If you’re a 30-something female, how do you go about meeting a decent dude these days? I’m an open-minded, decent looking gal with a good job, my own place, awesome friends, and a really supportive and loving family. I’m not looking for Prince Charming, just a solid dude that has his head on straight. I don’t so much care what his job is, so long as he’s happy and fulfilled, and I’d like to think, based on my dating history, that I’m not shallow. I’m not looking for someone to complete me, my life is pretty great, but it’d be cool to find a partner to share in some of these experiences. All of that said, I’m in no rush, but holy frick, I can’t even get myself a decent date these days! It seems like all anybody wants to do is “talk” or “hang” or whatever variation of being a flakey shithead you can imagine. Is it too much to ask to meet a dude who isn’t too busy trying to keep his options open that he forgets to treat you with respect and kindness? Is the old saying true? Are the good ones really all gone? —Single and Failing to Mingle
This article appears in Dec 1-7, 2016.
I suspect this is a previous bitch reworded.
And, as before, this bitch reeks of desperation in spite of its ‘brave’ tone of independence.
Stop looking and maybe your chances of meeting someone will improve.
OB you should feel a bit more rushed. You are no spring chicken. At 30 something you should be having children before it is too late.
Pfffft! Who says the dateless bitcher even wants kids? She’s just looking for a decent bloke to date, not a sperm donor.
I only date women who use the same language as you.
The odds of birth control ‘failing’ go exponentially higher with 30 something women. They are bad news for anyone looking to keep their money
Hi OB 😉