Stay-at-home moms, listen up…You are putting yourself in a very bad position as I did. I stayed home to look after my kids I thought that was a privilege until I had to go through the family court to get some support. I have spent all of my savings paying lawyers to try and get support to no avail. My husband worked for his family who cooked the books and said he wasn’t working. The judge suspended my support with no proof and left me to pay for everything. I have no job and have to sell my house while the dead beat got away scot free!
The lawyers will take your money until you can’t feed your kids because that’s what they are trained to do. The Barristers’ Society will not take complaints against lawyers especially if they have volunteered for them. The judges scream and holler if you try to self represent and will go against you simply because they want you to spend your money on lawyers because they were once lawyers. Go to work ladies and be self sufficient because the men in this province are not required by law to support their kids. Family court is a business! —Do not waste your money on Family Court or lawyers in this city!
This article appears in Jul 20-26, 2017.
Soooo…you have no job and no way to take care of your children, well, except for the money you were leeching from your EX husband. Who looks like the deadbeat?
Take some responsibility for YOUR children, cuz I’m sure that if you were a reasonable person you would have gotten a job instead of selling your fucking house to take your ex to court, looking for your lottery ticket. You bet, you lost, now it’s time to pussy up and get a fucking job, and quit blaming your failure on someone else. I can tell just by how you wrote this bitch that your are a twat to deal with. I bet he’s happier than fuck to be rid of your lazy, entitled ass!!
Most women realize it is completely outdated and foolish not to have some employable skill in case this situation were to happen. It sounds like you got pretty comfortable in your own situation and never thought this could happen to you. Now it’s time to pull up your socks and go find someone kind enough to take a chance on you with a retail job or something else that doesn’t require more than a high school diploma. And for the sake of your children, stop pointing your fingers at your ex and the court system and set a positive example of a woman who put herself in a bad spot and managed to climb her way out of debt by working hard.