First off, I am female. Secondly, I’m not perfect and could probably stand to lose a few pounds. However, one of my biggest pet peeves (not to mention fashion faux pas) is when I see 300lb young women (usually see this in the 20s) with short skirts and these tiny stiletto heels that make them look like they are going to break at any moment. I don’t hate fat people I just don’t understand why some people won’t dress more suitable for their body type. There are nice plus sized clothing out there. I don’t want to see your rolls of fat hanging over your gut while you sport a tiny tank top. I’m subject to this almost daily while I wait to pick up my husband from work. I don’t think you are ugly but you really need a reality check. You ARE morbidly obese not the skinny hot chick that you think you are. —Reality will Eventually Sink In

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  1. I love it when their feet are so fat that rolls of foot fat hangs over the side of the shoe.

    That sounds really mean, but it’s true.

    And I know you’re going to get flamed up the ass, OP, but I think you have a point — people can dress how they want, but it doesn’t make a size 20 trying to squeeze into a size 14 attractive to those who have to look at them.

    You can ALWAYS find flattering clothing for your size and shape. For instance: I’m apple shaped, but when I wear dresses with a waist just above the natural waist and a form fitting top with ruching and a sweetheart neckline and an a-line biased cut skirt I actually look 20lbs lighter and I actually look like I’m NOT straight up and down. And it hides the fuller lower tummy part.

    Smocking in the bust area with an empire waist and a-line skirt looks good on me too. Highlights my rack and puts the focus up there from the tummy area. *shrug*

    Meanwhile, pencil skirts look like ASS on me.

  2. Watching What Not To Wear when I was married I’ve accumulated all these clothes ideas. PK, is that an “Empire” waist, or as I deliberately missay, “Up(to)Here” waist.
    Play up your plusses, take attention away from what you think are your negatives.
    I agree, big girls on stilts in a sausage casing, not the best look.
    I find anyone with good clothes for their body more attractive.
    And hips. God I fucking loves hips.

    There’s music in the expression
    of your walk that says, “I am for you”.
    -wp

  3. Most of what PK said just went straight over my head. (heh that rhymes)

  4. The empire waist is the waist just under the boobs. Gotta be careful though — if you have an OMGHUGE gut, empire waists (esp with a-line skirts) can make you look knocked up.

    One of the best fashion tips I’ve ever received is this: every woman needs at least one ‘fuck me’ dress in their closet.

  5. Could you be more specific? You could be referring to 75% of all the women in the province, or are you?

  6. Most women look ridiculous in heels. If you can’t walk in them, they’re NOT sexy.

  7. Also, what OP is describing sounds like Ms. Piggy syndrome. Britney Spears had that going on for a while.

  8. i can’t walk in them but i see gals trying and the guys too. i find some men walk better in heels than women…ankle strength

  9. Heels look good on some people if they can walk in them. I’ve always looked nice in a heel, but i can’t walk in ’em because of a lack of balance from when I tore all the ligaments in my right ankle. I found a pair this weekend that has an inch skinny heel and that’s all I can take.

    I’d love to be able to wear a 3 inch heel 🙁

  10. Im fat and I wear heels, love you shoedazzle, love you. I also wear clothing that fits my body. Clothing 5 sizes too tight isnt my thing but I’ll be damned if I wear butchy flat shoes. I like when I see girls who look like donkeys or giraffes in heels that are too high for them – this happens to skinnies and fatties. Why cant we just address the fact that people shouldnt wear shoes they cant walk in? And that you shouldnt be oozing out of your clothing no matter what your size?

  11. fear entwined with regret kitty – get thee to a physio, strengthen that ankle and get the heels back in your life!!! SO WORTH IT

  12. Judging someone else based solely on there weight doesn’t make you look confident or tough. it makes you look jaded and bitter.

    I have been on both sides of the scale, as small as 114 and as big as almost 300. So I feel like I have a ability to justify why you are a great example of what is wrong with today’s society. Woman hating on other woman based solely on looks.

    It is evident that the media has gone too far with you too think that those photos in the magazines are true in real life. No body fat, No cellulite etc.

    Its also obvious that you have never had to shop for plus size clothing because you are completely wrong about there being lots of nice plus size clothing. All of the plus size clothing is geared toward woman in there mid 30’s and 40’s

    You have no idea why the girl you speak about is the way she is, she could be depressed, she could have medical problems, she could have body dysmorphia for god sake. You have no right to judge anyone.

    I know tons of plus size girls who have more confidence about themselves then you ever will.

    I think you are the one who needs a reality check; The reality is that woman are beautiful no matter how much they weigh.

  13. I get a laugh out of women wearing clothes that are way too small for them especially those black tights worn as pants.

  14. THEORIZING FEMALE BEAUTY

    “beaut’y (n.) – Combination of qualities, as shape, proportion, colour, in human face or form that delights the eye.” (The Concise Oxford Dictionary)

    What we have here, of course, is a classical philosophical dilemma, i.e. are there objective criteria in terms of which female beauty might be impartially assessed or, as the saying goes, is it all relative, all “in the eye of the beholder?” In other words, is the assessment of beautiful women based upon factors which would normally win inter-subjective assent or is it necessarily idiosyncratic, an outcome of subjective judgement. There are difficulties with both approaches.

    One can in theory and in conformity with the given definition, advance criteria of “shape, proportion and colour in her face and form which delight the eye” but, and here is the tricky part, it is the determination of the combination of these factors which undermines strict impartiality. But does this mean that it is all subjective, all “in the eye of the beholder?”

    It seems counter-intuitive that the radically subjective view can “go through,” as the expression has it. That there exist broad parameters within which beauty can conceivably said to flourish is undeniable, but beyond those parameters one must discount the claim. The question then arises as to just where these parameters might be established.

    So there we are. Philosophical reflection has not secured a compelling definition of beauty but, perhaps only incrementally, it has advanced the discussion beyond the start line.

    A pleasure as always.

    Cheerio!

  15. I don’t care what she wears. Who really cares. It doesn’t mattttter. Just don’t look. My God.

  16. Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it Bro. Have you?

    There was a cute little number who worked on my ward. Used to wear 5 inch heeled white pumps with her nurse’s uniform. Strapped me onto a gurney and wheeled me into a broom closet and wouldn’t let me out until I was raw.

  17. Wow, zzz linked a Mcqueen shoe… I was slightly impressed until I realized it was unintentional.

    Lulz.

  18. LOL OP. I saw two fats chicks yesterday at the grocery store. One had back-breasts…..truly funny. They jiggled as she walked. The other one had a top that let about 2-3 inches of belly/back exposed, with her cellulite spilling out over her jeans. It was much more than your typical muffin top.

  19. I LOVE larger ladies.. nothing like a big round booty to make my day… footwear should be comfortable, especially if you’re someone who has to stand all day.

    I love them all… I used to “troll” Penningtons just to have a peek at all the big girls..

    I even used to pretend to be shopping for my wife/girlfriend, so I could just enjoy the view.

    Some of the staff knew I was just there to check out the gorgeous big girls…

  20. IS OBESITY AN UNDERCLASS MARKER?

    “One can never be too rich or too thin.”

    Wallis Warfield Simpson

    Wallis Warfield Simpson, The American divorcée whose impending marriage to Edward VIII forced him to abdicate in 1936 as a king was not permitted to marry a divorced woman (and an American at that!) offered us this thought for today. After her marriage to the Duke of Windsor, as he then became, the Duchess of Windsor enjoyed an opulent lifestyle primarily in Paris, at least after the War. So Wallis was rich. She was also thin, very thin. Ultimately she joined the Duke in his tomb under the floor of St. George’s Chapel, Windsor Castle. The question for us, however, is was she right? Is obesity an underclass marker?

    At first glance this is a straightforward empirical question: To determine its truth one must (a) define obesity and then (b) survey an adequate sample of obese people and rank them in terms of class affiliation (i.e. a compilation of class markers to include income, education, club memberships, sporting activities and so on).

    However, difficulties arise at the first step, in defining obesity. What constitutes the baseline body/mass index and how was it determined? Does it vary with fashion over time? Would a Victorian, for example, fail the obesity test yet not be a member of the Underclass? Would an anorexic pass although in fact she was a member?

    Similar difficulties attach to ranking in terms of class affiliation. What about the person who had a high income yet minimal educational attainment? In other words, what would be the required level of correspondence between income, education, and so on in order to firmly establish class membership?

    Not an easy question, but I bet Wallis could answer it.

    A pleasure as always.

    Cheerio!

  21. There is, again, a considerable difference between “plus size” and “morbidly obese”. One can be described as somewhat chubby but considering current health trends it could describe the average figure in the population. Morbidly obese is something else entirely and 300lb (for smaller than, say, 5’4″) would be in the very lower bracket of that range.

    Flaps of fat should not cover the majority of worn clothes in any situation. (no, I won’t post sample pictures. eyebleach isn’t on sale until next week)

    The BMI, in its simplicity, is rather faulty as it does not take into account bone mass and muscle mass. It is, at best, a very rough approximation of the recommended average but the deviation window is positively huge.

  22. Now this is a more realistic ‘trap’ annie.

    Or, are you trying to borrow credence from famous people again?

    So…Elvis, Marlon Brando, and Delta Burke exhibit(ed) underclass markers. Okey Dokey.

    Why do you ask questions that (ahem) ‘require deep thought’, yet none of your statements seem to contain any?

    http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c225/vol…

  23. —–IS OBESITY AN UNDERCLASS MARKER?

    “One can never Not an easy question, but I bet Wallis could answer——

    Or Henry VIII

    🙂
    Pass the drum stick!

  24. GLUTTONY

    I’ve been thinking over my last two posts on the question of obesity and they seem inconclusive. “Theorizing Female Beauty” and “Is Obesity an Underclass Marker?” give general theoretical approaches to the issue without, however, going into the root cause. The question I want to ask is, if obesity for the most part is the result of gluttony, what is gluttony the result of? This will require some psychological deep-diving.

    I want to argue that gluttony is largely, although not of course exclusively, a female issue and arises from the role food plays in the female psyche. Gluttony is another of the seven deadly sins since it precludes devotion to one’s quest for the beatific vision, but we won’t be going there today. But food does play a role in religious observance. Think of the sacrament of Communion in the Roman Catholic Church where one the priest, offerinbg the host, intones, “Take and eat in commemoration of Me.” It seems to me, however, that this dovetails with the symbolic connection food has with the female.

    Traditionally, it is the female who prepares and serves the meal. This has deep psychological significance for the female since, symbolically as with Christ, she is sharing her body with her family to eat. It could be argued that food and its preparation has a religious dimension for the wife and mother. For the child, particularly for the daughter, to eat the food prepared for her by the mother also has deep symbolic significance. She is entering into communion with the mother. She has become part of her body. But where does gluttony come in?

    I want to argue that the female glutton has experienced some psychological loss in respect to her mother. The mother could have simply died or might be absent in other, perhaps psychological respects. There is an absence, a loss. It is to fill this ansence or loss that the glutton struggles to compensate. Her need, being psychological, is bottomless. It is never satisfied. She eats without restraint.

    Well that’s my take on gluttony. What’s yours?

    A pleasure as always.

    Cheerio!

  25. you’re mean! Bigger ladies have the right just as much as skinny girls to wear what they want to wear. If they have the confidence to do so then stop being a prissy Bitch and look somewhere else.

  26. now what are fat chicks doing with granola bars????

    surely they’d opt for a jos louis…

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