Seriously fat girls, what is with the recent self-loathing posts and comments? Maybe you are being rejected because you reek of insecurity/desperation/sadness/self-hatred.
Before I continue, let me say, I am FAT. I am a size 20. I weigh over the 200 on the scale. I have a boyfriend. He is attractive. I am attractive. We have sex, lots of it. I also go to the gym. But then sometimes I eat pizza. Life is too fucking short (or maybe long) to not have fun in the body you are in. You need to be happy NOW. Stop thinking people dont like you just because you are fat. It’s because you are morose, Eeyore!
It is not hard to get dates when you are fat, I have had lots of them! I met guys at bars, guys at parties, guys at work, guys at random coffee shops… I have a personality, it helps. WORK ON THE PERSONALITY. Then stop hating yourself. Then start loving yourself. Then get out there and enjoy life. Then guys will see you exuding confidence and maybe want to spend more than 25 minutes with you.
Brush your damn teeth and try smiling. If you are dumpy, that’s definitely a problem. Get a nice haircut, tweeze the PCOS-brows and slap on some gloss.
Yes, its true, not everyone is going to be into a fatty. But guess what, I am a fatty who doesn’t like short guys. I also dont like blondes and blue eyes. We ALL have preferences so be realistic. Do you know that even skinnies get rejected? It’s REALITY.
Ok, are we ready to get out of our own fucking way yet?
Please? —Fatty Fatty 2X4
This article appears in Jan 19-25, 2012.
“tweeze the PCOS-brows”
^^ that made me lolz for realz, OB.
Love this post funny and o so true. You hit a point where as long as i like you for you i don’t care about anything else
I don’t know what that means…
Polycystic ovary syndrome ?
ya lost me…
PS. Is ‘acquiring mass’ the same as getting fat?
pcos is prevalent in the larger ladies and lots of hair is a symptom!
OB…its life is too short …. by a long shot.
Great bitch/rebuttal from you here
Oh, yeah IMO 2×4’s are definately not fat
L O L
this makes me happy to see. i know many very attractive bigger women that take care of themselves. my friend a size 22 is the most confident woman i know. she is well dressed, beautiful hair, good job, very funny.
they do need to stop feeling sorry for themselves and that is a huge thing when it comes to dating
everyone has things they don’t like about themselves
EVERYBODY
so just focus on the things you like
it makes you feel better about yourself and gives you confidence and confidence goes hell of a long way
Holla!!!
haha well thanks,
i relate to this
i was a big girl (still not small)
but i focused on what i loved about myself and it got me places and in a few good relationships.
girls (and guys)
just gotta take care of themselves
amen sista.. gotta be happy before someone else can make you happy 🙂
OB, get real……given the choice of looking at a fat person or a fit person, people will choose fit. Fat just is NOT attractive. Don’t watching TV, a movie, look in a magazine. FAT just doesn’t fit in.
fatty 2×4, i think i’m in love, or maybe just horny again. but yep, you said it all baby. i like a girl with a little meat on them, that way i don’t break any bones when i dio the very, very wild thing with them. MORE BOUNCE PER OUNCE BABY.
“I also dont like blondes and blue eyes.” Freakin’ racist!!
Alex Parris, are you the former atecookie or did you just steal her avatar? You seem very nice, very much like Robyn.
i was atecookie once upon a time. but i got signed out and when i went to sign back in they said i do not exist. so i just went and revealed my real name because atecookie is my name for everything and if i can’t use that i’m gonna use my name
and sebastian i know some people that rather enjoy bigger girls over fit
im 5’8 and a size 12 and on 2 occassions men have told me i am too thin for their liking.
that just gave me a complex on how i should look
“I also dont like blondes and blue eyes”, as a blue eyed blonde, I know what you mean OB. I don’t particularly like orange brown eyes, or big tits. Oh well, live and let live.
well everyone has a preference as what they are attracted to.
No offense but pretty much any girl can get a guy as long as they have a vagina (or even pretend to have one). Guys on the other hand will have a much more difficult time finding a female if they are not perfect because superficiality is very high on many women’s personality traits.
Also guys are very perverted and spend most of their brainpower ensuring that no one realizes just how perverted they are, hence they cannot put extra thought into whether the girl that smiled at them is from a rich family, has a six-pack, will be a good mother, has shoes that cost $500, etc. They are only wondering if she might say yes if asked out. Before the trolling commences I have been married for 10 years and I am just calling out what I see nowadays.
Sometimes I wonder if women actually realize the superpowers they possess when it comes to men.
Any girl can get a guy if they just wanna bang. Guys dont always discriminate in the dark. Fatty fatty seems to be speaking to the other side of things dating/relationships.
Alex – I hope you no longer have those complexes! Chubby chasers are no better than the ones who want rattly hipbones only.
Great post OP. Be proud of who you are. It is true rejection is experienced at all sizes no matter how great looking you are.
First they ignore me, then they ridicule me, then they fight with me, then I win.
I’m just being the Original Equilist!
I LOVE this bitch.
no. no more complexes im happy in my skin