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Why am I always the one doing wrong? Its not possible for one person to lways be the problem in a relationship of 2 people!!! Get off your pedalstal and being yourself down to everyone elses level! You are too much like your crazy ass mother. You are not always right!!!!!!!
—Me
This article appears in Sep 3-9, 2009.
12 Comments
I’m SO going to get flamed for this, but I’m assuming it’s princess syndrome since I have nothing to go off.
Poster, you’re a guy and she always has to be right….. right?
Please let us know before everyone scorches me like joan of arc.
and if not… well at least I got more info out of the situation.
ouch a crazy mother
Well OP, that’s relationship lesson #1. The penis is always wrong. And it’s not just princesses either. I know lots of girls who are not bitchy/selfish at all, but can’t seem to get that a relationship requires compromise and if there is a conflict then both sides have to give a little. It can’t always go her way and a different way of doing things does not mean the wrong way of doing things. And before I get beat up for saying that, I’m not talking about ALL women, just some of the handful of friends/girlfriends I have observed this with.
Time to go. I was in a relationship like this and trust me, this is NOT a healthy relationship. In a real relationship, respect for each other would never allow this dynamic to exist. Can you say ‘toxic’? DTMFA!
If I were you, I’d tie on a pair of Nikes and run from that relationship as if a pack of starving, rabid pitbulls were at my heels. This woman WILL turn into her mother – I would lay serious money on this. You will always be wrong and, what’s worse, her bitch mother will back her every step of the way. Their shrill duet will disintergrate your balls to dust. RUN FOR YOUR FUCKING LIFE, BUD!!!!
Yep, basically, if you’re a guy and she’s a girl, you will always be wrong while she will always be right. You cannot reason with them and you cannot win! I know exactly where you’re coming from because I just got out of a relationship like this. We’d BOTH make mistakes, it’s just that I’d always be the only one to admit to them, while the best she’d give me was a somewhat pissed off, sarcastic “yeah, alright, sorry.” Eventually I’d just learn to accept the fact that I was always wrong and there was no point in bringing up anything that may possible lead to an argument, and wouldn’t even bother bringing up anything that maybe we should have worked out and talked about. Guess what then? “Why don’t you ever talk about anything with me!?”
Disclaimers: I know you’re only hearing my side of the story and she probably has a lot of things she could say about me, too. I also know not all girls are like this, but unfortunately it seems like a good number are. Finally, I know that there are probably plenty of men like this, as well. OK?
In all successful marriages, the husbands always know they are wrong, even if they’re right.
I’m so glad I’m not a girl like the ones you guys are describing. My boyfriend told me stories about how psycho his ex was, and I found it astounding that he would stick around. A good relationship is made of compromise, respect and love. She’s not respecting you, nor is she compromising. I’m with Oceanlady – DTMFA!
I know someone with parents like this – the husband decided at some stage in their marriage that if he just acquiesced to everything his wife wanted, life would be easier for him. And he was probably right. However, easier doesn’t necessarily equate to happier 😛 Let’s just say that more than two hours around this woman and I feel the need to stab myself.
I have seen some of my best friends marry cunts like that and they suffered for a fucking lifetime because of these ball-breaking, emotionally driven psycho women. Strangely enough, most of them were redheads. I’ve never seen men so pussified in all my days, during and after the marriage. They were sucked dry emotionally and financially. I’d like to smack those conniving ‘always right’ bitches with a fucking brick.
Funny. It’s the EXACT opposite with my parents. I suppose my mother just finds it easier to give in to my dad to keep the peace. Yay enabling!
in all our journeys to perfection,let’s not forget to be humble also. that being said, the personm involved has to take a step back, and look at their inner self. were you truly not responsible for smoe of the misery, methinks that maybe you were a bit. but also keep in mind, that there are those that thrive on others misery and get a big thrill out of causing some to happen.
you have to take the good with the bad,to continue on, or your life will be just nothing. we all look for the perfect mate, but sadly we will never find it. so we settle for whomever is there at the time.
and yes, it has happened to me, more than once. but i keep looking and waiting, hoping that the next one will be the one. but we live in an imperfect society, and as such,get fucked over, by all sorts, male and female both.there is no such thing,as the perfect person, or mr./miss right.it they are so perfect,they won’t want you,and as to the mr./miss right, settle for mr./miss right now.and do the best you can out of life.this has been a journey for a lot of seekers.maybe, you’ll be one forever too?