I know a few weeks back I confronted you about taking your shoes and socks off and THEN proceeded to picking the toe jam from your feet and not washing your hands. I could tell my gender was not clear to you then. I know the since then you have been watching me and trying to figure it out for weeks.
But get over it. Stop stalking me trying to figure it out. And in particular stop looking at my crotch.
It won’t reveal my secrets. —Genderqueer
This article appears in Sep 26 – Oct 2, 2013.


In some cultures a symbolic offering of toecheese is the first step in the intricate protocol involved in acquiring the services of a ladyboy. You should feel flattered.
I know this hooker, her name’s Karl, she’s BEAUTIFUL , man!
I love how individuals self identify as Genderqueer, but if asked by someone else if they were Genderqueer, the HR folks would be working overtime to crucify the poor slob who had the temerity to ask.
sounds gross, another time at the gym? perhaps a different one? or u could just punch them in their stupid faces. you’re dumb baz
I’m about to be crucified by the crazies, but I gotta’ say this…
I just can’t get into the whole genderqueer thing… I also don’t get trannyism either… and how this is supposed to fit into being gay or lesbian, I don’t see that.
Secondly, how does toe jam picking relate to being so fucked up you can’t decide if you’re male or female?
And finally… maybe the person is instead wondering why is it that you’re so fucked up (that you can’t decide if you’re male or female)?
I wouldn’t touch this bitch with a 6 inch pole…
Genderqueer or being trans is the projection of yourself. The way you feel.
It’s easy when your mind matches your assigned sex. Male=Penis, Female=Vagina. Some feel like they are in the wrong body. Some feel like they are neither.
Just because you never had this struggle doesn’t mean it’s not real. In many cultures and countries there is a THIRD gender and in fact many Native American cultures have this Third gender. Germany, India, Napal and so on.
kinda like a liger?
or a zonkey?
More like one of these:
http://cps-static.rovicorp.com/2/Open/Disn…
Now appearing in Halifax?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KrUUzksb2h0
Tumblr is *that* way…
Lewis Black
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ANrvQC4wIk
Well he sounds like a real winner.
But op, sorry to tell you this but knowing someone’s gender before committing to get involved is sort of a basic human right of dating. If I date a guy who ends up being a female that identifies as a guy.. well.. That’s something I should have the right to know before I decide to get intimate with the person. I am a straight female and while that doesn’t mean that i will always and forever dismiss dating someone who isn’t 100% male, i have the right to know the truth about someone’s gender before I decide whether or not i’m going to do the nasty with them.
You might not like it. But not everybody is ok dating anybody regardless of gender, implied gender, chosen gender or trans-gender. And that’s fair. And you should respect your partners enough to be upfront with them.
If i want to keep my gender a secret, that’s my choice and my right. But it is NOT my right to expect other people to just go with it and it would be shitty of me to lambaste THEM for not being ok with me keeping secrets from them.
If someone wants to know my gender before making any sort of choice about being with me, I have two choices of my own. I can either tell them or not tell them. But if I don’t tell them, they have absolutely every right to walk away. And if I DO tell them and I am not the gender they want to be with, they ALSO have every right to walk away.
We’re ALL born with gender preference. It’s not fair to someone else to try and change their preference by withholding information they will use to make an informed decision about THEIR OWN sexuality. See it’s not just your sexuality that is an issue here. It is the sexuality of your partner too.
Whether you like it or not. You’re not the only person in the world.
The third gender I believe is…hermaphrodite
Hermaphrodites or the less disrespectful term intersex people are not a gender. It is an assigned sex and then they will present how they feel.
Gender how you think/feel you are
Not determined by your genitals.