Women these days try really hard to show how much they don’t need men to make their lives complete….they shove it down our throats and make us look like idiots….while we just kinda stand around looking at them making the occasional cat-call, emitting the occasional beer belch, fart, etc….Seems to me that this is really just one big game or something. Women want to be fulfilled and appreciated (respected) and guys pretty much wanna get laid. Is this evolution? Will a day ever come when one can really do without the other? What would life be like? Pretty boring I’m betting…..
— 21st. Century Freakout
This article appears in Jun 25 – Jul 1, 2009.
Deep stuff.
Actually, it’s pretty common mammalian behavior. The females chose the male most likely to provide the strongest offspring while the males spread their seed as far and wide as possible. Boring? Far from it.
As an individual my life IS complete…which I want to share with another individual whose life is complete. One is not dependant upon the other. The two exist on their own and compliment each other.
You can always have the last laugh & Stay single! ! !
…rent a woman once in awhile, for the short time you’ll ‘need ‘ her. Its a lot cheaper, you’ll have your freedom & most important, is that unless she’s a Pro… she won’t have to worry about meeting up with you.
That must do wonders for your self esteem, More. You’re getting the last laugh but is it really funny living a loveless lonely life?
I’m really glad to be at the age where another man in my life would equal dancing fireants chewing out my eyeballs.
Friends, yes, anything more, go plug a Cornish hen.
My beef with feminism is they don’t draw on the classical texts. Minds much bigger than our own have dealt with the issue of women in society in much more brilliant way, i.e. Aristophanes’ Lysistrata.
My beef with Women’s Studies is students think deductively, as opposed to inductively.
It’s all Greek to me.
The problem I have with today’s feminism is that it borders on hatred of males. I started calling myself an ‘equalist’ years ago because feminism became such a steaming pile of fly-infested horseshit.
I wonder why females would even want offspring? I also wonder about males wanting to spread seed; why would it be far and wide? Close to home sounds more rewarding, no? Otherwise, what’s the point?
No life is really complete without family and friends, but no one is really a male or a female without the other, otherwise your just a person amongst other persons.
I can stand on my own two feet as an individual (financially, emotionally, physically, etc…)…but getting some penis on a regular basis is great too. *shrug*
wonder why females would even want offspring?
wonder about males wanting to spread seed?
what’s the point?
Do you have genitals, Smee? Are your hormones working? You are a human being, aren’t you? Darwin has a term for people like you… juvenile.
Smee,
It doesn’t matter whether having babies is good for females. I doesn’t matter whether having babies is good for males (and it certainly doesn’t matter whether they are close to home).
The only thing that matters is whether it is good for said peoples’ GENES…and, of course, the answer to that is ‘yes’.
Every person/animal/plant/etc alive today is the product of unbroken lines of ancestors whose genes made for something that wanted to get busy and make babies.
Unbroken lines….what do you mean..Darwin et al have clearly documented many abroken line…. maybe I misunderstood?
There are no “broken lines” between your human ancestors and you *shakes head*
Ditto Pretty Kitty.
Except I be liking a little pussy, instead of the dick ! Who was it who decided it was manditory for ‘love’ to be in the picture for one to be happy ? I for one, know of & experience many things that make me happy, & they have nothing to do with sex, the opposite sex, or especially my ex-wife.
I cannot speak for the rest of the men out there…but my dick has never been in love . It is quite happy just to be erect & getting attention & doesn’t care if its a lover, a girl for hire, a fuck buddy or self abuse !
I’ve always found loneliness to be a state of mind, you can be somewhere surrounded by people & still be lonely. While you can be out without another soul in sight & be so entranced by where you are & what your doing, that loneliness or even lack of companionship never enters your thoughts.
Love is also a state of mind, More. I hope it finds your cock some day because you haven’t really lived until you’ve loved and made love.
well… i dont think that ALL women don’t need a man they do just some people need to be single before they know what they want type thing
Kay, been there done that … not impressed with all the baggage that you acquire as time passes. In my life, friendships have outlasted all my other relationships. I have yet to lose a house to a friend, but to one who I thought was my wife, my lover & friend , I come home from work one day & BANG ! ! !gone 20 + years ,one house & contents . Now I like my women to be completely unlike Yo-Yo’s !
(no strings attached, thank you very much. )
Because she didn’t love you right you really think love is wrong, bad or undesirable? You said it yourself, your cock has never loved anybody. I’m sure your ex was thrilled about that. I’m sure you never did anything to warrant her leaving you. uh huh
You should try real love on before you conclude it’s worthless and something designed to maybe get you laid. When you’ve got it, no other gains the interest of your cock and that’s how you’ll know.
Kay…My dick says “piss off, variety is the spice of life “
I myself like it SPICEY as well.
What works for you doesn’t mean it works for everyone.
The only way I could be happier with my life now…Is if I were 2 people. Although the tax man would probably figure out a way to tax me twice as hard…& that would take the shine off that 😉
I’m pretty sure my dick loved a couple pussies.
Well, I wouldn’t say I’m into no strings attached — I like to have SOME sort of affection for what’s attached to the penis.
Ah…Pretty Kitty, affection, mutal attraction & respect for one another. I’m all for that.
But is that ‘love’ ?
I don’t think it is.
On a hot day I LOVE a cold Beer , is that love not important ?
What about sunrise or sunset on a beautiful beach…I love those & its one of the biggest reasons why I go to the Caribbean every winter.
Why is one love (between people) so much ‘more’ important or relevant than other ‘loves’ that also give you pleasure, & won’t let you down ?
Perspective & happiness by one person can often be seen as hellish by another.
As for attached strings…while having each others phone number, & or mutaul friends, a place where you both frequent (or several places),is in IMO not the same as something wrapped around your throat as it were, or Legally Binding !
( I like adding the word binding…makes it sound like your about to be tortured & your fucked…but not in the good way ) I would like to add you can still have a lot of fun long before & after a penis is involved <3
As long as Venus Envy exists, my use for a penis rates along with use of a Javex gargle.
LOL. What gets me off has nothing to do with love.
Kay, I’m forced to conclude you have some real issues with sexuality. You have a problem with someone’s COCK not being loving/committed enough, you hate (sorry, “love”….tough love) Teh Gays, you think threesomes are A-OK in committed relationships, yet open relationships are Satan. You like to write “sadomasochistic” (not my words) cautionary vignettes about young children fantasizing about being prostitutes. And the cherry on top is you seem to think everyone else should share your specific preferences/opinions/values…..for something as incredibly varied as human sexuality. Care to comment?
I really want to be with someone who makes a great friend; is smart, easy-going, has similar interests, definitely cute, and funny. I know this is what basically all guys want in a girl, but I am looking close to home for this and might not be satisfied until I find it. And I do want kids, and its not just some seed-spreading thing. I avoid angry, unhappy girls, who are on medication and/or are hard drinkers, no matter how hot they are. Is that being picky? Should I give someone more of a chance, instead of usually bailing when I don’t like what I see? I’m a bit self-conscious, but I’m 30, good looking, and wiser and more mature. I’m not ready to settle for just anyone.
Mole Rat, your conclusions are unfounded and dead wrong.
“vignettes about young children fantasizing about being prostitutes”…? You’re off your rocker, Rat. Get professional help a.s.a.p.
Well Kay, you did kind of say that in your anti-prostitution spiel. I think you said something along the lines of why would a girl want to grow up and get an education when they can make more money selling themselves.
We were talking about young adults making an informed decision to spend money on a secondary education… children fantasizing about fucking strangers? Come on!!!! This fuckwad makes me out to be something really terrible and I’m not.
“I’m pretty sure my dick loved a couple pussies.”
Made my day!
When I was 18/19 I didn’t think girls wanted to have sex, just sorta thought they did it like a chore, turns out they did it like a whore. Just like turtles, when they’re on their backs they’re fucked!
Look at today’s post by wimp hater, couldn’t even keep her panties on in Starbucks! This what I like about Halifax. Yes it may stink, yes you might get shot, yes it is full of wanna be gangsters, yes the bouncers think they are door Gods, but my lord it’s full of horny girls.
I was just gathering up all my recollections of your various opinions, Kay, all of which are undoubtedly still archived. It’s not my fault how it looks when it’s all in a bundle.
yorkke – some are actually looking for husbands and figure giving it away for free is the guaranteed method to acquire a hubby.
A good way to acquire a chubby and maybe a baby.
What’s not your fault, Rat?
I’m against legalized prostitution for many reasons. Get over it.
You’re “forced to conclude you have some real issues with sexuality”. Why? Because I’m not a lesbian? Because I have no desire nor pretend to be a man? Because my genitals are not confused as to what they’re for? Because I think most people still have an expectation of f-a-m-i-l-y? WTF? NOT EVERYBODY IS GAY, TRANS, BI, WEIRDNESS OR EVEN ACCEPTS THE LIFESTYLE. GET OVER IT.
I have “a problem with someone’s COCK not being loving/committed enough”? Excuse me? Everything on the planet fucks. Whoopdie-fucking-doo! I think it’s sad the OP has never really known love, that’s all. Is that a terrible thing too, Rat? To have empathy or sympathy or desire to see human beings NOT behave or be treated like animals?
“…something as incredibly varied as human sexuality”… Just how many variations of sexuality can there be, Rat? It’s pretty simple math until you throw in other species or inanimate objects.
*insert here the biggest eye roll you’ve ever seen*
So tell me, Rat… What, exactly, is not your fault? That you paint a picture of ugly shit? Maybe it’s not your fault YOU choose to dip your brush shit and actually paint with shit. Whatever. You’re a real piece of work. People like you are why “legislating kindness” is even a thought.
It’s flat out sad that happiness in the form of a relationship and/or sex has to be such a mental and psychical minefield sometimes.
lol that last rant kinda proved Mole Rats point, kay. But hey, it’s your opinion. And it’s my opinion that your opinion is hilariously skewed. You go on thinking what you think and I’ll go on knowing what I know with the small comfort that people who still think like you are now a minority. Thank God.
I agree refinedsugar. It IS sad.
I’m not going to bother replying to all the points in your essay, Kay, suffice to say that there are plenty of people who have issues with sexuality, so don’t worry, no one’s “making you look terrible.” As if they needed to.