HAPPY BIRTHDAY THIS WEEK TO Jordan Stirling, Breton Cousins, Emma Ross, Sophia Millington and Samantha Warshick. share the love by emailing your friend’s name and birth date to bday@thecoast.ca then click your sign to go to your horoscope aquarius aries cancer capricorn gemini leo libra pisces sagittarius scorpio taurus […]
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Lotsa Love Livestream leftovers
I want to thank everyone who attended our third Savage Love Livestream last Saturday night. Mistress Matisse was our very special guest, and we tackled a lot of questions about BDSM over a very lively 90 minutes. We didn’t get to every question–there were so many–but I will now, as promised, power through as many […]
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In your horoscope: Nourish your sense of smell
HAPPY BIRTHDAY THIS WEEK TO Missie Brown, Chris Currie, Kayoung Heo, Rima Saba, Ted Worthington, Christina Torrealba, John Tweel, Rita Malik, Gary Staple and Nicole Langdon. share the love by emailing your friend’s name and birth date to bday@thecoast.ca then click your sign to go to your horoscope aquarius aries cancer capricorn gemini leo libra pisces sagittarius […]
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The phone job
QA male friend–not my best friend but a close one–told me his wife was really attracted to me, another male, and asked if I was attracted to her. His wife is an incredibly hot woman and I thought it was a trick question. I read your column and listen to the Savage Lovecast, Dan, so […]
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Your horoscope for the week March 11-17
HAPPY BIRTHDAY THIS WEEK TO Caora McKenna, Michele Ryall, Jane Crawford, Maddie Johnson, Jonathan Toms, Jess Hartjes, Rachel Banks and John Johnstone. share the love by emailing your friend’s name and birth date to bday@thecoast.ca then click your sign to go to your horoscope aquarius aries cancer capricorn gemini leo […]
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Cutting remarks
Q I’m having a problem advising a friend. She’s been through a divorce and now the breaking off of an engagement. To put it simply, both relationships ended because she was cheated on and she has a zero-tolerance policy around infidelity. To complicate matters, in each relationship we—her friends—have witnessed her being very cutting to […]
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Love and devastation
QI am at a loss. I am devastated. I just found out my husband has been sexting with another woman. As if that’s not bad enough, this woman is his first cousin! And this has been going on for years! I’ll give you a moment to recover from that jaw drop. OK, now the background. […]
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Your horoscope for the week March 4-10
HAPPY BIRTHDAY THIS WEEK TO: Darryl Wright, Matt Brand, Kasia Morrison, Kate Bogle, Dan Murrans, Sue Downey Lim, Brittany Carragher , Carolina Andrade, Colin Morrison, Jeff Supple and Haley Boulter. share the love by emailing your friend’s name and birth date to bday@thecoast.ca then click your sign to go to your horoscope aquarius aries […]
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In your horoscope: Celebrate the mysterious
HAPPY BIRTHDAY PISCES (February 19-March 20) Piscean author Anais Nin was a maestro of metamorphosis, a virtuoso of variation, an adept at alteration. She regarded her ceaseless evolution as a privilege and luxury, not an oppressive inconvenience. “I take pleasure in my transformations,” she wrote. “I look quiet and consistent, but few know how many […]
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When good kinks go away
Q I know you and other sexperts say that kinks are ingrained and not something you can get rid of, but mine have all vanished! Ever since I started on antidepressants, my relationship with my body and how it reacts to pain—both physical and mental—has completely changed. I used to love getting bit and spanked […]
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In your horoscope: Celebrate life’s rich stories
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AQUARIUS (January 20-February 18) Sergei Rachmaninoff (1873–1943) ultimately became one of the 20th century’s most renowned composers. But his career had a rough start. Symphony No. 1, his first major work, was panned by critics, sending him into a four-year depression. Eventually he recovered. His next major composition, Piano Concerto No. 2, was […]
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Pandemic pressures
QI’m a gay guy living in New York in his late twenties. My boyfriend has really been emotionally impacted by the pandemic, having been a frontline worker. I think he is suffering from some mild depression or at the very least some intense anxiety, so I just want to preface this by saying I completely […]
