I spent my life “taking care of you”. I was always there, even when I didn’t wanna be. You always called when you needed something, now I never hear from you. You had a baby boy, my 2nd nephew, I never get to see. It makes you feel good to use your child as bait, you should be ashamed of yourself. I say goodbye to you today, my dear “little sister”… good luck in your life… I don’t think I will miss you. —Unwanted Big Sister
This article appears in Nov 17-23, 2011.


Oh, you’ll hear from her again. When she wants something.
Be sure before you burn any bridges OB. But then again, I took too long in burning mine. Snubiz is right, she’ll be back, and more demanding than ever.
Do whatever you feel is best for you…
ata girl, put the bitch out of your life. sis will come looking for a sitter soon enough, and you can ask her who the fuck she is.
Blood is thicker than water OP. You will hear from her again! Any other sibs? What about your parents? Get some feedback from them.
Maybe just try talking to her. Having a second child can be incredibly overwhelming, and maybe she doesn’t feel ready to greet the world just yet.Give her time, stop by with coffee, call to see how she is doing. Maybe she is waiting for you to call. Friends come and go, but family is for life. Feel fortunate you have siblings to share it with. I wouldn’t trade mine for the world:)
Umm, don’t you think you should have the guts to say it to her face? and not pussy out and do it online? (sarcasm) Doing this sort of life changing thing is always best done online in public view, for sure. Idiot. Maybe there is a reson she wants noting to do with you, after seeing this, I wouldn’t want anything to do with you either.
HaliMike-Spell Check
I bet you tried to call her and she didn’t bother to call you back, hence the post. Let go of the angry feelings, your life is full in so many other ways! Life will move forward, spend the time with people that love you, and appreciate all you have done! Good luck to you Big Sis!
OB must be a Big Sister who watched some white trash Little Sister get knocked up and start popping out babies for welfare checks.