So, you said you liked me. The very next day, you act as if you’re the most wanted man on this face of the planet, and told me I had “competition,” because this old bitch of a “lover” was coming back into town. You then proceeded to mess with my head saying that this Miss Competition and I should be friends. Also, you pointed out that you wouldn’t even like to be in a relationship right now, and that I was competing for a “good fuck”.
My god, and here I thought you were kinda sweet, and one of the few guys left in the world who would like to have a normal, progressive relationship. Wrong! Get off your high horse and realize that my whole world doesn’t revolve around you. —I’m Not That Cheap, and You’re Not That Good
This article appears in Apr 26 – May 2, 2012.
OB, as children we all think we are the centre of the Universe. Luckily for most people as they get older they realise that they are just one of many living on a little blue speck of dust in a vast universe.
Sounds like this guy has gotten older, but has never grown beyond the little boy phase.
Be happy, you’ve ducked a bullet, or should I say in this case….a dud !
The guy was probably imagining a ‘threesome’ – just what this festering knob needs, two women fawning over him like some cut-rate Playboy spread. Be glad to rid yourself of this goddam tool – he has no fucking respect for anyone.
Well I guess you better start training for the big competition, you don’t want to lose out on a winner like this due to poor stamina. Eat right, do lots of crunches, and don’t forget to eat your wheaties.
Intimating you have competition is a douche-nozzle move.
There’s technically ALWAYS competition out there… but a real man wants his gal to feel like there ISN’T.
He’s a pompous, self-centered jerk just like all the other boys trying to get a quick score.
wow just wow i couldn’t even imagine saying this to a female. Become friends with his old lover and both kick him to the curb
..so often men with “confidence” are a danger to themselves..and the
gender specifically
Wow. That is just awful OP! I’ve known some terrible boys but none that were so upfront about how much of a douchebag they were.
Uh, what makes the old flame a bitch? The fact that she fell for the same loser that you did?
I dated a guy like this once, OB, and trust me, the self-respect you will lose is not worth it. Forget about him.
Consider him a speed bump with a dick.
The sad thing is that this actually works on some people. Don’t be one of those people OP. Anyone worth dating is gonna have options, and also be mature enough to still devote their attention to one person. He clearly doesn’t think much of you, he’s a waste of your time and energy.
as soon as any guy tells me i have competition i’m gone. a eoman shouldn’t oblige to a comment like that, becoming a piece in his game. they don’t get to see my best until i know they’ll be there for me when i’m at my worst and guys that say things like that will not be there when the time of need comes
Make him get off the high horse and butt fuck it?
aah, no, that’s feckin gross
like a twizzler through a TP tube…
confidence shouldn’t be mistaken for arrogance here.
This guy is quite the piece of work OP. A man, in every sense of the word, does not treat a lady like that. Doesn’t treat anybody like that for that matter. He’s a narcissist and a good person to stay away from.
OB, is there a chance that you were PMSing and heard more than he was saying?
Wow. that is the exact same sitch that happened to me not too long ago… it’s surprising how many pompous assholes are in this city, that actually think they can gain a 3some through this tactic… You definitely win in this situation by ditching this loser and keeping your self respect!
He’s a fucking liar! I’m the most wanted man in the world.
o.p., he isn’t, but i am, and can be had easily, ask anyone, seriously.
I was once told … and I quote “I’d be doing you a favour by dating you, cause there are so many women out here, you need me” I thought it was a joke. No, he was dead C. Lil’ old me has never moved faster out of a situation in my life, and don’t regret it.
wow, well as me dear old mum would say “first of may, first of may, outdoor screwing starts today
Quit expecting relationship to come outta hookups. This ain’t a rom-com and you ain’t Jennifer Aniston, honey. Ah yeah they all talk a big game when they’re tryin to get what they want from you. Like do you really believe, “Oh baby, I’m so glad I met you… I could really SEE myself with a girl like you” … Don’t be so damn naive. If you want to fuck – then by all means go out and fuck. Glove it and love it like you’re never gonna see it again cuz you probably won’t. … but don’t expect the world (or anything) from these “progressive” dingleberries. That’s what they are – clinging on to the nearest hole at closing time. Wouldn’t you rather hit up pizza corner for a big slice on the way home to B.O.B?
He’s a douche so why are you calling his ex a bitch? because she won and you lost?
I’d argue she didn’t win much anyway..
Or i dunno.. maybe he DOES want a normal progressive relationship. With his ex.
Ahem ……………. as the possible ex in question here ………… may I comment that I was only there for the sex this time myself? As soon as he asked me to commit I laffed and left. So if you’re giving him another chance right now ……………….. don’t …………… it’s only cause I walked away that he suddenly decided to “casually” swing by wherever you ran into him at …………… DEF stalker tendencies!!!! Get my name from him and FB me ……….. we’ll chat …………… and hopefully you’ll see the light Waaaaayyyyyyyy before I did!