First off, watching two gay men kiss is creepy. Secondly, nodding at us to get moving when we noticed you was a bit insulting. We weren’t in a massively obvious location for the world to see us, we weren’t grabbing at each other. I am near certain if we had been two chicks you would have done nothing, or if we were straight couple also you probably would have done nothing. To bad for you we both had penises.
Get a grip. Times have changed and when two adult men want to kiss in the dim light on the empty street we shouldn’t get dirty looks, expected to immediately stop and leave. I also shouldn’t be restricted to only being able to do this outside of a certain bar. It’s hard enough for gay men to feel comfortable in this city showing any displays of affections. —Big Queer Who Hates Your Inability To Deal With a Little PDA
This article appears in Dec 15-21, 2011.
“… watching two gay men kiss is creepy” why?
You probably made him question his sexuality which made him uncomfortable. Keep kissing OP don’t let other peoples issues concern you.
OB, you sissies need to learn some class.
Excessive PDAs are nasty as hell, i don’t give a shit WHAT your gender is.
Didn’t sound like excessive PDA … which I also find a bit much, but have been guilty of a time or two. If it’s just some smoochin’ … and I don’t mean the kind of smoochin’ that is an obvious prelude to a much more intimate encounter … I don’t care what your sexual orientation is … go for it. It makes me smile when I see people display affection for the person they’re with. If someone is so uptight that it makes them uncomfortable, that’s their problem.
http://www.theonion.com/articles/why-do-al…
Two people kissing is not “an excessive PDA”, except to an idiot, or a sexless and joyless dundertwat.
I don’t want to live in a society where two people can’t express their feelings in an apropriate way.
OB, don’t let this tard cramp for expression to your bf.
Love is very lovely.
Wpaul
Thanks for that, Ivan – I totally lost it and snorted up a mushroom off my pizza slice.
Love is love is love. Doesn’t matter who you love, love is ALL good. I remember playing tonsil hockey with a mailbox once – right there, on the sidewalk, in front of the whole fucking neighbourhood. It wasn’t really love, though, simply a mere infatuation – I came to that realization when my buddy, smiling Jack Daniels, kept pointing and laughing at me.
Despicable. Was he an actual cop? Probably a security guard. I agree, over the top PDA is uncouth. And I’ll admit that I’m not crazy about witnessing certain activities between men, but like persevere said, that’s MY problem. I can always look/walk away.
Anyways OP you did nothing wrong and that guy had no right to tell you what you can do and where. This would have definitely rubbed me the wrong way to say the least if I was in your shoes. Kissing in public is not illegal regardless of gender or sexual orientation, and I think you’re right that it was because of the the fact that it was two men that he decided to mess with you.
Valid bitch.
Your expectation that everyone “has” to be accepting because times have changed is way off base. Times may have changed, but many people have not changed with them, as unfortunate as that is, it’s reality. The guard didn’t chase you down the street screaming “faggot”, he waited until you noticed him and politely nodded an indication it was time to move on, just like someone enforcing a no loitering policy would do. No added attention to you or your lover, just an indication that it’s time to go. People of alternative lifestyles have tagged themselves as different, you have parades to celebrate your difference from the social norm. If you are going to be considered different IMO you are going to have to develope thicker skin, and not automatically assume that everything negative that happens to you is a direct result of your homosexuality.
PS; Wheelie, did you not have the audacity to chastise me for my defense of the word retard. Please explain how the short version “tard” is any different, or considered to be any more politically correct. I believe you even associated my use of the word retard with flinging racial slurs.
tard is short for leotard
Maybe the nod didn’t mean, “move along”, but “can I join?”
Did he look like this?
http://i234.photobucket.com/albums/ee102/o…
seb, seb, seb, how many times you gotta be told, get a room, or use your car.
it would have ‘rubbed you the wrong way’ ….
I had to stop reading to think whether that was an intentional choice of words…
though I’m glad I wasn’t consuming a hot beverage at the time.
lol, I use that expression way too much..
Let the record show that SHITD and I disagree on this one, but I see his point, MAYBE it had nothing to do with the activity OP was engaged in, or who he was engaged in it with, but the fact that it was the rentacop’s job to make sure people don’t loiter in his spot.
I tend to give OP’s the benefit of the doubt if I don’t think they’re total SETs, but it’s possible that you’ve got the rentacop all wrong, OP.
PDA is not an issue if its not going to far. The rent a cop prob was having a bad day or having issues with site he was stuck at.
You’re right to call me on that, ShittyD. I used a word I’m making a. Genuine effort in real life to stop using.
Thanks. Sincerely, no shit. Thanks.
I would like to point out that gays did not “seperate themselves” from everyone else. The self-segregation of certain communities comes from actually being demonized and segregated by “the Majority” since forever-ish. To put this on the “victim”(alledged), is to play blame the victim.
It is entirely concievable the security guy did this because it was two guys. Last night I saw two actual cops make two non-Hobos leave their seat on a Spring Garden Road doorstep(you’re allowed to panhandle or loiter on the sidewalk next to the road, but not against a building, due to a by law I cannot quote chapter and verse).
I have been “against the wall” many a time and have never been asked to move on, I’m presuming because of the wheelchair. The Hoboes get bounced immediately every time.
Happy Merry Christmas!
Wpaul
Should have kept kissing. It’s not illegal to kiss in public.
Y’know not all of us… oh never mind… I give up… Rent a cop it is… But buddy, you keep on smooching, no matter what anyone says. I love love. 😀
it’s otay sweet rosie, i understand. folks don’t know that you’re part of the most dangerous gang in nova scotia^^
OB…if ever there was a chance for you to use the line “is that a banana in your pocket…or are you just happy to be here”
That was it…& you blew your chance ~;)
OP, is there a possibility that you are making this into something that it’s not? From what I can, perhaps this is a story about 2 men loitering. The rent a cop was courteous enough to wait until you were done your kiss before saying anything. And, because of the rotten treatment you often get by others, you’ve made this into a ‘gay’ thing.
Do you think this is a possibility?
I had to figure out what a PDA was, a Public Display of Affection. Public affection between two people doesn’t bother me in the least but it does bother some. The line between strong affection and lewdness can be very subjective and there are laws against lewdness. If there is a next time, ask exactly what you were doing wrong.
Oh, and BTW… the term is now ‘Blarts’ not ‘Rent a Cops’… just fyi
No problem wheelie, I hope you dodn’t take me too seriously, I’m very rarely angry and most of my more ridiculous posts are due to a very dry sense of humour that sometimes doesn’t translate well in text form. You didn’t really think I supported the word retard did you? Lol.
First off, watching two gay men kiss is NOT creepy. Gay men who think BEING WATCHED IS CREEPY is creepy. You’re obvious self-loathing of being gay and being watched kissing is creepy. I’ll bet you dick is creepy too. Ewwww! Creepy dick!
SHITD, when it comes to political commentary, you bring new meaning to retard. just saying LOL
Awwwwww, GV you’re gonna make me blush!!! Coming from you I’ll take that as a compliment, now quit hitting on me big fella, I’m already taken. You’ll have to put your efforts elsewhere for your New Years kissee, sorry.
I make it a habit to patiently wait for the 2 people to stop kissing before telling them to move along. Being gay doesn’t excuse you for loitering.
The best part of this bitch was Urkel related, by far. Say church of hate GV!
Glad someone appreciated that FS, I had been waiting for an opportunity to drop that gif. I wonder if there will be any Family Matters on this holiday season. I remember there was a marathon last year or the year before.
Oh, man. That was magic gold. His whole Stephan Urkel transformation is great times. That was a funny show. I like how one year, they had one less sister…and no one noticed or cared! Then they kept the cute kid (cousin Richie?) but his Mom aunt Rachel was gone! Here’s what happened to Judy Winslow:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jaimee_Foxwor…
it’s funny, Urkel’s introduction indirectly resulted in little Judy ultimately getting into the adult film biz.
http://www.blogcdn.com/www.urlesque.com/me…
but not like HA HA funny…
Really? I think it’s kinds haha funny. Haha.
Didn’t he like, love cheese also?
And cereal: (This actually existed)
http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lqcy4ogCrm1…
And he also had a strong pimp hand
http://belieber.files.wordpress.com/2010/1…
and yes cheese
http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQ…
And because we’re on the subject of Urkel and I probably won’t get another oportunity, here’s some amusing memes:
http://roflrazzi.files.wordpress.com/2010/…
http://weknowmemes.com/wp-content/uploads/…
90s>>>>>
It’s funny because it’s true! The hipster thing.
I like the cereal. ‘Brought to you by Ralston Industrial waste disposal and cereal manufacturing!’ Or so I would imagine.
http://belieber.files.wordpress.com/2010/1… win for that 1.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvoKFiDTQx4 Stefan Urquelle ✔ Yes.
Nice. Jaleel had chops! A fine actor. A credit to the craft. I used to envy his Donald Duckishness. Second best Urkel thread ever.
2nd?
lol I knew Donk would like that one. She’s a longtime member of the Hard on Hoes movement. I’ll check the Youtube later on. I got exactly an hour to go before my long weekend.
Yeah. I had one on my facebook that was a little better. The day is young though.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FnXEPXdB3-w
Watchoo gonna do now Willy?
I just got off the phone with a dude named Willie Williams like 10 minutes ago. True story.
“Hard on Hoes” … ayeeee ayeee no. Hard on bad hoes, you know, the ones without a business plan. *insert troll face here*
Omg lol listen to Urkel’s little voice. Awwww. I’m tempted to put his laugh 0:57 – 1:00 as a ring tone.
That’s fate Tommy. Kismet, if you will.
Wayne Brady and Urkel would make a deadly pimp combo. And the guy with the diamond dust in the baby powder he would use to prep his hand before slapping. Super-Pimpz they would be called.
lol you guys..
I’M OUT BITCHERS! MERRY CHRISTMAS OR WHATEVER!!
Posted by Furious Styles on December 23, 2011 at 3:06 PM Say church of hate GV!
Is the left wing church of hate calling my a bigot, FS?
I am merely using my powers of deduction. If OP is complaining about a rent a cop, then this incident clearly didn’t happen in a city owned public place. The only real jurisdiction that a private security officer would have would be related to issues of loitering. So, my conclusion that the two gay guys were loitering is more rational than the claim that the security officer was acting prejudicially against them.
Unfortunately, the left wing church of hate prefers to treat rational thought as an inconvenience….so go ahead and call me names. none of it will be true.
This bitch sounds fishy to me. Were you only kissing on a public street? Or were you parked in a car doing more than just kissing? Were you possibly on private property? It isn’t against the law to kiss in public so if you were just kissing, you should have kept on kissing and told him to fuck off. You stopped so it seems like you guys must have been doing something illegal. If not, perhaps you should actually DO something to protest this! Complain to the security company the Rent-a-cop works for. Or start and open facebook group…explain what happened and start inviting all your friends in the lesbian/gay community and have everyone meet in that area for a massive PDA event!
…”People of alternative lifestyles have tagged themselves as different, you have parades to celebrate your difference from the social norm”…
We have to have parades so that the general population stop referring us as ‘people of alternative lifestyles’ instead of just people. Seems like you still brand us as well. For shame.
So you were kissing in the hopes of creeping someone out? Too fucking bad you got what was coming to you.