Thanks for wrecking my belief that there are still some nice guys out there. You were my bf for almost 6 years, and you cheated on me with her the whole time. How can one man be so calculated, so EVIL? I am still considering telling YOUR PARENTS what a JERK you really are since they think your the Good Son. You’ve fooled them, but not me!!! —Glad it’s finally over
This article appears in Oct 14-20, 2010.
yeah ; tell his mommy and daddy heehee that’ll learn’em 🙂
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I was thinking the same thing, martym. Like parents are going to give a shit about their childrens’ relationships.
He can be a good son and a bad boyfriend at the same time. His parents wont care and will make you look like a crazy ex-cunt of a girlfriend.
I’d just move on.
Date his brother.
Let me guess you have a post secondary degree, a decent job, an apartment; he’s got his grade 11, unemployed, lives at home, parents give him money to get drunk…
and it took you all of 6 fucking years to realize that he was still screwing this other skank. fuck o.p., what was the tip off, we all are dying to know, so that we won’t spend a decade trying to figure this out ourselves.
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I love you ivan. That’s just what I needed for my early early morning 🙂
Also: I agree with LL — you’re just going to look like a crazy bitch scorned by some ex. No one takes the ex seriously when it comes to bad mouthing.
So OB you’re pissed off and want to tell his parents. Exactly what is that going to accomplish. I guess you hate his parents too. You must because that’s the only reason I see you doing this. It’s not their fault, it’s yours and his. His because he fucked around and your because you were blind for six years to all this. So sure tell his folks and look like a stupid bitch. He will still be their son.
Anytime PrettyKitty in the green turtleneck. Anytime >; )
and i’m still free o.p.
Aaaaaannnnnnnd…. THERE’S the suckalicious pick up line. I was waiting for it.
It’s amazing how blind people can be in relationships. 6 years? Well, I hope you move on and forget the juvenile theatrics.
6 years of cheating? Are you kidding me? Please tell me this was a long distant relationship? I feel bad for all your future bf’s who are going to pay for this dudes mistakes. ….Tell his parents…I love crazy! lol
In that 6 years you never suspected he was cheating? Are you kidding?? As for no longer believing there are nice guys out there, that’s pretty extreme because one dumb dawg opted to share his bone. Let him be someone else’s problem – once a cheat, always a cheat so his honey is getting no Cracker Jack prize. As for yourself, get on with your life and thank fuck you didn’t waste 30 years on this schmuck.
OP, I know they’re all quick to pounce on you….
ya, you’re dumb for not noticing in 6 years… blah blah blah…
truthfully, just go outside, take a deep breath, and enjoy the sweet taste of freedom.
OP: just to add to my comment — not ALL men are bad. There are a few nice ones out there. We all have our issues, and no one’s perfect, but there are some great guys out there (not that I’ve dated any…but I”m still holding out hope :P)
O P he’s not evil.
What part of having more than 1 girlfriend makes him evil ?
Its not like you actually owned him.
HE was just doing what comes natural to all of us…although a great many suppress their normal desires as taught to them by their lovely religions !
We are sexual animals, that is a proven scientific fact about humans …we are not programed to be monogamous…very few animals are.
According to what i have read , adultery has been documented in every human culture studied…EVERY SINGLE ONE.
So its same old same old…why not go back to your exboy friend , you obviously were doing well, for 6 years you said. Then go get yourself another lover on the side.
After all whats good for the goose is good for the gander .
Have a nice day.
LS…I’m disappointed you didn’t offer her a shoulder to cry on.
he did mr. more
I missed his second comment Paingirl, thank you for pointing it out.
I feel better, the world is ticking along as normal .
Although if you follow the news at all, normal for this world…is pretty damn sick, a cheating boyfriend is tame by comparison
i think i will refrain from calling ivan a colonel for a time…rooooo
Porquoi Paingirl. >: (
it’s that looney williams sociopath…i have many other names for you commander^^
Ivan will always be the king pour moi.
Phew. >: ) I concur.Relieved Rawk. I’m really hating the fact that this genetic throwback served in the same institution my Dad devoted 37 years of his life to.
There are victims here beyond counting; everyone who ever crossed his path, rendered him a salute, every casualty who came home through Trenton, every neighbor, subordinate, acquaintance. There may not be a God but there are times I pray that there’s a hell.
Ralmn – “I’m the Wiz and NOBODY beats me” >; )
i don’t think it gives the military a “black eye”…demons like this are everywhere
I don’t think once a cheater always a cheater. Maybe when it comes to taking someone back…but because they cheat on one person doesn’t mean they will cheat on everyone they ever date. There’s lots of great guys out there OP….learn from this relationship and try not to let it get the worst of you in the future.
More…monogamy may not be natural but it’s a choice that some people make…and if you want to have many partners as nature intended…then you let all parties know what’s going on and let them also make their choice.
I know several women who know their boyfriends cheat on them, and guess what, they STAY with the guy. How fuct up is that?
Those women are STUPID, sebastard. And they have no self respect/esteem.
There may be exceptions to the rule, but if they’ve cheated more than once, I think it’s safe to say they’ll do it again.
seb I wonder how many of the women cheat too. It’s just not for guys anymore.
women cheat as much as guys do…. don’t ever fool yourself into believing that cheating is reserved for men. Most women cheat because they feel alone and some guy showed them some affection. Men tend to cheat for the thrill of the hunt…. there is a biological element to cheating but at the end of the day its up to you to decide if you will live an honorable life and keep your commitments or not. If you know you are incapable or unwilling to live in a monogamous relationship then find someone who is into an open relationship and explore things with them.
Trying to bone as many chicks as possible while we still can is simply in a man’s nature. You can’t really blame us for it, can you? Like Chris Rock said, “men are only as faithful as their options.” Committed relationships are for suckers… although I’m slowly being sucked into one… aaahhhhh help!