You left your cellphone at home. NO BIG DEAL. I was at school and you called me from a payphone, how sweet of you to say good morning. You said you’d give me a call again during my break, sounds good to me! I found out my teacher was having a little study/review group after our class. I thought I would benefit from this, but had no way of telling you. You called me and I left class and answered. There’s not a lot of service so I didn’t receive your first couple of calls. I went all the way upstairs and away from class to speak to you and what do you do? You come to the most ridiculous conclusions about “what I’m doing” and then DUMP ME BECAUSE I’M BEING A BITCH?????? Hello, do you even hear yourself? Why don’t you grow the fuck up. Last night you couldn’t get your hands off me and today you don’t even want to be near me? I’m sick of the name calling. I’m not a fucking idiot or a retard. I’m tired of getting SCREAMED at for no reason and I’m SO SICK of you not trusting me!!! I am a wonderful, intelligent girl who has an amazing life ahead of me. You’re just holding me back from my family, friends and my life. Loser. Thanks for wasting 2 years of my life by constantly bringing this type of bullshit into our relationship. You’re jealous, dishonest and self-entitled jerk and the worst part is that I fucking LOVE YOU!!!! Good riddance, asshole. —Too Good For You
This article appears in Feb 16-22, 2012.
Good for you. I applaud your strength of character. So many women would be apologizing and trying to placate this moron. Its not so much that you love him, but you love the person he could be if he wasn’t such a coward. Hope you maintain your resolve when he comes begging because he will.
OP Run fast run far from this tool.
The fact that you felt you had to call this tool and tell him you wouldn’t be available to take calls because you had a review session if the jerk had his phone with him is a hugggggggggggggge red flag. Huge.
Don’t go back
he’s not the only one who wasted the 2 years…
you had every opportunity to walk away, especially if he was treating you that poorly.
I can understand being annoyed that you can’t get in touch…
but he sounds like a huge, flaming pile of douche for going farther than…
well that’s annoying, but whatever….
sounds like he actually did you a favor on this one…
I wouldn’t bother thank him though.
So your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t go to the same Junior High as you, OB?
ahhh, celphones, you gotta love to hate them. i don’t have one, and i am fucking glad not to want one. if i need to call someone every 5 fucking minutes to check where they are, and doing what, then i need a kick in the fucking ass.
most people’s fucking lives, now revolve around their fucking phones. try putting them down, or better yet, turn the fucking thing off for awhile, and see what you are missing/missed.
and get the fuck off facebook too, there is actually life out there in the real world. leave your fucking status updates for a time when things actually happen. and i don’t mean just taking a shit or piss. you people make me want to go all fucking nuts on your asses.
oh, and by the way o.p., you know what to do.
Savage love put it best several years ago & IMO no one has yet improved on…
D T M F A !
(dumpthemotherfuckingasshole)
…and thanks to him, we know what santorum really means
Good for you OP. It’s very refreshing to hear someone just leave someone who restricts their life.
Good rant, sucks. I agree, smartphones are just one big step closer to The Matrix.
i didn’t enjoy those movies, i blame keanu. i love lawrence f but even that wasn’t enough
You made the right decision OP although I will say that the first Matrix movie was very good. The second and third just left me confused.
I hope you really follow through & leave this person. Some people are all talk & I really hope your not one of those people or you will just waste more years. Good luck OP
“Good for you OP. It’s very refreshing to hear someone just leave someone who restricts their life.”
You DO realize that OB would probably still be with this guy if HE hadn’t dumped her, right?
The only reason she wrote this bitch is because he dumped her. She’d be singing his praises and talking about how right he is and how wrong she was for not making herself available if he hadn’t.
And don’t worry, these two will get back together. Just as soon as the asshole ‘forgives’ her and tells her he wants her back.
Yes yes, hate Keanu and spread that hate… then I’ll have him all to myself MUAHAHAHAAA.
Bahaha oh, Mel…
congratulations for escaping an abuser. I can’t believe you were with someone like that for two years..
I remember someone on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire lost the $64 000 question because they didn’t know the name of Keanu’s band. Suckaaas. But most people don’t, so I guess it’s okay but it’s reassuring these useless facts in my brain may come in handy one day… not likely though ;D
“You DO realize that OB would probably still be with this guy if HE hadn’t dumped her, right?”
it’s true OB, this happened to me three or so years ago. I was with an abusive guy and the only reason I ended up not with him in the end was because I moved back to Halifax and he started seeing another girl. I wasn’t any kind of “strong warrior woman” or whatever. However I am so much happier now, and with a much better guy who isn’t an emotionally abusive jerk.
I really hope you do not decide to get back with this guy, take it form someone who has been in your shoes: he will not change, he will get worse, your life will be hell.
I find all the conclusions being drawn here about OP’s bf and OP a little … strange.
I’m with PK on this one …
Something smells a little not quite right to me …
Too bad it took you two years to come to your senses. If you’re all that and a bag of chips, why did you waste two years on an abusive piece of shit like him?