This is a HUGE fuck you, to a certain guy that thinks it’s okay to flirt with girls while I’m not in the exact same room. And this is why you are single and can only find girls to fuck. You can talk a great game, but when you get caught, you can’t handle the heat. FUCK YOU for stringing me along with your fucking games. —Glad I Found This Out Early On
This article appears in Mar 15-21, 2012.
Lady- you might need to relax a little. I might be wrong, but it kind of sounds like you’re overreacting. What’s wrong with a little flirting? You probably do it too when he’s not around. I don’t find flirting disrespectful at all unless it goes beyond that… or if he was doing it in front of you.
Isn’t there a saying about squeeznig something so tight it just wants to get away?
umm yea..there’s fb for this kinda stuf..jus say’n
If someone I’m interested in is flirting with someone else it makes me more interested … weird … I know.
… but at least you found out now OP.
You are a dodged bullet, sweetie. Flirting? Games? Dating IS a game. The game of courtship!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rCH3w_LnmHE
caught doing what exactly? OOooh.. you’re not the only woman he finds attractive. NO man (or woman) on earth is attracted to ONLY one person forever. So if he’s not asking them out or feeling them up what you’re experiencing falls under the umbrella of perfectly healthy and normal.
If you can’t handle your man being attracted to the existence of other women, you’ll age very bitterly.
think about it. You meet a great guy. Really great guy. Never cheats on you or is mean to you. Has a decent job, is responsible, takes care of his shit. And you wind up marrying this guy.
Eventually you’re both going to get old and probably pretty ugly. You’ll both notice more physically nubile people because you two have aged lovingly into adorable sacks of leather. In terms of sheer looks, you won’t be the most beautiful person to him. But in terms of entire package he loves you, has always loved you and will never do anything to hurt you.
Are you telling me you’d dump the trump because he’s checking out a 20 year old piece of ass once in awhile or, god forbid! Being nice to her if she speaks to him?
What a lonely future.
this is silly. we check girls out together. just the way people are. we were at a party. i was flirting, he was flirting. We know we were there with each other and that’s who we were going home with. That’s the important thing. That youl know where the love is
Its physically impossible to not check out some people. Check someone out in front of him and gage the response… maybe hes not as into you as you thought?
Flirting isn’t really a big deal.. Are you also opposed to him having female friends? Spam his FB wall with “I FUCKING LOVE YOU” eighteen times a day? Ladies need to chill.
There is a kitty in that blanket….
I post on my boy friends facebook wall daily. I like to remind him everyday that he is my snookums 4eva!!!!
Not 5eva, zilla? 😛
5eva? nah man thats too long. An empty promise I’m not willing to give.
Of course there’s a kitteh in the blanket. Where else would he be?
I just never noticed. I always thought it was just a blanket. I always questioned why you’d have just a blanket as a display picture. I think that’s the reason I’ve hated you since I started posting…..well now that its all cleared up we can be super happy best friends!!!!!!!!
“Where else would he be?”
Ohhhhhh, I dunno Mel. How about the cockpit of a Northrop YF-23….
http://aereiecaccia.altervista.org/foto/yf…
“I like to remind him everyday that he is my snookums 4eva!!!!”
I’m sure Tommy appreciates it, too, zilla!
Flirting isn’t a big deal, really, but when you’re as insecure as OB clearly is, that shit can sting.
And some people flirt without knowing the person they’re ‘flirting’ with thinks they’re flirting. And some people who are devoid of attention/insecure perceive any attention by the opposite sex as flirting and REAL flirting as interest.
Though. Sometimes flirting is actually meant to be taken as interest… but also a way to save face if the other isn’t interested. Flirting is silly and fun and is an excellent way to get feedback from the other, though I will admit that it can make things a little confusing.
Sorry Zilla, me and Mel are already super happy best friends, and we take that shit super seriously. You can only have one super happy best friend, get your own!
OB, you sound like all kinds of crazy. Pbbbbbffffffftttt, high school parties.
same room vs EXACT same room ….. please explain the difference, if any!
@eats_crayons: Sooo true! I’ve always said “you can look at the menu all you want, but if you want to order another meal, send this one back to the kichen first”.
@Koda: “same room” – same name? Like a bedroom in one house is the “same room” as a bedroom in another house. Whereas “EXACT same room” means the one you’re standing in? Or maybe a mirror image through the looking glass – this is LTWWB, ya know… 🙂
Flirting can have a pretty broad definition. Some things that might be classified as flirting, I would have a problem with, others not. I’d advise against it early in a courtship or relationship, it can be a red flag. Nothing wrong with being friendly but I don’t want to feel like I have to keep an eye on you. Then again, I’ll probably just lose interest if I feel that way, not try to control you and stuff.
Once we’re official or whatever and you’ve gained my trust, flirt all you want, within reason.
you all know what i’m going to say, so i won’t bother.
Never stopped you before suckers, what’s wrong buddy? All sucked out?
You can be deputy super happy best friend, Zilla.
Does this mean no one wants to be my super happy friend anymore?
*sadface*
Some of us never stopped. *sniff*
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dCAoOJJEi-s/T0wN…
Aw thanks, Ivan! You’re the best!
Wanna come see Maestro this friday night with a bunch of college kids? lullz!
I guess this all depends on what OP means by flirting. Does she mean flirting or hitting on? The former and she’s over-reacting, the latter and she has a point. In this bitch, she probably meant hitting on, hence the anger.
here’s something you all might be interested in, seeing as how gmail sucks so much. not recieved indeed.
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gary more gary moregary_more@hotmail.com
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View profileTo prettykittylady@gmail.com
From: gary more (gary_more@hotmail.com)
Sent: March-16-12 8:18:29 PM
To: prettykittylady@gmail.com
don’t know if i’ll be free or not, but when and where be it at pretty lady?
———————————————————————–seems someone was wrong about something, and we all know who that is. and no, never again.
Thanks for the offer PK, but if I’m not in bed by 9:00 I turn into a pierogi. A very cranky pierogi. >; ) You kids have a great time.
There is and never has been such an email in my fucking inbox.
I never received your fucking email.
This is the last I’m discussing of this. If you want to continue to harass me about this, go right the fuck ahead, but the more you bring it up and get indignant that you’re never going to another summit again, the more it’s clear you want people to care.
Come, don’t come, whatever. No skin off my ass if you’re going to be a nasty fuck about a fucking email I NEVER RECEIVED.
Fuck sakes, THIS is the shit I get when I do something nice for a bunch of people I consider friends. Un-fucking-believable.
bitches be all kinds a crazy pretty please end it now
I know-right? Don’t want the summit to crash and burn before I get my ass up there!
Did that NGF and oldhand/Lachesis/whatever ever go to one?
The Summit will be fine as long as no one starts speaking in fiery tongues and exploding the table’s glasses of alkyhaul.
ttfn, you never have to worry about that from me. if people don’t get gmail, seems to me, their gmail account sucks, and not in a nice way. kitty, i don’t give a rat’s ass about what you think or do, hey, it is your little life. i just wanted to prove an email was sent out from my account to your gmail(crappy) mail. that being done, i have no further use or you. sorry ivan and rest of gang, this pisses me off, when i am basically called a liar, and it sure sounded like that to me, that was what it was. what does everyone else think.
i’m not trying to be vindictive, and harrass anyone, her words. and if that is too much flack, then i suggest someone take one fucking big chill pill. whether or not, i would have gone, or sent mail, is now a moot point. but a point that had to be made.
i will still converse with most of the rest of you, but care not for this one particulate. and no_fool, when we gonna shag like fuck, baby?
Suckster … it’s technology … sometimes it fucks up. The problem could have been with the Hotmail system or the Gmail system … but if you insist you sent it and Kitty insists she didn’t receive it … a problem with the technology is what you’re left with. And, unless you’re prepared to attempt the daunting and impossible task of having Microsoft and Google work for you and together to trace the message in an effort to prove your points or see where a breakdown occurred … unless you have issues with each other beyond this message, can we just call a truce and chalk it up to a message that went off to never never land?!?
As for the Bitch … I don’t know. I think flirting can exist on a spectrum – it can be playful and innocent lacking serious intention; or it may be a subtle yet suggestive indication of a sexual interest. And unless one excels at reading people or knows enough of the personality of the party involved to know the intention without it being spoken – distinguishing the innocent from the suggestive can be difficult. Ergo … I’m with Tommy on this one. Without knowing more detail from OB, I’m not so quick to assume she’s insecure and it was harmless. I have observed too much. And, people should have a little more respect for someone they are or would like to be serious with … if they don’t … I guess it just proves where intentions lie.
pfffft, yeah, and there is a santa claus too. beyond this point, i don’t give a finnagilers fuck anymore. it was said that it wasn’t sent, i showed one was, and point was proved. whether or not technology is to blame after that, fact remains, that i was basically called a fucking liar. and that pisses me off more than anything fucking else. so, there you have it. whether or not it was recieved, is a very moot point, it got sent, as i stated. but anyway, you all have a wonderful time. i just don’t give a fuck about it anymore. beyond this point, i will no longer even bring it up again.
so, i’ll be the bigger person, and let it go, knowing that i proved what i said.bye-o.
Nothing has changed since high school. I’ll forever be an outcast, I guess. I really would have gone if there was an invite. I didn’t see you post your email address PK, but maybe more people would have emailed if it had been organized by someone a little less abrasive. I think I counted 3 times on one thread you were telling people to “suck the shit out of your ass” Like, is this the LTWWB board or 2 girls/1 cup? I’m also confused about the eggs benny … what’s up with meeting for breakfast. Wouldn’t evening would be better, so people could get crunk?
I tried that…
bitchers apparently like to drink alone and only congregate around eggs and hollandaise.
We could always take over a pub around supper one Saturday…
libate like a motherfucker, start a bonfire by the waterfront, and dance around it like we lost our civilization…
lol..yeah, that’s just what we need. Can you imagine? We can barely get along posting anonymously online. Just imagine the spectacular clusterfuck that would transpire if you threw a few quarts of hooch into the mix. It’d be like a dysfunctional family Thanksgiving dinner.
(And this is just FYI no fool. Please don’t take it as criticism or finding fault: It’s not actually breakfast, it’s more of a brunch cuz the summits usually start at around noon-ish. The restaurant that the last couple were held at has a pretty good menu with a good mix of both breaky and lunch type dishes.)
I think everyone just needs to decompress a bit, here. Like you say, it’s like high school all over again and personally, that’s a period of my life that I’d rather not re-live, thank you very much. People are just getting too wrapped around the axle about meaningless shit, real or perceived; IMHO of course. Let’s just chalk it up to mis-communication/crossed wires and leave it at that. I honestly don’t think that ANYONE was intentionally left out or shunned. Please, don’t take it personally. If/when there is another summit, I think we can all make an effort to help spread the word. 🙂
That being said, there is nothing preventing anyone from organizing their own LTWWB get together. Make if for evening, morning, 11:13 at night, whatever. It’s all good. Keep us posted.
I never said you didn’t send it, suckers — please copy and paste one quote with me saying you didn’t send an email. What I said was i never RECEIVED said email. persevere is right — sometimes technology fucks up. But, i refuse to lay down like a doormat and have you go ballistic on me for something that wasn’t my fault. If you don’t have enough brain cells to rub together to realize the fact that a) I never said or implied you were a liar and b) that technology can fuck up, than that’s your problem, man, not mine.
And no fool: if people don’t want to email me because I’m ‘abrasive’ than fine. We’ve had many newbies join us and everyone’s had a great time, so if someone’s too uptight to email me and ask for details because I’m ‘abrasive,’ than it’s their loss.
No skin off my ass, and it’s also not my responsibility to keep myself awake at night worrying if every single bitcher saw the call out for invites and my email. I’ve posted the bitcher email on here many many times, and if you can ‘recall’ random crap so easily, I’m sure you can either a) find said email, or I dunno b) ask about the summit/for my email. Taking the initiative… imagine that — there are hundreds of people registered here to post on the bitch board and only one of me, who, I might add, has a full time job and no time to make sure each and everyone of you has that info. If you don’t see where I post it, well then too bad for you, I guess.
Newbies are always ALWAYS welcome, but at this point, the crap I keep getting from those who have never bothered to attend or have never even met me, I really don’t care enough to bother making sure everyone is included. You wanna come? Email me (prettykittylady@gmail.com). But aside from that, I’m taking no extra effort to make sure your ‘delicate’ ass is invited (or anyone else’s over sensitive ass).
I can’t fucking believe how I’m being treated by you people after I attempt to do something nice. And it’s always the ones who don’t put any effort into anything, including coming, like TTFN’s stated in another thread. So, yeah, y’all haters can suck the shit right out of my ass.
I think if anybody wants to go a summit, they should take the initiative and ask somebody on here that they know goes to one. “Hey TTFN, I understand you guys have summits from time to time. I’d like to go. How does one go about arranging that?” It’s unrealistic to think PK is going to invite all one thousand bitchers that come and go on this site.
I don’t know if many of you have tried to organize a number of people for any event whether it be co-workers, family, whatever, it can be like trying to herd cats. Somebody always has a problem with something.
I think PK can speak for herself no_fool but the suck ass comments were a response to being attacked. Were the responses inappropriate? Maybe but impropriety often rules here.
Drinking alone … I’m not going to say I haven’t done it, but ?!?
I’m up for hittin’ a pub Zed … as long as I don’t have my lil’ peeps, I’m in. Might get a little supper time matinee too. If you’re serious … so am I.
The average age of the regulars is old I’m assuming. God damn….I’m 16. I can’t go to pubs 🙁
Thanks, Troodon. I don’t arbitrarily throw out nasty things like that, but I also have no intention of sitting around and being a doormat so people will like me. Perhaps those statements were a bit harsh, but there’s been a lot worse said on here. But again, if shittyd, more-on, jim shapiro, your mom, etc… don’t like me? *shrug* oh well. I’ll keep on living just the same.
ANYWAY, I’m great with a pub/dinner time affair, however, the reason why we’ve had our summits when we do is because ivan works on Saturdays ALLL day, it can be hard to get people to come to things after work (esp on fridays when people are tired from the week), and the early time was a suggestion from wheelie, one of our most cherished bitchers, at the beginning, and we just kept up with that because brunch is the best of both worlds (acceptable to drink, you can have breakfast AND you can have lunch).
There’s nothing saying we have to stick exclusively to the same ol’. We can *gasp* even vary the locale!
In fact, the grawood at dal is having a 90s night with maestro fresh wes on Friday. Bitchers should come out! I believe thomas will be joining me… so y’all should too 🙂 It’s only 5 bucks.
There is something seriously wrong with a society where a giant radioactive lizard is considered old enough to drive a car or level a japanese city but isn’t allowed to vote or order a beer in a public house.
Damned neo-cons and their sinister agenda. Get Jesse Ventura on the phone. Now!
Weren’t you 14 two days ago, zilla?
DAMN godzilla ages quickly.
It’s a leap year?
Makes sense.
90s!??!?!? I’ll be there 😀 😀 I gotta buy some plaid now..
I fear that people who are unsure about the summits may not come now :(. Please come! This bickering does not happen… we’re loud at times but it’s always laughter! Come often enough and Ivan may craft you something beautiful :D!
Planning shit for a large group (heck, even like a group of 5 people) is a fucking bitch. Anytime I’ve asked friends to hang out somewhere, it’s like pulling teeth. If I don’t actively and repeatedly pester them, no one will be coming. Some of them can’t even be bothered to use Google Maps to find the location or plan their bus routes! It’s not something I enjoy doing or would volunteer to do, so thank you PK for always doing it :D!!
I’d hazard a guess that a LTWWB pub crawl would rake in the coinage….
though to test the waters, I think a one-pub congregation would be fun.
(there’s no shortage of potential shirts out there too…
http://rlv.zcache.com/i_love_bitch_t_shirt…
http://www.shop2wear.com/images/Biker-T-Sh…
)
It appears I’m free Friday night…
That’s sweet, Mel. Y’know, it’s not in me to judge, but (falls on floor laughing and wets pants ROFLMAOAWMP)
wait, where was I?
Zed sez: We could always…libate like a motherfucker, start a bonfire by the waterfront, and dance around it like we lost our civilization…
That would be awesome! Those of us who couldn’t make it could watch on the halifax web cam!
I’m free too. We gunna get all drunk and start fighting people. LTWWB crew fucking shit up.
I’ll wear my fighting underwear and bring some lube. Nothing is more frightening than a lubed up guy in his underwear.
oi come on ya wankers. aye ill fight ye.
The summits are AWESOME. Everyone always has a great time! It’s so far removed from the board it’s not even funny. I mean there are lots of running jokes from the board and stuff, but the board isn’t real life and all we ever do is eat eggs benny, drink caesars and laugh our internal organs raw. And it says something that after we all get together the comments on here are effing GLOWING because we all leave glowing.
And I’ve always said: the more the merrier.
Anyway, so mel and ‘gasmatron are in? What about you, zed? I *think* donarious might be making an appearance! WEAR YOUR FUNKIEST NEONS, GUYS! Prizes for best 90s dressed hip hopster!
lucky you…
I’ll be headed to the luxurious town that managed to make a strong finish at 190th place (out of 190) on Canada’s livable cities.
If ever there were a need for the saying, “nice place but I wouldn’t want to live there”
I fucking DARE you to show up, zilla, on Friday.
I DOUBLE DAWG DARE YOU.
Yes, a pub crawl and a scavenger hunt!
one more t shirt for the victimized: http://www.foulmouthshirts.com/Designs/FYY…
Maestro, as in Maestro Fresh Wes? As in Private Symphony, the greatest love jam of all time? Do you have to be a Dal student to attend? I thought that is how the Grawood rolled…
I’m sorry, but I don’t do neon. Also, the Grawood is open to everybody. Sometimes they even have wet/dry events.
I don’t need Maestro to “Let My Backbone Slide”. I’m at that age where it does that alllll by itself.
YES FS THAT’S THE MAESTRO.
If you’re under 19 you have to be a Dal student, otherwise the Grawood is open to everybody.
Tickets are 5 bucks and you can get them at the info desk in the student union building. 🙂
PS: Vastie — aw c’mon! It’ll be fun! You denied me the pleasure of seeing yo’ hawt ass on sunday…. 😉 lolz <3
Can’t think of a reason not to attend. I do know all the words to most of those songs. Or I did in 1989.
I’ma be there, in my flyest and most ridiculous of hip hop attire. Don’t miss it.
“libate like a motherfucker” *writes down* I plan to use that phrase. Thanks Xeno.
As for ’90s night … I would love to to go! Really, however school is taking much of my time at the moment (finals and shit). And when it’s not doing that … its walls are ripping me to shreds (I got a hurt aujourd hui), literally, blood and everything, got me lookin’ all crippled limping to the Bio. office … fudge. It’s ok though.
… hmm maybe I’ll camp in the Lib. and walk in the SUB later. Hmm hmmm mhmm.
Mayhaps.
… in any event, have a great time guys! I know you all will.