Dear redacted,
It was nice talking with you until you grabbed my dick without warning. I get it, it’s late and we’re at a gay bar, just hanging out, but the least you could’ve said is say, “I’m gonna grab your dick,” or something. Don’t just reach for it. Heck, I would’ve probably let you, if you’d asked! You’re cute and all, but don’t kid yourself into thinking that kind of behavior is alright. —Consent’s Cool
This article appears in Jul 16-22, 2015.


Silly OP. “Consent” doesn’t apply to men.
Hay mod, where’s the “Male Tears” header?
OMFG!Are you gay OB? Irrespective, you were at a GAY BAR. Things work a little differently than elsewhere. You’re a man; get over it. OMFG! Can’t wait to see you at a real gay bar in larger centres (sorry, but the gay bars here suck). You epitomize the backwards, sex-is-bad attitude gay guys have here…
You could have tried wearing pants. That might have helped.
In my bar hopping days we tended to want a grope, depending on the groper that is.
Can’t help but wonder if the dislikes are coming from women… if it’s gay guys, my points have been clearly proven.
Or maybe there are heterosexual men that also don’t think someone should be groped just because they are gay? Is that so far fetched?
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“Heck, I would’ve probably let you, if you asked.” I think OB swings left Naveed, so probably not a straight guy…
My post was in response to Charlie who seems to think all of the ‘dislikes’ on his comment were from mostly women. I was just pointing out that there might be hetero men out there that don’t think a gay man deserves to be groped simply because he is gay (or in a gay bar).