How did it feel seeing me at the casino the other day with a huge cast on my leg and crutches, knowing that this was your doing? I keep wondering what must have been going through your mind…Knowing you pushed me, a girl half your size and less than half your weight… You just stared at me and stared at me… How awkward. I was shaking. I just want you to know how happy I have been since I left you. I wasted 2 years of my life being lied to, screamed at, called names, pushed around, used, etc, by you. I feel stupid for having allowed myself to believe you would ever change. My life has been amazing since you left me alone. The only time I wonder about you is when I think about how I wish I could do something to ban you from seeing other girls, because I know how capable you are of hurting someone. I pray to God you don’t accidentally kill a girl you’re dating in a fit of rage (and often wonder how I made it out alive). I pray that you will get better, but I know that you are sick. You are poison.
I have a new life now and a wonderful boyfriend, who doesn’t get upset if I go out for drinks with friends, play video games with the guys or am unable to answer my phone. He understands the meaning of “trust”. Our friendship is beautiful and has done much to help me forget YOU…But, seeing you the other night left a bad taste in my mouth. I hate when people ask me what happened because I have to lie. Nobody wants to hear the real truth, because it’s awkward. But every time I fudge the story, I feel as if I am protecting you, and you deserve none of that. I know that you read this, so I just want you to know that you suck. —Not a Victim
This article appears in Feb 21-27, 2013.
OB, if there WAS a way, I would help. Guys who beat their girlfriends/wives should get a “scarlet letter” of it, tattooed on the back of their hands.
I feel bad for you that you had to see that turd again.
Be strong! There are many great men out there who would love to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Paul
And exbf- go fuck yourself. You are a piece of shit, and an asshole.
I hope you never get another woman to believe your bullshit lines.
Please check in and say hi. Im guessing the posters here would like to have the opportunity to talk with you.
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I read some articles about why women tend to stay in abusive relationships. The reasoning was there, but women need to wake up and get the fuck out the minute shit turns sour. No second chances if the guy is roughing you up. He won’t change, he isn’t a good guy deep down, and he is most likely going to increase his brutality the longer the relationship continues.
Actually, stay in the relationship until he lets his guard down and then chop his junk off, pick it up, then drive down the street and throw it out your car window. After word gets out….chances are no dude will risk messing with you again
Who the fuck cares about your or anyone else’s bitch about an ex. Fuck on one hand you all say I don’t give a shit about him/her or I’m over him/her or whatever and on the other hand you want the whole world to know. I guess in this new age people have forgotten the mantra “keep private shit private”. I little tip, I doubt there are more than a handful of people who gives a crap about your or others love like or your exes.
nice to have friends like that, right o.p.?
yes paul, i would anyway, and would love to have a one on one with him, know what i mean. there are pieces of shit, and then you have worse pieces of shit. buddy seems destined for the latter category.
I know that you read this, so I just want you to know that you suck.
And that I’m still in love with you….
Scarlet letter tattooed on the back of the hand? fuck that. Carved right in the middle of the forehead, I say. Makes it harder to hide.
Bro Tim I find your comments quite timely, actually.
There was another bitch on here today about language the media used to describe a rape, and someone mentioned how sexual assault is underreported because of re-victimization and essentially a lack of support.
I’m sure all men & women who’ve been victims of domestic violence are thanking you for your “keeping private shit private” insight.
If someone is or has been raped/sexually assaulted or whatever then they need to report it to the police, not coming on a fucking bitch page or anywhere else on the net. The “keeping private shit private” means just because you broke up you shouldn’t be announcing that shit in public. See the fucking difference.
well said not a victim but can i give you a piece of friendly advice?
Casts stay on for.. what.. 6 weeks, right? maybe in the case of a bad break, a little longer. I’m just remembering back to my own hapless tree-climbing days. Maybe things have changed in recent years.
Anyway, my point is, you’re in a cast that your boyfriend allegedly put you in. Probably right before you broke up. Let’s say for the sake of argument, it’s 6 weeks in a cast. If it is indeed a 6 week cast and you’re still wearing it, then you broke up with this guy less than six weeks ago.
Are you saying that within six weeks of leaving an abusive LTR, you’re already in another relationship?
Dude.. maybe you should take it slow. Just a suggestion. You may be a chronic relationship hopper that can’t be alone and that could be a huge indicator of why you wind up with shitty assholes that don’t deserve you.