I just want to send out a big THANK-YOU to my loving relatives. Since my Dad died in 97 I haven’t heard a peep from any of you. I mean you were at his funeral, but that was the last time. No Christmas cards, no phone calls, nada….When my my died in 2006, not a single one of you was at her funeral…oh did I mention the phone call that my mom made a few years before she died to my cousin???? Seems that my cousine told my mother that “my” life was a “mistake”….that I am a “mistake” that I was a “mistake”….oh yeah there’s also the thing about my mother having alzheimer disease from 2001 til her death….no calls of support from my cousins then either….hey they are only my closest relatives on my father’s side of the family that I’ve got….I’m not hurt….they can suck it. Hope karma gets you good cousin….
This article appears in Aug 28 – Sep 3, 2008.


I guess my posting this kinda does show that it got to me (OP) but I will NEVER let them know that….
OP, I hear this kind of complaint a lot in real life… So & so never calls me etc… whatever… My response to you is the same I always give to them…Why is it up to the other person to always call you…? What is the matter with you that you can’t call them…??? I never understand this…If this is important to you, and I believe that it is, then pick up the phone and make the call yourself, before its too late…
Ditto Floyd. When I get the “you never call” guilt trip, I always say nothing more than simply, “You have my number”, with a raised eyebrow.
gee….never thought o that before….reda the whole post about the funeral etc….they are miserable fucks…nothing more or less
gee….never thought o that before….read the whole post about the funeral etc….they are miserable fucks…nothing more or less