It does hurt, because it did matter. The door will always be open, if you can find it again. If you can’t, happy trails my friend, my enemy, my love. —Remembering the Love, Surviving the Pain
This article appears in Dec 13-19, 2012.
Are you happy or are you just existing?
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Existing for the sake of existing…
ambition has failed us all.
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ya Zedster…just existing suckzZz….it seems to be the status quo, tho, so i guess, OP, you have some company…..
we all suffer pain sometime, but it heals, with time and other people in our lives.
A lot of feeling in a very short post. I am not sure if that door will ever be opened by either of them. But it sure would be interesting.
Actually, zed, I’ve noticed you seem to be happier these days. Much less ennui detected.
What’s wrong with existing? Some of my closest friends and family exist!
Anyway, sounds like it’s over, get over it!
Change the locks on the door and move on to something wonderful. It will happen. Good Luck to you OP.
OP, push through it.Don’t allow the pain get the better of you……Things will get better. Remember OP,keep your head up and smile…. 🙂
I’ve got an enemy that I love too, OP. They’re the worst kind of enemy to have, ’cause you’ll just let them walk right into your fortress, no questions asked.
OP You must have felt something for your Love to begin with.Remember doors swing both ways.
OP Did you make sure that said door open wide enough for your love to get in?If it was not, ask yourself why you didn’t want him/her in in the first place..
If no one is willing to come to the door it doesn’t matter if it is open. Close it and forget it.
Sometimes the best surprises come when you least expect it. Good luck on which ever path your end up on.
Miss kitty, you’re mistaken.
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Does it matter at this point what this person feels? Don’t keep the door open. Some people aren’t worth the trouble.
OP “The door will always be open, if you can find it again.”
It seems to me that YOU don’t want your”your enemy,your love” to find the opening of the door that leads to you.How is she/he supposed to know the door is wide open and you want her?Take the door back to her, again .Out of fear,she’s likely waiting for you to go to her,again.She’s probably afraid of you reporting her to the “police” again if she tries to go back to you;not afraid of you or any emotion. Do you both a huge favour. End this cat and mouse game.OP take the leap.Let yourself be loved.