This has been a long couple of months of not speaking to you. I thought it would be easier seeing how it ended with you physically assaulting me. I could see all the stress eating away my body and self-worth. At times I get so angry at your behaviour when we were together and other times I miss you terribly. In the end, being in a relationship with someone shouldn’t mean losing yourself completely or making excuses for their abusive behaviours.
—Seeing The Light At The End Of The Tunnel
This article appears in Dec 12-18, 2019.
Let it go! He ain’t changing.
If he physically assault you, he ain’t gonna change, period. Start thinking about the bad times instead of glorifying the good times. He isn’t worth your spit.