I am so tired of hearing about, seeing and dealing with the act of cheating. Why do we cheat, why can’t we just break up with out partners? It is so so hurtful. I know from experience. If you tell your loved one you’re cheating on them, it’s like stabbing at their heart, but if you don’t tell it messes with your own heart, so just don’t do it! I pledge never ever to cheat on my love! And to theCoast.ca, it’s not very cool that you have a link to a website that provides a place for married people to look for discrete lovers. —Learned-a-life-lesson
This article appears in Jan 20-26, 2011.
I agree with this bitch (though, the coast can put whatever links they want on here — I don’t care — don’t like it? Don’t click!). An open relationship is one thing…cheating? Quite another.
I wouldn’t scorn someone for cheating in the past (for instance, I wouldn’t NOT date someone just because they cheated once in the past — everyone makes mistakes — multiple cheating, though, is a different game), but I would never EVER cheat on someone I was with. I’d either break up with them, or keep my fucking legs closed!
Yeah Coast, how dare you lure happy, fulfilled people away from amazing relationships with your disgusting ads!! Teehee :). Just like how it’s the mistress’s fault the husband cheats.
I wasn’t aware that The Coast had or advertised for such a site.
Being cheated on feels like there’s a rat gnawing on your crumbling aorta. After my first husband cheated with a red-headed thatch of hairy lasso, I fucking stormed out of there. I saw all the signs (like so many other people) but chose to ignore them until it was way too late. You have to work ’til midnight, you say? Oh, you have to drive to Yarmouth tomorrow? The boss is coming down from head office, huh? You catch my drift. The funny thing was that when I went to the house to pack up my shit, he told me, if you wait three months, it’ll be over with the redhead. Can you fucking believe his nerve?
By the time I met my present Hub-Unit, I read him the riot act about cheating right from the start. He knew if he did, his scrotum would be dingleballs hanging from my rear view mirror.
I just wanted to add one more thing – I ran into Ex-Hub-Unit about ten years ago and he was cheating on the redhead who he married and made him fucking miserable. He asked me if I knew of any nice women I could introduce him to. My response was: “I can’t think of anyone I hate that much.”
If ever there were a time TTFN….
Kay Kay Kay….
Desi will be so heartbroken, he’s record a new album about his plight…
you’re doing them all a favor.
if you don’t cheat, then why would you go to that particular website o.p.? shit, if all you wanna do is get fucked, come here, and someone, anyone, will probly take care of that.
since kijiji took it’s personels column out, i see a lot more roaming here, and a few other places. yes i check, just for the hell of it.
never know, i might find myself there, in the form of someone else. but back to cheating, it is done usually as a result of the other partner not getting what they need or want from the one they are with. sex, love, caring, attention, whatever, if they have to find it in someone else, so be it then.
Then why bother staying with your partner if you’re not getting what you want, suckers?
Cheating on someone is just mean. Give them the consideration and coutesy of breaking up with them rather than skanking around behind their backs.
Man, people are so hung up on things.
Because the human heart and mind are complicated things, PK.
I remember in university…
went home before exams to study in peace.
came back and was to resume studying as I went through the week and a half of exams and my gf at the time said she had something important to tell me but wouldn’t until SHE was done exams because she didn’t want the undue burden during the high anxiety time of year.
so I got to spend all my high-stress exam cramming time also mentally fucked like a teleporting ninja attacking my brain.
once SHE was fine with it… she finally told me she’s a cheating, cucking funt.
Therefor, I’d like to add the disclaimer:
tell them… AS SOON AS YOU KNOW AND BEFORE YOU FUCK AROUND.
plain and simple.
that is just nasty zZz
Some people have more of the bad angel than the good angel. Guilt doesn’t do anything to them. But don’t worry OP, bad things happen to such people……take some joy from that 🙂
True enough, Seb – my ex dropped dead a few years back from a massive heart attack – I think it was the only way he could get away from the nasty, nagging crunt he had left me for. I remember him moaning: my lawyer told me if I ever left her, I’d be left with a barrel and two straps. Boo-fucking-hoo, pal.
Yep, sometimes time is a terrific equalizer.
I agree cheating is awful. If you’re not happy then walk away. Don’t wait until you find something better to make your move…and certainly don’t go shopping for a new partner with a current partner. I think there’s a million reasons why people cheat and I think that some people make mistakes and others are just selfish scum bags. Every story and situation are different and like Orgas-Brend said we’re complicated species.
You can’t hear it over the sound of bones breaking, but this is the sound of a heart breaking:
http://www.evtv1.com/player.aspx?itemnum=1…
and some people forgive but not easily:
http://en.vidivodo.com/304301/cheat-and-pu…
Cheaters with kids are even worse than single cheaters because not only are they cheating on their partner they are also cheating on their kids. The fall-out from cheating scars kids for life. Without positive values to learn from growing up their own relationship skills are lacking when they become adults. Not a recipe for success. We all want the best for our kids, yet many people are so willing to disadvantage their children like this.
Thou shalt not commit adultery. The reason: it is not right to hurt others by this destructive action. Mature people opt to address the problems in their relationships, failing that, they end the relationship before moving on to another.
What PK said.
meltric – It takes two to Tango, both are just as gulity (unless the unmarried one is duped), both are low life scum.
TTFN – echos of my reality.
i think that us bitches would never have a problem yattering at each other in real time…you and ttfn have much in common…yeehaw
kitty, i didn’t say to stay with partner. if someone needs something else, then go and find it. but maybe i should have added, break up first. some people are just romantics, and hope beyond hope, that things will get better.
then there are the i want more nooky types, who go to any length to find it. maybe with the blessings of partner. i know of a few cases such as that. they love each other, but for reasons, can’t get it on together.
yeah it sucks, i would rather say good bye first, before saying hello to new honey.
but then again, maybe some just want a little extra on the side, you know maybe how it is.
there was a chick, long ago, happily married, but hubby conks out after mmaybe 5 minutes, so he goes and finds a switch hitter for him. he gets his rocks off, so does wifey, and third wheel gets free nooky for life. yeah, they all live together in one place. must be fun. mormonism, here we come.
I really don’t get why people just can’t break up with their SO first. If you know you want to screw someone else, take an hour out of your day and break up with your current partner. Causing someone that sort of pain is just not right.
Minty, people don’t end their marriages for affairs, because of money.
Morning all.
Mornin’ Hugo – your new avatar made me giggle. Stand by to see Canadian embassies from Khartoum to Kabul spontaneously combust. >; )
morning bitches…the gulag is not quite as cold this morning http://www.redriderleglamps.com/images/pro…
My furnace in my office is working today, Painy! Yesterday it was busted and the furnace guys could only come today! Today I wore: tights, dress pants, three pairs of socks, two scarfs, mittens, and layered two tank tops, a blouse, sweater and cardigan and STILL ended up at work feeling like a PKsicle! But, office is nice and toasty now. Have it turned up to 35 and the heater’s right behind my chair!
our shop is not exactly insulated well but we all dress for it. i’m glad i didn’t cut my hair this year, makes for better neck warmth
I bundled up today too – after the weekedn with no heat in the office, it didn’t warm up atall. Ugh. But it’s better today :).
I took a look at you av after Ivan commented – oh dear, hugo – oh dear. That’s all I have to say about that.