We chatted online for weeks, talked on the phone. You show up in your little pimp-mobile, with your curly little afro puff and jogging suit. For real? A jogging suit on a date? I overlook this and am friendly & polite. We get to the bar, order our drinks while you “forget” to pay the tab in hopes I’ll pick it up. Then answer your cell phone and have a chat at the table. We didn’t even get through our first vodka & cran before you stated (not asked) “I’m staying at your place tonight”. After I laughed in your greasy little face, you say you gotta go to the washroom. Two minutes later, I watch you nonchalantly walk your tracksuit-clad punk ass out the door, leaving me at the bar alone. It’s a good thing I had cab fare to get home. What kind of pathetic excuse for a man strands a girl at a bar on the coldest day of the year? I considered following you to the parking lot and kicking you in the balls. But honestly, I was glad to see you go.
I swear, online dating sucks people! There’s such a plethora of women to choose from on those sites. It’s too easy. It’s like a buffet all laid out for men. As a woman these days you are lucky if you get one date before they expect their repayment (sex). Then they’re back online and on to find an easier target. We are not disposable objects without a brain or heart or feelings. I am a woman not a receptacle for your sperm with tits attached. Women like sex just as much as men; Unfortunately we live in a society that doesn’t like to admit that. A lot of you guys out there would get laid if they just fucking acted right. Have some class douchebags! —Or Go Call a Hooker
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This is brutal, i couldn’t even imagine standing a girl up like that. If your looking online for a date look for a date (i’ve never had a bad online dating experience). If you just want a hookup literally say “I just want a hookup!” It’s not that hard to find either.
Anybody who goes on one of these websites and goes home with their “date” on the first night, is a hooker. That goes for both men and women. That is what this service is used for, it is also what hookers are used for.
Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
Like Ivan stated, you dodged a bullet, and it only cost you a cab ride (and drink tab?).
Thank your lucky star, that you found out sooner, rather than later.
Please tell me it wasn’t POF.
lesbo 🙂
For the record, it is much easier for women and online dating than it is for men. The men to women ratio is way out of proportion. This leads me to believe it was your severe lack of judgement and foresight that you didn’t see this coming.
was it velour?
OB… I’ve never used one of these sites before. So I am unsure about this,
Don’t you have the ability to put information on your page (or whatever its called ) ?
You know something about dickless that you just posted here, identify the sleeze bag so that other ladies would be aware of WHO the dickless wonders are & thereby saving others from accepting a ‘date’ from a loser like you just described.
IF enough people did it ,you could effectively close down the chances he’d pick up any others off that site, or at least that the particular profile etc he’s using would become so recognised he would have to try out another site.
“I’ve never used one of these sites before” – I have (hangs head in shame).
You’re not alowed to flame anybody. It could be about an asshole, yes. But it could also be someone who’s bitter and wants to ruin a rep., so it’s not tolerated.
yes there is some horrible guys on those sites but i went on a few good dates met one of my best friends AND had a great relationship from one.
there is more pigs on there than is right. maybe i was just lucky to meet some of the nice ones
but i had my fair share of dicks on those things
As ironic as this is going to sound considering the content of your post alex…..
dat display picture….fap fap fap fap fap fap fap fap
lol @ pg – “Douche velour”
Now I’m thinking it migh be Disco Stu, or maybe one of these guys….
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Lol @ tracksuit and pimp car!!! Lol @ the fact you kept a straight face, and still went out with him, and then were disappointed with the date. You are a glutten for punishment I’ll give you that. Get some standards!!!
Can’t picture Ol’ Suckers with afro puffs.
J/K Suckster! lol
zilla apaarantly i can not go wrong with you
I kinda agree with that bastard fish…
not sure where the OP’s coming from with some of those comments…
but that date sounds fantastically skeezy.
i guess a good take-away would be to ensure next time you go somewhere that is a little more accessible and convenient. Don’t rely on the ride home in the event a douchebag presents itself and you want to just drop the whole thing.
He also sounds very Young to be doing something like that…
as in, “I’m so young n studly that it ain’t worth it if I have to try” …
that is a very immature and completely garbage attitude…
some older guys are like that to though!!!
they don’t grow up and keep that attitude
a pimp mobile? i didn’t even know they still existed. and what the fuck is a pimp? is that a small pimple that is just starting to grow? or is is something that we have too many of, and trying to export some of them? inquiring minds wanna know.
Online dating….oh god I remember trying it out. It lead me to meet some “special” guys. Many I tried to avoid like a plague after.
Be glad he walked out on you cause he sounded like a ass that would have caused drama in your life.
Hopefully you’ll get lucky to meet someone while out and about doing your usual day to day things.
I always found those were the MORE decent ones when I was single.
Then one day I came across the guy I’m with now and have a beautiful family of my own now :).
Don’t expect too much from online dating. Just hope the guy isn’t a crazy nut and be safe. Got to admit though when you caught them in a lie it was funny to watch them come up with reasons for changing the story.
“i had my fair share of dicks”
BHWAAHAHAHAHAAAAHAHAHAHA aah shit…
unless you’re lucky you’re gonna meet a few, possibly many douchebags before you meet someone you like. That goes for online dating or otherwise. Online I think attracts a lot of lazy and narcissistic people, SETs. Good people are hard to find I always say..
Definitely sounds like the worst date ever, but could have been worse, at least it was quick and painless.
You can’t even spell his name properly and you even have a cheat sheet in front of you, More! LOL
man, I feel very sorry for those old guys…
though they must at least appreciate that they still have their (albeit afro-ish) hair.
I just can’t see anyone over say 25 acting this way…
‘course, doesn’t mean there aren’t.
there’s some really scummy assholes out there.
Hay zed, how’d online dating work out for you?
The first mistake was chatting for weeks before meeting face to face. The second was letting him pick you up (you should have met him somewhere). The third was not trusting your instincts when you saw him and actually going with him.
Learn from it, eventually you’ll laugh about it.
Does your dating site have a way to rate dates? Probably not but too bad for the rest of the ladies on that site.
This guy seems to embrace all that’s wrong with some guys. Consider it a lesson learned.
I will from now on never get into a car with anyone wearing a jogging suit …
That sounds like a miserable time OP, but like others have said, it could have been worse …
You are a better woman then me I would have told him i wasn’t feeling well as soon as I opened the door and seen him in a track style jogging suit he probably smelled like cherries from the scent of his car which probably had plastic spinners on them. At least you have some self esteem some ladies would have thought he was some kinda husslin thug some women are attracted to that took him home after paying for the drinks and made him breakfast and he woulda never left lol
5 DISLIKES…I was kidding!
big, i have never had a fro in my life. hair not right for it. but no, i am more classier than this dude. and some date sites really suck shit. had a nightmare female from one of them.pof, and harder to get rid of than herpies.
fucking near drove me insaner than already am. but have no fear, the suckster still hs all his class, for the right one?????
This is the exact date I would expect from an online dating site.
“Hay zed, how’d online dating work out for you?”
all four hours were a disappointment.
why don’t women respond to profiles telling them they should be happy alone and run for their lives if they ever see me?
Guess I should invest in a track suit and fro from the dolla store yo’
I let you cross the street this morning, zed. Around five after eight.
I said to my dad “I know that guy.”
He said to me “want me to back up and run over him?”
I was like “nah, he’s cool.”
My dad would SERIOUSLY do anything for me! 😛