Lines from actual break up conversations:
“He has his ex on his facebook so I told him it’s over if he still talks to her.” Wtf are you doing searching his friends on his facebook? And what business is it of yours if he still talks to her? Could there be a reason? Not all break ups are a horrific. Maybe they’re still friends. Or have a mutual friend. Did you actually ask him why he has her on his facebook? no of course not, that would mean you would have to admit you were searching his shit. So maybe he’s talking to her for advice on how to ditch your nosy ass.
“He got three texts from her the other day.”
Again with the facebook argument, what the hell were you reading his texts for? If he searched your phone you would start a riot.
“He never puts the seat down”. Are your hands broken? You can’t do it yourself?
“He ignores me when he is watching UFC pay per views.” They’re about 50 bucks a pop, you’re free. Give him 4 hours of peace.
“He is cranky when he wakes up.” Could it be because you make every decibel of noise possible and you woke him up? But if he did it to you…
“I hate his friends.” Because they have picked up on what a total bitch you are and tried to warn him about you.
This is why I can’t find a decent man. They have been polluted by these poisonous women and expect every woman to be a total head case.
You can’t just love him, you have to love him and trust him. Trust and love are hand in hand. You can’t have one with out the other. If you think you only have one, you have neither. Break up or suck it up and learn to trust him. —Single Again.
This article appears in Jul 15-21, 2010.
big fucking deal o.p., a lot of my exes are on there too. and you don’t see me crying. fuck them, if they want to start shit with each other, fine by me. i no longer am with any of them, so who really cares what happens, and neither should you or anyone else. unless of course you are something like 12 or 13.
OB you’re right on the money. The first time a femae tells me I have to drop this person or that person, I dump her. I don’t want or need someone else’s drama.
LS, I think you missed the point of this bitch.
I didn’t feel like reading this bitch because the title is already crap. Anyone who makes such uneducated generalization and manages to spell a word wrong….
She’s probably searching his friends on Facebook because you see your friend’s friends on their front pages and I assume a woman would have her boyfriend on her friend list. I also assume she would see anything posted on her boyfriend’s wall as well, since it’s open to his friends.
Honestly, if my spouse has exs on Facebook friends and continually contacted them, I think that I would be annoyed/irritated as well. Not outright jealous or angry, but mildly irritated. I would never do the same thing.
The rest of your bitch is banal and fatuous.
Exactly OP.
I gave up years ago. The “New Deal” sucks. Slavery? No thanks.
They all look so pathetic, trying to satisfy their masters.
I am sure I am not the only one who feels this way.
I’ll just keep my kind, gentle, nature loving, well paid professional, clean and trim ass single, dignified and free.
I enjoy being out of reach now. It is fun watching the Karma wheel roll. To all the power hungry, lazy entitlement generation bitches out there: You want this? You can’t have it! It is too fucking good for you!
I will not perform for their amusement. I will not debase myself. I have self respect.
op – if you don’t like women, don’t date them. eventually, how women behave in relationships with others will not bother you. ps. i used to sound as bitchy as you before i came out of the closet. just sayin’.
This applies to gay men also.
Holy shit- how many of the commenters here actually read the bitch? Jesus, we have some morons here.
jdp21, yes i read it, and that was a personal comment from me, whether it directly had anything to do with bitch, is another thing.some people start shit with other people’s exes, that’s a fact. also a fact, that your ex gets too nosey and starts to hunt in your pofile, for who they may think you are hot for or even boinking at that time. never mind the small fact that said person may live in another country. i have been there with a very, very fucking jealous ex, and it was no fucking picnic for two years. every person i even looked at, was sposed to be a potential bed partner for me, even though, as i said, the other party could be in england. and we won’t even go there with talking to friends or other relatives of mine. some people go too fucking far.
I know three men who never married because of stupid women who thought they could change them – and they’re the happiest people I know – they’re financially well off, no nagging, no ‘you can’t do this’, no ‘I don’t like your friends’ horseshit. Any man who accepts a jealous, possessive little twit in their lives has the brain of a dung beetle. Your business is your business unless you decide otherwise.
Hey TTFN send one or two (all three?) of those guys to my place. Happy and financially well off turns me on 🙂
You need to trust until you’ve been given good reason not to. Just becuase you couldn’t trust a partner in the past doesn’t mean you shouldn’t trust others in the future.
Single again, you forgot another important component to a successful relationship. Respect. For one’s self and one’s partner. There are other important components as well. Love and trust are only two of many.
And about the toilet seat, I would suggest that if the lid is always kept down (much more attractive than a gaping toilet) then both genders are responsible for their own usage in putting the seat and/or lid up and down. This eliminates up/down toilet seat power struggle between males and females.
Don’t think for a minute that guys are not responsible for their own behaviour with your casual assertions that their gf’s or exes bad behaviour is responsible for how they treat women. Guys are equally capable of bad behaviour. Everyone is. Straight or gay. The trick is to weed through all the bad ones til you find a keeper.
I agree and disagree all in one. First of all I agree that love and trust go hand and hand. But to say that men are all decent and women are the ones with the problem is a bit of bullshit there. Did you ever think of all the “decent men” that may have cheated and hurt this girl in the past and now unfortunately she’s so insecure that she snoops because she is so traumatized from her past that she’s screwing up her future. Now I’m not saying she’s the victim, I’m saying that we all carry around emotional baggage from the past, she has to realize that loves not about who has the upper hand by trying to catch him in these so called ‘indiscretions’, or catch him in lies. Love isn’t about control, you shouldn’t have to trade a person in your life to make another person happy, but at the same time know your partner enough to know that certain things are going to piss them off and upset them, and if you love someone you should avoid doing those things. And if “said things” are unreasonable requests then get out of the relationship!
I’m guessing that the chick writing this post has a crush on the “said guy” and is stuck in the friend zone. By the sounds of the post – and the fact that you’re this upset over someone else’s relationship, that she’s not the only crazy chick in the scenario, you are as well.
TTFN, those women are not stupid. Far from it. There are plenty of men who are willing to be controlled in exchange for simulated affection. They just set their goals a little high trying to break an earner. The big money has been broken for generations ladies, you just have to be decorative enough to get in.
I never married becasue of one of these kinds of women. But I am still angry, fucking mad, that it happens over and over and nobody can do anything.
Watching half of my species being subjugated by the other in some kind of misguided revenge effort is fucking sick.
I am happy to be free, but I am sad for my brothers that remain in captivity. History will record what is going on now as torture.
And the materialsm and territorialism and wars… fuck can’t they see they are destroying the earth? It is actually happening. We let it happen. Its too late now.
Oldhand speaks as if women have never been under control of overbearing men. The pendulum swings both ways. A little understanding of relationship dynamics and the realization that not all women or all men are cut from the same cloth go along way.
i wouldn’t think anyone would enjoy a relationship with a milquetoast. tho i know a few women who enjoy that in a man, don’t really get it…everyone needs some chutzpah
If I married a woman who told me I could do this or that or hated my friends I’d so go ahead and smack her across the nose like she were a disobedient horse.
hey c’mon ngf don’t be hitting horsies. i would hope you would have enough sense not to hitch your wagon to a person like that
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I think men should put the toilet seat AND lid down as a sign of courtesy to women they live with. I do that for my female room mates. Plus, a lid should be down anyways so people don’t drop stuff in it by accident.
When you flush a toilet without the lid closed, it splashes the stuff in the toilet up in the air, spraying things in the bathroom including your tooth brush and face towels. GROSS.
I feel sorry for all people, men, women, and all in-between, who have had bad relationships, or good relationships that ended badly. But blaming that on the gender of the person is just ignorant.
So a female could leave the seat up when she’s done for a male roommate or partner she’s with? Come on; if the male ‘should’ do it for a woman shouldn’t it be fair to ask for the opposite?
Poor Fat, you don’t understand… the COVER should be closed on the toilet, has nothing to do with the seat. And BOTH sexes have to do that. It’s icky to have to open with the possibility of things falling in and germs and smells circulating. So see? Fair-sy.
That works.
I keep the toilet lids down in my crib because mah cats like to jump up on the seat when someone is showering or getting ready at the sink and since they were kittens I’ve kept the lid down so they wouldn’t jump up and fall in, so now they expect it.
Plus I don’t want them drinking the water. Blech.
Also: fuck sakes, when will women EVER get this shit into their heads: 1. you can’t change a man and 2. they never leave their wives. I knew that shit by the time I hit 12, just by watching day time tv alone!