Here’s what she had to give:
Love,
support,
passion,
time to sort your life out,
comfort,
happiness,
friends who cared,
place to call home,
sanity.
You chose to kick her and all that comes with to the curb.
And what exactly do you have now? Not one damn thing that you can count on. Not truly count on, because you cannot grasp the concept of someone loving you that much, no matter what.
Shake your fucking head! —Red Fraggle
This article appears in Nov 15-21, 2012.
some people don’t appreciate what they have until it’s gone….Honesty,loyalty,love are everything in a relationship,to me anyway..Treat people the same way you want to be treated….But some assholes don’t care at all how badly they hurt the person/people who care for them.
Maybe she had a secret STD, then one day it burned when he peed. Or maybe it was because she is fat and would sweat at inappropriate times.
Maybe he has happiness and sanity, especially if the OB was a friend of the ex.
The Captain is available to fill this void >;D
I sense a theme. The fats and the Furious.
buddy just didn’t have a big enough dick, i would guess. if that was me now, she would never leave. goddamn, but i’m good.
people break up OP. And just because they break up with “your friend” (by which i suspect you mean yourself) doesn’t mean they’re crazy or an asshole or there is something wrong with them. MAYBE THEY JUST DON’T WANT YOU. Maybe they want to be alone. or maybe (and don’t rage out here..) they want someone else who isn’t you.
Pardon me. Your friend.
Here’s my advice to you OP. Let your friend know that you care and support her.
Understand that people make decisions based on what noise is going on in their head and some just have more noise than others.
Some people have never experienced happiness and cannot recognize it. They are content to live in misery because that is all they know. But that is their choice and if they can exist that way, then they do.
If she is as good a person as you say, she probably is ready to move on (if she hasn’t already).
Men and women should be loving and supporting themselves, enjoying their own passions, taking time to be with themselves to sort shit out, cultivating their own friendships, establishing their sanctuary called ‘home’, and maintaining their own mental health. You can’t give all that to someone else with robbing them of their own identity, independence, and self respect. Your friend sounds co-dependent; maybe he felt smothered or got tired of being her little project.
The grass obviously looked greener on the other side to this asshole. Honey you need to learn a lesson from this though. Don’t try to fill everyone’s every need; with you doing everything for him he had nothing left to do but find himself some trouble. Idle hands are the devils playground. Why don’t you just take this opportunity to find out who you are — without taking on the awesome and added responsibility to take care of a man. You just might find out what a wonderful lady you are, with or without a man! Like me! Wonderful….
just to let the ladies know, i’m putting up my real picture starting today.
eat your hearts out.
eats, is that your real picture, if so, you are one hot number.
He no likie you hunnychild – deal. Sorry but it beats that rage-invoking “he’s just not that into you” line. No pretty words you dream up to tell him or publish to the web will change that.
Chuck him aside and move on. NEXT………………….!! Men are a dime a dozen why stress over this asshole?
I think they’re a quarter now, Wog. F’n inflation
Why the profane epithets Woggie? I thought you were a Woman of God.
Huh. Interesting post.
They don’t want what she has to offer apparently. I am sure someone will though and feel all the happier for it!