the 40’s
Koda,
I don’t know. Sometimes shit just happens. I think people are too harsh on them. I’m sure many of them are quite bright and had dreams at some point.
I’ve actually seen some of them get out of that fucked up world and live successful productive lives.
Why label her waitress is what I’m wondering? If she works hard to finance and support herself who are you to demean her profession? If you’re concerned with her life choices maybe address that to your “friend”, instead of putting down how she makes a living. You know what job is “beneath” you?…the one you don’t have and tax payers have to support you. Sounds like you’re the d bag to me 😉
I love when the young’uns complain about the over 30’s!
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