First and foremost … you’re a pathetic fucking idiot.
So I was stupid and allowed you to control me during our relationship … then I finally realized that I deserved better and our children didn’t deserve to see you treat their mother like an idiot who supposedly couldn’t do things for herself and only knew something if it came from a book, so I finally left your ass. But it seems you can’t get over it and you’ve been using our children to continue to control me because you know I will back off and won’t use them the same way you do.
You have definitely earned your star on the walk of assholes. I’m sure all of your groupies who you have convinced that I’m a mother who doesn’t care about her children, and your “connections” that you often speak of, will attend the unveiling. —A Mama at her Wit’s End
This article appears in Oct 27 – Nov 2, 2011.
And this is the very reason I am soooo glad I didn’t (and still don’t) have kids when I was going through my divorce. They always seem to end up getting caught in the middle of the whole mess and it’s totally unfair. Even more so when parents start using them as bargaining chips or try to turn them against the other parent, or somehow use them as pawns in their twisted little game to “get back” at the other parent. It’s by far, one of the most selfish and damaging things you can do. It serves no purpose other then to perpetuate a poisoned situation and it has a real lasting affect on the innocent children, regardless of their age. Divorce is hard enough on them as it is with them maybe not understanding what’s going on or why, or maybe even blaming themselves for mom and dad splitting up. Then they inevitably get brought into the fray when things like custody, visitation rights, child support, etc, have to be hashed out. To be used as a form of collateral or as a way to spite the other parent is just rubbing salt in the wound.
I don’t know what to tell you OB. I don’t know the circumstances surrounding your current situation, (other than what you posted here), so I can’t really comment.
I will say that this line has me a little concerned: “But it seems you can’t get over it and you’ve been using our children to continue to control me because you know I will back off and won’t use them the same way you do.”
Maybe this is badly worded or maybe I am reading it wrong but, where you say “I…won’t use them the same way you do.” has me worried. Your kids should not be used AT ALL. It’s not fair to them and does not help the situation whatsoever. I hope for the sake of your children that you realize this and can distance the kids as much as possible from any bad blood that may exist between you and your ex. I hope you are able to resolve things quickly and with as little pain as possible, for all parties involved but especially for the kids.
well, i think you would make a great poppa vastie…you just need a non-nutter^^
lol…aww tanks, PG. I appreciate that. Already got my non-nutter, (well, relatively speaking of course. She has to be a lil’ nutty to want to be with me. It definately helps!)
OB, why are you bitching on here and not to your lawyer? Is it that time of the month?
hey mama, want to have the suckster over some time, bet douchebag won’t be returning after that. a nostril is only so big, and having something shoved up it, will not make it look good, anymore.the suckster is waiting, but, don’t take too long. i’m going away friday, hunting again. and guys, will kill something for you, and all those that want to kill something, but are afraid to. cheerio.