I’m not a shallow female. I talk to anyone, regardless of their appearance, status, etc. This, ladies, is what gets us the “bitch” label. How so, you may ask. We speak to guys, including the ones who do nothing, have nothing, and when they ask us out, because we’re being nice, and if we say no, we’re evil bitches. These are usually the ones who make no effort to even look presentable. Hairy beer gut? Order those extra pizzas every night. Drink the endless beer. Crappy/no job? Make sure you stick it out! Never strive for anything better. I mean, as long as you’re “nice” to a hot chick, that means you totally deserve her. She should look forward to a future filled with struggling/just getting by while her husband parks his lazy ass on the sofa. Just don’t forget to stay hot, thin, and well-kept! Oh, and this is to the guys who never listen to a girl tell them no and insist that they go out with them, anyway. It’s really irritating. If I’m not attracted to you in any way, what makes you believe that persistence will pay off? Do you really want a girlfriend you got only by begging? —Not even a hot chick myself
This article appears in Mar 3-9, 2011.
interesting bitch.
I’m not sure what I did (other than being male and living in halifax) to be clumped up in this rant… but it would seem you missed the comma… angel.
that should read
“interesting, bitch.”
Not sure Zed, but I believe the Men of Halifax have moved a little farther down the alphabet on this one.
Problem is, these men likely get so little attention that any time someone DOES pay some attention to them they a) like it a little too much and b) get the wrong idea.
I’m not saying I agree with OP’s bitch or anything, but I can certainly see how such a situation would arise.
OB, I understand what you’re trying to say, you’re just stating it wrong. You come across as being pretty shallow.
I know people, who are thin, fit, good looking, employed, well off, and complete assholes…
so, o.p., are you available or what? we want and need to know. yes, all us horny men, and some soso men.
I feel bad and i haven’t done anything. Why is courting a one way street anyway? I hate all the bitches who know that going out on dates means your getting free meals and drinks all night and take advantage of it. Or the same women who say they want a man with ambition and a good job so they can be the trophy wife or have a shitty job. I thought we got over all this men should be looking after the women and have better jobs and crap.
I think she has a valid point, if she doesn’t want to go out with you, then get over it and find someone who does/will. Geez, was it that hard to figure out?
I know the men who ask me out have no intention on springing for the whole date. It’s especially bad if you meet one off of a popular dating site (which I’ve since stopped going on)…you then manage to get a guy with so-so employment who bitches about having to buy so much as a coffee (i learned to get there early and buy my own). Get into the situation where you end up having to pay the entire thing- and dude still expects sex. Why? “I’m a nice guy, and girls always expect you to buy them stuff.”
OB…I tried to read that…but by the 2nd sentence it all turned into , yip yip yip yip yip yip yip yip yip, yip yip yip. Yip yip yip yip yip yip ….
& I thought J E S U S , i think this is my ex wife !
Not all men are bad, let’s just say that from the get go.
I had an unforgettable experience a few weekends ago. I was downtown around 11 at bar for a gf’s birthday. They were dancing and I was sitting at the bar waiting for drinks … nice enough guy comes up to me, and I’m like whatever let’s chat. Lovely chat for about 20mins, then he gets up, asks me to go downtown to his place, when I reject he goes “there’s so many girls out there and not enough men. If I were to sleep with you, I’d be doing you a favour!” To which I said, “is that right” he responds “I’d rock your world, you need me bitch” … yup, called me a bitch and stormed off cause I rejected his advances. Oh and I was in jeans and nice top, no revealing outfits, the advertise the goods so to speak …
I don’t get it sometimes. He was obviously a bad seed and for the moment I had lost hope, but there are great guys out there you just have to go through some bad ones first to find them!
Wear a ring on your left medicine finger. Don’t forget to take it off when you find Mr. Right though.
Two thumbs up Donk. You dodged the bullet on that one, that’s a good thing.
I know that I’m stating the obvious…to people in general, nice guys don’t try to hook up 20 min after meeting somebody.
Even some nice guys try and hook up after 20 mins. The difference is that when you turn them down for that evening they still call in the morning and ask you out again when you’re both sober.
the opposite, are the guys who work out, take care of their wives so they dont have to do anything but pull a shift or two a week. I hate my wife doing anything but the laundry at home, why because she has to stand on her feet at work all day and i absolutely hate doing laundry(but i like to cook and clean the place up). I dont know what does that make me….chauvinist? oh my god you dont LET your wife do the chores…you animal…god help me.