Who am I? From where did I come? What is our biological family medical history? Do I have any other siblings? That’s all she wants to know. I have one of my own: Why do you think she doesn’t deserve to have those questions answered? She has no animosity towards you, even after 45 years. For denying her the answers, I despise the ground you walk on. I curse that in which you will be soon buried.
—Her brother
This article appears in Jan 10-16, 2019.
I’m not entirely sure what’s going on with your family but I’m sorry. It sounds like a lot to deal with and I hope you are able to overcome this and get the answers you are seeking.
My sister’s biological mother refuses to speak with her; she gave her up for adoption 45 years ago. She has a moral responsibility to provide my sister with that information. I curse her.