I write a status on facebook the other day about how happy he makes me. And you, BITCH, comment: aw, it’s a shame you need a man to make you happy and complete!
Like, what the fucking hell? Am I out of the loop or something? So if any woman lucky enough to find the guy who is PERFECT for her, shows any sign of how ecstatic she is about that, it means she’s needy and would be miserable without said guy??! Nah, I don’t think so. I was happy when I was single, I’m just even more happy now that I met him. Okay? And what a freakin surprise, you happen to be single. Jealous that you haven’t met the right guy? Yup, probably. Women like you make me realize how enriched my life is. You hide behind this Proud-to-be-single persona and make fun of any woman who actually wants (NOT needs!) a lifelong bond with another person, when deep down you’re bitter because nobody wants to be with you!
PS. I deleted you. I don’t need depressed twats like you keeping tabs on me! —Living the dream with my man
This article appears in Aug 1-7, 2013.
Admit it, you are not complete without a man!
Otherwise, if you were, you wouldn’t have written this bitch and you wouldn’t have told everyone on your facebook friend list how oh-so-happy he makes you.
When your maaaann leaves your needy ass, let’s see if you really are happy, confident and content alone. I’m betting you won’t be…
Not that it was right for the other chick to make that comment on your status, but it seems she hit a nerve.
^^This is why I don’t come here very often anymore. So many of you just can’t seem to STAND to see or hear about someone being happy. Always reaching to find some flaw with the bitch or the OP. Projecting your own misery onto others. It’s pathetic and depressing.
Talk to me in 10 years, OP, and let me know how perfect this person still is, okay?
You sound needy as hell otherwise you’d just shrug off this petty shit. Especially a stupid Fartbook comment.
I agree with TJ902.
There are some women who like to feel needed like there are some men who like to feel needed in a relationship,whether it’s platonic or a romantic relationship .If a guy wants an independent woman I suggest he stay away from needy women.The same should be said for a woman looking for a man.
Why do people consider “needy” people so GD evil? They aren’t evil just different from independent people. Just saying.
Yeah, Crock. Needy people just need to find eachother, same with people who like their space and independance. People need to be wise enough to know that it’s not going to work out if one’s a needer and the other isn’t.
There’s a certain level of each that are unhealthy though.
And ffs lighten up, people. This is coming from a fairly grouchy dude.
In my experience, needy means high maintenance, high maintenance means continual drama, continual drama means total stress overload for everyone involved. I’ve been independent and self-assured for too long to waste any more of my life on people who are, essentially, emotional vampires. I tried for years without avail – needy people just feed off the patience and time of others and, eventually, one must walk away to get some breathing space. I’ll pass on that and the canapés, thanks.
Agree T.T. ‘needy’ also usually leads to ‘jealous’ and/or ‘controlling’
Neither a desirable quality. Whether partners or friends, if there is no trust, there is no relationship.
not every one on the internet thinks you two making mooneye s at each other is totes adorbs .you sound need y as fukc .
” Whether partners or friends, if there is no trust, there is no relationship.”
T.T. I wholeheartedly agree with your last statement.
Whether or not a person is ‘needy’ IF a partner or friend gives the other a reason to mistrust there is no relationship. Or,if a relationship is built on a lie,the relationship usually does not end well.
…Those who learn from their mistakes are not bound to repeat them.
If you are one of those people who constantly post ever-changing relationship statuses…if you “hint” at the idea of being overly happy because you want people to ask “Really, why are you so happy?” and “Do you have a new man?”, etc, etc, then I totally “get” why your so-called friend would react the way she did. I have unfriended people for that very reason. Of course I want my friends to be happy and in love. What I don’t want is my friend splashing her entire day, good or bad, including the last time she went to the bathroom and how it looked. It gets a bit tiring. Now if you are NOT one of those people then your friend is likely very miserable in her own life and just wants to shit on your Cornflakes because she is miserable. Keep shining. Who needs her?
and peopl e who spend thier lives holding on to every perceeved hurt and bit of bagggag e wont know a good partne r when they see them because they are to fukced up of their own chooseing .
‘…Those who learn from their mistakes are not bound to repeat them.
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Why don’t monosexual people get their own bar? Is it because they don’t need anybody?
These are deep thoughts.
I hear you OB & have to say having a partner you love who adores you right back is AWESOME
I Have never been in a relationship like this before, now that we have several years together & it’s not just still really good like how it started out , it’s great !
So wishing you the very best , OB ..sometimes life really can be just like a romance novel
Facebook posts. Man they work some people up.
Happy cheerful posts irritate some people. That’s their problem OP.
OP’s has probably broken up with this “totally perfect” guy by now, it’s been four days 😛