Do you know what a butter mouth bully is? It is a person who has a list of ignorant and arrogant characteristics towards a certain person that they know can get away with mentally ruining their victim’s life. I have a longtime friend who has a butter mouth bully for a husband. She is a quiet person who would not hurt a flea, HOWEVER, she has a husband who never lets her 1. Speak her mind. 2. She has to always agree with him, whether he is right or wrong. 3. He is constantly butting in when she is trying to have a conversation. 4. Telling her that she is better seen and not heard. BUT when he has a conversation with his mother, aunt, his voice changes to a mild higher level and honestly you would think that butter was melting in his mouth. When he is in a grocery store and he sees someone that he knows, oh my god, you would think that he was a saint. So watch out for the butter mouth bully because you never know when he is going to butter mouth you. Believe me you won’t miss him. He is clearly visible especially with his outstretched automatically artificial hand shaking. Oh and by the way, when you say something to him that he does not agree with, you will see his eyes bulging out, his face will turn the palest of pale and his mouth will start to froth. That is my butter bitch. —Margarine
This article appears in Sep 6-12, 2012.
“So watch out for the butter mouth bully because you never know when he is going to butter mouth you. “
Now there’s a sentence I didn’t expect to read in this lifetime…
So you’re saying he’s an asshole and she’s an idiot for putting up with it?
That sounds like a LOT of relationships… especially those you read about here.
If he’s that bad, maybe suggest to her she should leave him and if she doesn’t, butt out of their fucking business.
Only ever heard of a butterface myself…
You know…. everthing about her is perfect butter face ~;p
some people, being the assholes that they are. love to think that they are better than anyone else. these are the pathetic people i abhore. male and female both. they like to sit in their supposed ivory tower, and look down on other people, and make snide remarks, because they have no spine or guts.
then we have the other side o.p., the ones that treat people like shit, because it amuses them, in some perverse way. stay away from these two types, as they will only cause you grief.
He sounds like a real winner but unfortunately nothing new. Controlling types like him can be abusive so it might be a good idea to keep your eyes open regarding this relationship because, if he does take that next step, he deserves to be locked up.
It sucks but zZz is right as far as I’m concerned. She’s a willing participant in their relationship and all you can do is try and make her evaluate her priorities. Way too many people stay in toxic relationships but there’s not a whole lot anyone else can do about it.
I married an arsehole like that when I was young and stupid – divorced the possesive twat five years later. I would willingly take the nutsack of any male control freak and pull it over his fucking useless head like a cabbage leaf. And don’t even get me started on women control freaks!
I should also mention that while he was tracking my every move, he was nailing two other women on the side. How’s that for a kick in the tits?
TTFN I really believe you would do that.
I know better now too.
zZz Is right. tell her there’s a way out then, just be there to support her if and when she does leave the dirty bastard.
TTFN eh…sounds familiar.
Your girlfriend needs to leave the relationship, develop a backbone, and then partner with someone in a healthy relationship where she has a voice. If she leaves but doesn’t get tough she’ll just end up with the same kind of asshole. And there is no shortage of assholes out there who will prey on those nice ladies who wouldn’t hurt a flea.
The thing that keeps a woman in a relationship like that is the same kinda thing that her from leaving….lack of self-esteem.
Spot on, Boru, I think both you and I know the score – many young women have rock bottom self-esteem and it sometimes takes a a bucket of putrid sea water in the face to make them bail the sinking S.S. Shithead. Thank Christ I’m old.
TTFN I hear ya…I’m finally getting my life on track.After a long life time of being in thigh high shit. Your right, Thank Christ I’m old because I kinda like the woman I am today. I’d rather die than be in my 20’s again.
Dear, the man is an abuser… he’s abusive… yeah…
Alienate the new, young students who now populate the city and flock to the coast website for their weekly libations…. check.
20’s are a fun, exciting time… but with liberation comes the hard truth that you’re still discerning boundaries and can wind up in a shit-storm of trouble. There’s a lot I would change as well.. but if I were faced with also having to change the good, truly memorable times… I’m not sure I could.
Sounds like a commercial for Hinterlands Who’s Who..
The Butter Mouth Bully. Distinctive by it’s bulging eyes, pale face and verbal diarrhea
There are other, much less flattering names for people like this
Making bad decision’s are a part of growing up.Allowing yourself to be abused is not.