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Although I tend to date men my own age, I don’t discriminate when it comes to friendships and networking; I have friends young and old, male and female. Yet, I’m beginning to see a pattern among my older (50+) male friends to which they are oblivious.
Three of these men are divorced, unhappy and only date much younger women. The men claim that’s what they’re ATTRACTED to, they can’t help it. Age is nothing but a number, they quip.
Me and one of the guys go for coffee, he always complains about his 25 year old girlfriend who parties too much while he foots the bill and suspects she is seeing much younger men (men her own age) behind his back.
Another of these men is full silverback, wears the same clothes all the time, has a certain dank smell about him and says he likes exciting sex that only 20 year olds on POF can offer. He wonders why he is so unlucky in love. After two dates, he offers the young women free room and board in his house if she will be his girlfriend (mother, maid and warm place to put it).
Another of these men pushing 60, has succeeded in finding a live in early thirties trophy; although she’s a bit homely-looking, she’s cute enough for him. She cooks for him, gambles her best years for free rent in his home in the boonies… yet he feels something is missing and pines for someone a bit sexier, perhaps a blonde.
All of these men complain about how miserable they are, how unfulfilled they are in their relationships. They long for reciprocal hot young things, great sex (even though they probably have limp dicks) and loyalty. And they actually yearn for real love. But they are a 2 on the hotness scale and compared to them their young things are 10’s. They think because they have a couple bucks they can buy this kind of real love for which they yearn from a woman decades younger. Why to impress their friends? To date someone their own kids age, are they perverted? Daddy Warbucks, you may be kind… and rich compared to a 20 year old college student just starting out…. but that’s all you have to offer these women. When you look for love without integrity karma will give you what you deserve every time. You might be able to buy a bit of fun. A moment of fantasy. An ego boost for a night. But you can’t buy love. As much as you claim otherwise, your intentions were not good or honorable. They were never based on love. Your antics will succeed in jading these women against men and against true love. Everybody’s got a price but what are you really buying? A lie. Stop being a delusional prick. Look in a mirror. You are an old, wrinkled, ugly, sagging mess. It’s not gonna happen. Go back to your wives if they will have you or find someone your own age. You might actually have half a hope in hell of finding the real thing, you dirty old man!
—Daddy issues
This article appears in May 28 – Jun 3, 2015.
It would appear someone can’t find a Daddy of her own?! Why are you angry with those Daddies? Let me guess: you’re as pretty as the 20-somethings and prettier than the 30-something but you still can’t get them to pay attention to you. I’ll bet it’s your nasty attitude!
No I agree with poster. These old farts never get it and cant understand why they’re not happy. The same goes for a lot of cougars. Its why we should abandon old people on deserted islands like the Inuit did.
Geeze HAy_Zues calm down, did this hit too close to home? I happen to notice the same shit and agree myself, the op brings up some good points.. some weeeeeird shit starts happening to SOME of these older guys. You remember being 20 and having some saggy tit, too much make up with fake boobs bimbo hitting on you? IT WAS WEIRD!! I don’t blame op for getting snappy about it. POWER TO YA GURL FREEEEEND!
Well to be clear, I’m gay so the dynamic is completely different from the straight world.
The interesting thing about this bitch is she calls them her friends but then turns around and calls them dirty old men. Given that, I feel justified in my assertions.
This is not just for ”old men” regarding the mother, maid and warm place to put it. Many guys in their mid-20’s want to have it all but face the realization they cannot afford luxuries on their own so find a girl in a bar and soon afterward discuss moving in with them ”since they spend most of their time here anyway”. This provides them a break on rent, utilities and groceries as it is now ”shared”. They can now manage car payments, an apartment they could not manage solely on their income and ‘a warm place to put it’.
A few short months later there are two miserable people who did not know each other very well finding they are stuck because they are in a lease and neither can afford to stay alone. Most times it is tolerable but overall both are counting down the months until it becomes time to put in the ‘notice to quit’ at the apartment.
Maybe if they showered more often.
Would they not then be clean old men ?
Not dirty old men but rather sexy senior citizens. Why blame the men? If the get a younger woman then the younger woman is also to “blame”. It takes two to tango. Maybe the OB, who sounds like a woman, is jealous or something. If she is young, she can’t find a rich, old guy or if she’s a cougar she can’t find a young guy. Either way, it is none of business and I can’t understand why she is getting so upset with something that is perfectly legal.
A YOUNG HOT PIECE OF ASS
“Everybody’s got a price but what are you really buying?” Daddy issues
With the exception of those old men who are natively stupid, they are not delusional. What they are really buying is a young hot piece of ass. And there’s a name for them. They will soon be flooding into Montreal for the Formula One races. Where there is a buyer, there’s always a market.
A pleasure as always,
Cheerio!
I would turn to each and every one of them and ask:
“HAVE YOU LOOKED IN A FUCKING MIRROR LATELY??”
Future perverts for the nursing home.
9 out of 10 middle aged secretaries at a Chippendale’s Show agree – “Older Men Need To Grow Up When It Comes To ess-eee-exx”
they clearly just haven’t found the right gold-digger yet…
just looking for a little “stodden” syndrome.
This is also not just about old, greasy men…
but about older people IN GENERAL.
(Lookin at you too, cougars of the night)
The sad thing about it, this is a trend I’m seeing on both ends of the spectrum.
I’m very saddened to see how many young women, 19 to about 25 or so, sometimes a little older, that are willing to date such men you call your friends (surprised you’re friends with them) for money. It’s the “it” thing to do now. Same with the more mature women.
I agree with Bro Tim!
People get married too young, than by the time they hit 55, there sick of seeing the same partner everyday, realize they have nothing in common, and haven’t had sex in maybe 10 years…..life’s never greener on the other side, but i guess only a fool has to realize that for themselves.
No sex for 10 years? So glad I’m gay!
You have a lot of interest in other people’s business it seems.