Why is there so much nasty, sexist shit written on this website? I get that its a site for bitching but it really seems to bring out the absolute worst in people. I am suprised at how much hating is going on in Halifax- really, the rest of the country isn’t like that and its actually shameful to say ‘fuck’ and ‘cunt’ all the time. You people need to lighten up!

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  1. Have you read the name of this column? Why do you bother? Take your rainbows and sunshine and go play in that little la-la land that’s inside your head.And, oh, yeah, cunt-cunt-cunt-cunt-cunt – sometimes the word fits the crime.

  2. As far as the sexist remarks go, honey, welcome to the REAL world. I am a woman and absolutely detest the 95% of drama queen cunts out there. I’ve very rarely had the problems with men that I have had with devious females. They deserve to be smeared for their stupidity.

  3. As far as the sexist remarks go, honey, welcome to the REAL world. I am a woman and absolutely detest the 95% of drama queen cunts out there. I’ve very rarely had the problems with men that I have had with devious females. They deserve to be smeared for their stupidity.

  4. That is terrible, Ellbee. Just a thought: Do you have problems with other women because you treat them like shit?If not, I don’t know what you’ve done to deserve whatever these “devious females” wrath but your attitude certainly isn’t helping the bum rap that we all have to put up with.

  5. oops. damn. that last sentance should be:”if not, I don’t know what you’ve dont to deserve these “devious females'” wrath …”

  6. wow, ellbee, i agreed with zac and thought you seeemd like one of the nice people on this site :-S. i think this person has a point- there is a lot of really harsh stuff said on this site- kind of beyond standard bitching. i admit its easy to get caught up in it but it does get really nasty here… maybe you’re just having a bad day?maybe halifax isn’t the real world?

  7. There’s only one type of female that irks me to no end – they are the women who think they are ‘victims’ – that the big bad men of the world are suppressing them. Let me tell ya, sweetheart, I’ve been on this planet for many moons and I know how to stand up for myself. I worked at jobs back in the 70s where I was the first female to do such a job. Did the men I worked with give me any problems?? No. The women, however, had their verbal knives out because none of them had the guts to take the challenge. Men will support each other, women seem to be in a fucking malicious competition with one another. This is not to say I hate all women. I have a half dozen girlfriends that I adore and who, like myself, can’t stand the ‘victim’ mentality that seems to prevail among today’s women.

  8. Women are retarded. I’ve long thought that if women actually worked together the same way men do, women would own & run the world. A woman, or two women is fine. Put a bunch of women into the same environment, whether their boss is a man or a woman, they’ll be so consumed with backstabbing, rumor starting, bullshitting that it does nothing but drive away the few women that are actually their to do a good job.I am by no means that suggesting that all men do a good job, but we don’t do this backstabbing b.s. that causes such hostile working environments. My gf has worked in a place like that before and I pushed her to quit. I’d rather her find a lower paying job in good working conditions that have to deal with that shit every day. I dunno how you do it.

  9. To Ellbee,Hey ‘Sweetheart’, or ‘honey’, as you so like to refer to other female writers-in of this column, use the word ‘cunt’ all you like. Just know that when you do, you sound like an uneducated, inarticulate hick. Now, welcome to the REAL world.

  10. I cannot believe that, in 2008, I am reading this uneducated, sexist bullshit. I don’t believe that I am a victim of any “big bad men” but I do completely believe that women are treated differently than men are. If a man is resistant to giving up some of his work on the job, he wouldn’t be labelled as a “malicious male” — he’d be seen as a guy who wants to do his job right and not be made useless by someone else. Society teaches us that women are supposed to be meak and agreeable so when they speak up about something on the job, they get called a sneaky, backstabbing bitch.I have worked with men and women in equal amounts and have equal experiences with backstabbing and rumor starting but one overwhelming theme is that the ladies get called bitches and the men get promotions.And Elbee, I still think that women don’t like you because you treat them like dirt. Try a little respect for your fellow human, you misogynistic, sexist asshole.

  11. wow NMH… I can see how my statement could have come off the wrong way… i think you’ve taken the exact opposite behind what I was saying. Anyway, yes I am a hick and am perfectly comfortable with that. Save the insults for someone more enlightened in the ways of the REAL world… what with my copious amounts of “real world” experience, i’m probably just talking out my ass anyway.

  12. It ain’t a man’s world anymore. As a middle-aged white man, I am supposedly responsible for all the evils in the world. From my own experience, angry, backstabbing people come from both sexes, the only difference being that I can call a guy a prick but get sued if I call a woman a bitch. Apparently that makes me sexist, not pissed. off.

  13. Carnate, not that this is important, but when referring to the ‘REAL world’, I was merely quoting Ellbee, since I’ve seen her numerous invitations to various people on various threads to join it. Considering what her version of the ‘REAL’ world seems to be at times, I find it to be extremely irritating, as well as totally laughable,

  14. And to Luc, who claims that ‘it ain’t a man’s world anymore.’ Umm, where do you work? I’m an engineer, and my office is dominated by middle aged white men like yourself; they are the majority. Likely it’s just a coincidence, but all of them, are very much well-liked and respected, by the other men, and women alike! So get the chip off your shoulder!

  15. Great post MPSL and I agree 100%.I’m laughing out loud right now. Try reading the responses and then read the original post last … ohhhhh the irony.

  16. I like to think Im not sexist or racist. I tell off color (hah hah.. color… get it?) jokes and I have certain attitudes against certain ethnic groups. Would I ever hold it against an individual? Never.I’ve had the chance to work with quite a few different kinds of people in school and jobs I’ve had. If you’re competent, do your work and you treat people with respect I will be your best friend regardless of sex, race, or religion. However, if the only reason you have a job/position is BECAUSE of your sex/race/religion, can’t do the job given to you, and get offended over the slightest off color remark (or are just generally an asshole), I have no sympathy for you.I think that’s what we see the most LTWWB, people bitching about the assholes. And we all know, ladies and gentlemen, assholes come from every background.

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