A year ago, you broke my heart. It still hurts. I guess you had your reasons. Don’t we all. And you’ve apologized, at least for some of it. But I can’t forgive you. How could I? What you did is still hurting me. A god damn year later and IT STILL FUCKING HURTS. I wish you’d leave so I’d never have to see your lying, arrogant, self centered face again. And no, of course I won’t be your friend. I don’t know how you ever convinced yourself that would be the case.
And if you ever change your mind and try to come back, (and I wouldn’t put it past you) you’d better keep it to yourself, because I will smack that idea right out of your selfish head. And then I’ll go on a lovely date with the person I’m with now. A person who cares about something other than herself. You could learn a thing or two. —Angry that you can still hurt me.
This article appears in Jan 22-28, 2015.
So you’re still angry, hurt and consumed by person A but are with person B and use her to ‘have a lovely date’ with someone who ‘cares about something other than herself’? Do you not see how this is selfish of you? Assuming that person B actually cares about you, how do you think they would feel knowing that while they’re on a lovely date with you, it’s only so you can make yourself feel better and forget about Person A. You sound like a real weiner and write like a soap opera.
Furthermore, person A is not coming back so you need to build a bridge and get over it. They don’t want you. It sounds like they are the one who left and it sounds like they had a reason and it’s been a YEAR. You are starting to sound pathetic to your friends still whining about her after all this time. Don’t let the ‘lets be friends’ line fool you, either. Nobody really means it when they say that.
Holy flarksmacks(I made that up!) man… Let go… this is pathetic. Does the “good” one a disservice too! How “good” is she if she can’t keep your mind off Bitch McGee, Seems to me she’s just around so you can show the “bad” one you’ve moved on and THAT doesn’t even work cause after a year you come back on here and tell everyone you’re actually not over her. Pull your head outa your ass and this is coming from someone who’s last name is McStupid.
No, I hear ya… people can get under your skin but just remember: They’re never as good as you think they are! In fact, I’d say a good 97.5% of them are dysfunctional, insecure and relatively worthless fuckin’ slobs- only somehow ‘good’ in our dleusional romantic minds.
You know what might work? As unorthodox as this is, it produces results:
1. Take the person in your mind, give em’ a mushroom cut, a lazy eye and buck-teeth
OR
2. Just imagine them taking a dump- gross, I know, but it brings you back down to reality
and also helps designate them to their proper place in the cosmos( people are gross creatures, basically!).
What’s happened here is that you’ve made the human more-than-human, the biggest fundamental psychosexual error going! These people we ‘Fall in Love’ with( the older I get, the creepier that sounds I notice…) are mammalian excrementitous vicious people- flawed, imperfect, ugly in the right light and, The Kicker, they smell.
Look, nobody’s THAT bloody good! Were they not, afterall, Another Great Disappointment? Did they not lie? Am I not correct?
Fuck em… do yourself a favor and leave em in the dust because, the cold-hard fact here is: people AREN’T good! In fact, they are pathologically incapable of being Good.
Simmering in your own bitterness only hurts you, luv, not another bleeding soul.
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“And then I’ll go on a lovely date with the person I’m with now. A person who cares about something other than herself. You could learn a thing or two.” Angry that you can still hurt me
That’s absolutely right. Always associate with those who have interests in other things than just themselves. Clearly, you are a better person for having loved and lost than never having loved at all. Now run along.
A pleasure as always,
Cheerio!
“I wish you’d leave so I’d never have to see your lying, arrogant, self centered face again.”
You wish they would leave? They’re gone OP! Besides, you’ve got a new gal and this angry obsession is only an insult to her. It hurt sure but you need to look forward and put your nemesis in the dustbin of your memory.
Grow up and also get some anger management help before the new person sees you for what you are now and runs for the hills. Yes, a breakup hurts but one learns to move on after a period of time.
Yeah, I know who posted this
Jesus! Get the fuck over it! I know! Join your local branch of the Ladies Lynch Mob!