Looking back upon our break-up. I can say in confidence that your actions towards me continually demonstrated an exceptional disregard for my mental wellbeing, not to mention a continual disrespect of your girlfriend who likely had no idea that you remained in my life for months following the end of our relationship. The acknowledgement of your lies, cheating, and repeated manipulations have left me with nothing but sadness for you. While I have moved on and recognized the incredible value of a partnership based on honesty, integrity and true love…you continue to share our home with an innocent woman whom you have repeatedly cheated on.
On that note, I’ve said it before and I’m going to say it ONE more time before I decide to write this on your Facebook wall. Stop fucking texting me you giant douche bag. P.S. I’m fucking serious. I never write you back and It’s been two years. —If my boyfriend sees one more text from you on my phone he’s going to go postal.
This article appears in Oct 17-23, 2013.
Why is it still “our home” that he shares with his GF? Do you still own property together? I can recommend a good realtor.
If you were being mistreated for so long…phone number would have been changed long ago.
Can’t you block him? I don’t know squat about ‘texting’ (and don’t ever want to know – adults engaging in electronic note passing is such a fucking turn off) so I’m not sure it’s even possible.
“he’s going to go postal” you mean he’s going on strike?
You moved on? You still have him on FB ffs ….. next year when you are in grade nine it will all make sense.
Seriously.. are you enjoying this? A guy is following you relentlessly and clearly trying to cheat on his current with you and your strategy of choice is to write an anonymous letter to the coast? Because op.. these ARE anonymous.
I dunno.. if that’s your strategy to remove an unwanted presence, my guess is that there is this part of you that is not only enjoying this attention but enjoying the harm he is doing to his current partner.
And he is doing harm.
Now. As for a more intelligent, proactive and not bitchy strategy… (IF this is what you want.. still not totally sure)
If you post it on his wall, he’ll just delete it or hide it. His girlfriend may see it before he does but i’m guessing a dog like this already keeps his wall posts private to only himself, as well as his friend’s list. So i think that’s a pretty stupid plan you have there.
If you want to bring this thing to light, you have to target a source he can’t control. Take it right to her. And include screenshots of his texts because she’s not going to believe you.
Then block his sorry ass.
Seriously. Why are you letting this go on? (And you’re not fooling anyone because you ARE – and you may find yourself single again if you don’t respect your CURRENT and put a stop to this one way or the other)
I bet the OB is flirting with her ex and showing her tits off still.
If someone wants to, genuinely, get rid of their ex, it shall be done. Period.
Nurse, want to have a beer with me?
Even if op isn’t still wanting the ex’s attention, she’s enjoying the drama.
I had a stalker ex op that makes YOUR stalker ex look like little miss muffet, ok? The guy tried to extort money from me, told all our mutual friends he caught MAJOR STDs from me (Got tested. Clean. Of course.) threatened my current with JAIL TIME (My current has never even broken the law, let alone gotten caught doing so) and called constantly.
See op my ex was a spoiled, rich little narcissist. Who basically went into a complete meltdown whenever life didn’t work to his exact specifications.
You know why this person didn’t bother me? Why i didn’t go around lamenting to social media about how dramatic my life was?
– New email address
– New phone number
– Blocked on facebook and twitter (Actually THIS was harder than anything else since my ex just kept making new accounts. But you just IGNORE AND BLOCK and keep going on with your day)
I had even tried to file a restraining order and they will tell you to do these things before they even entertain the idea of filing one.
Once I did these things, the need for a protective order went away.
These are simple things op. These are not brilliant schemes hidden in the echelons of manipulative ex-management.
So you see op? You’re feeding off this attention and if i were in a relationship with someone who did that, it wouldn’t take me long to move on.
You’re going to lose your newest victim soon if you’re not careful.
I say any woman here who actually been harassed by an ex sees through this pathetic attempt at complaint. ‘oh poor me, my ex loves me so much he can’t let go’
uh huh.