fuck stupid boys who only want to get laid… why lead someone on only to later tell them “oh by the way, I don’t want a girlfriend… we can still have sex though, right?”. I mean REALLY! why would you spend so much time acting like you cared about me and getting to know me if that’s all you wanted? we could have gotten that over with months ago and I wouldn’t be let down at the moment. if you’re looking to fuck, than fuck me. don’t make love to me you asshole.
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This article appears in Jan 28 – Feb 3, 2010.
This is why it’s fun to be gay. It’s all boys and all we want is sex, and we both know it…lol
I completely agree with you OP… on everything except for the spelling of “boys”. Please stop abusing the letter “z” Big Bird taught you better.
are you new; i’m thinking your new cause that’s what young guys do; they’re on a mission to get laid and all is fair!
OP knows that’s what most boys want martym, and OP has no problem with that… and would even have given them what they wanted. It’s the boys that don’t own up to wanting that until they’ve wasted your time making you feel like there’s something there.
But I do agree with you that the OP is new simply because OP has got to be ten or twelve using the word “boyz” You shouldn’t be fucking people at that age OP…
It’s too bad there isn’t some STD that was super fast acting and could eradicate all the sleep-around sluts.
Why? There’s nothing wrong with sleeping around if you’re smart about it.
fizz is right. Just be smart about it.
man, I can almost smell the estrogen in this bitch.
and how is this only confined to males?
y’all twats know bitches that string guys along for the fun of it and then crush ’em.
it’s a two way street with a ‘slippery when wet’ sign.
or was it a ‘bridge freezes before road’… I can’t remember.
lol @ zZz
General rule rule of thumb is, and note I say general, If it’s the first time meeting a guy, you meet at a time alcohol is involved, and you fuck that same night…probably not going to turn into a marriage.
Not that the fucking is bad or anything, but take it for what it is and you will be a lot better off.
Its confined to males because that’s what the bitch was about; a guy who strung her along. Don’t read too much into it.
It goes both ways obviously.
i feel your pain,and i’m available for you right now.but beware,i do love my meaningless sex too.but we can discuss that when you email me, gary_more@hotmail.com .
oh,and only if you are the legal age or a lot older,25 plus.heh,heh.
Should we start placing bets on when the OP get knocked up?
sebastion,damn it man,bite your tongue,we guys thrive on those girls,right boyz.
I thrive on those boys.
I sympathize with you OP. I’ve met my share of guys who will convincingly tell you whatever you want to hear if it will get them some action. Who can blame them in a society where sex is considered a recreational activity and the only thing that matters is scoring? Love and respect not required.
What about the people who want to figure their shit out before having any kind of relationship. I’m personally not a fan of one night stands, but seriously…sex is important, you start to go a little stir crazy when you don’t get it.
Of course that doesn’t mean bullshitting anyone to get it.
May i once again say…for the record.
Rental Sex… also known as prostitution needs to be legalized, & that way IMO people who work in the industry could/would be better served & protected. People who seek out these services would be safer as well.
It is again IMO a win/win situation.
Boys are following their main directive – the hunting and digging of fresh squeaky clams – many girls, on the other hand, tend to make relationship noises once some dude’s sweet-talking dipstick tastes the velvet well. Some girls really should wake up and smell the semen instead of expecting love on gossimer wings.
@TTFN, that’s exactly right. Although, I always wondered why women aren’t confident enough to do the same thing. I know they could do it easy enough, but there’s a stigma attached to it, which is really unfair. A confident woman that fucks cause she’s just horny can easily make a guy feel the same way, but they’re few and far between.
More for Mayor.
We can make it happen… as long as government gets their cut of the income tax they haul in, why should they care?
Not only are they far and few between but they are also condemned as sluts for their freedom of choice. Back in the day, I was one of those far and few between, had a few great fuck buddies between relationships – it was so fucking liberating in that age before AIDS and all the shit that could kill ya. Thankfully, I have my mammaries of those long ago days (even if they do sit in a puddle at my cankles)- my twat now has an ‘abandoned mine shaft’ board across it and three dead canaries between my ass cheeks.
TTFN, I think I love you… in that purely platonic, totally not leading to “old-lady-saggy boobs-lesbian-sex” kinda way… LOL
How ’bout if I become your surrogate mom instead?
TTFN, it’s like lookin’ in a mirror
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for the love of god mother could you put on a bra strap; pa pa ma has ventured out without her apparatus again dang:)
zZz – I’ve got her beat by about 17-18 inches. Besides, I’d tie them behind my back if I was going to Walmart.
you let me know when you go and I’ll bring my camera.
we’re going viral with this… you’ll be an internet sensation.
I was going to write out this wordy reply, but really, I just want sex. There I said it. Okay.
lol
can i be your sister ttfn??? i donts got one
It happens to the best of us, OB. Just take this as a learning opportunity — before you take your pants off, make sure you’re both on the same page as to what each of you expect from the other/want for yourselves.
Women emotionalize sex more than men (there are studies on that shit, apparently), so it’s A LOT easier for women to get attached when they fuck a guy…especially if the guy was nice to you and you figured you were on the same wave length. I think the problem is, women are sometimes afraid to bring up the subject of “what type of ‘relationship’ is this” before letting someone stick them with their penis (perhaps afraid of rejection?), however, unless you want A LOT more of these shitty situations, you just gotta suck it up and TALK to the guy.
Sorry, OP, but the truth only comes out after Round 1.
You either have to get that out of the way fairly quickly, or be willing to be surprised after a long wait.
The problem is that for some boys, building toward sex is like building a house of cards. Don’t…disturb…anything…
lol No Dogma… great analogy.
I can see why guys build up to it like that, a lot of girls are turned off by a guy that obviously wants to get in their pants, that can easily topple the card castle.
What’s Round 1… exactly?
Round 1: First encounter, pre-sex, I think.
I think it should be looked at like this:
If you meet a guy (or gal, I guess) randomly at a party, bar, etc.:
If you like him and feel that you would like to date him : Don’t sleep with him, see if he wants to hang out sometime, and if he does then cool, have the pre-sex what’s on the D-low conversation then.
If you meet a guy/gal, their hot, you’re kinda horny, then fuck them, don’t get all spoony post sex touchy feely afterward and once the fuckings done go your own way.
If you guyss fuck and it was too hot to resist not having more crazy hot sex at a later date, then consider the “friends with benefits” role, which means NO emotional feelings for them besides lust, cause then it just get’s confusing.
Put yourself in control of the situation instead of vice versa and many problems will be solved IMO.
O and for the record, when I say put yourself in control, I don’t mean control the person. It just mean’s control the situation at hand. If you both do that, then most likely you’re both going to know what’s up on the emotional front.
Just thought I’d clarify that.
WOW zZz…Mayor
Well if I was ever…there would be no cat debate…I might dislike the bastards, but I would rather them wandering around, instead of rats running rampant !
Up to 4 chickens if you’ve got the yard space & fence it in. But please not too many roosters ok ! I like sleeping in .
On Prostitution…I like out service.
That way people aren’t up in arms if someone proposes a brothel near them. You want to ‘meet’ with a male or female, who’s into scratching an itch (so to speak) for cash. As long as your* all consenting adults, have fun ~:)
Meet at your house, his house or take turns, meet somewhere descretely & go to a motel ~;) the sky’s the limit ,but please use protection & some common sense.
To discourage pimping make it manditory anyone caught pimping gets neutered.no exceptions.
Taxes -DO it on a services provided bases, so those in the country get a break because of less services & have a small percentage based on value of homestead as well…look at it as an interest charge.
Make all gambling machines in bars etc. illegal, unless the city get’s half the profits…I’m tired of the Province sucking up all the revenue & giving us nothing from it…just another old boy’s club full of overpaid Provincial political twits sucking up on overpaid jobs. Keep the present ticket nazi revenue stream coming…just stop ticketing on clear nights, allow dispensation for the downtown Dartmouth Halifax area (until 10 minutes after bars close) but when it does snow & your on the street $100.00 fines & tow as many as possible, to help the tow truck drivers have a merry christmas .
Make taxi’s a free for all, you go where you want, you work for a company or independant, your choice…the market will regulate itself.
Legalize pot , treat it in the HRM like alcohol.
Set up a couple of city grow ops, using our landscape/grounds keeping personel & sell it for profit to those who can’t be bothered, growing their own.
* I like using the version of “your”, for some reason spelling it wrong pisses some of you off so much & that alone gives me much humor !
Round 1 = first time having sex
Only then is the pressure off (with that girl, anyway).
Until a boy gets real confidence and stops believing the societal (or at least advertising) message that his worth is determined by what girls think of him, that’s just the way it is…
omg fallingangel where were chicks like you when i was in the game damn
I get a kick out of sluts who sleep around and then cry about “being used.” Never gets old but is sure good for some laughs.
Many gals wouldn’t have this problem if they weren’t such tramps.
Right here baby ; )
lol
stop that you little persnicken:)
hah, no seriousness intended, all in good fun = )
Someone once said:
“You have to go head to head before you go belly to belly.”
Very wise words for those looking for more than instant gratification. And those wishing to avoid the inconvenience of herpes, aids/hiv, clamydia, hep, sterility, crotch critters and other nasty STDs.
What about those of us who don’t want to go “head to head” at this current time.
I have absolutely no desire for a relationship right now. I don’t go out and have one night stands, but science states that sex has a lot of healthy benefits, emotional and physical.
If you are careful and don’t just go have unprotected sex with anyone anywhere you can reap the benefits of healthy sex and not accidentally rush into getting involved with a guy/girl when you’re not ready because lust and emotion are getting mixed up.
Besides, sex makes people happy. What’s wrong with that.
I’m with fallenangel here on this one . Cards on the table each side – safe sex and your set to just bang and thats that !!!
correction, sex makes people happy if both parties are straight up and respectful of each others needs.
And yes, I know that sounded totally lame: )
yeah, thanks weedhog you added the point I had missed before I posted.
lets face it if there were more young ladies like f/a on the scene there would be a hella of alot less hurt feelings,potential violence etc etc…
Honestly, I wish North Americans had more of a European attitude towards sex – we’re such fucking prudes here, only the Americans are worse. Sex is as natural as farting in the key of C – hey, if it feels good, as we used to say in the 60s, DO IT! (with lumiglow protection, of course)
I have a few relatives in their late 20s who refuse to subscribe to society’s dream – getting hitched, burying themselves in debt and hatching new little taxpayers – hey, I applaud them big time. They’ve seen their parents bitch, fight and complain and decided being in a relationship was too much damn work. Who can blame them? Let’s see – here’s the choices – a bitchy, demanding woman and screaming kids or travelling all over the fucking world to see your favourite bands – no contest there.
yes ttfn definitely n/c it’s the beeatch and crying screaming babies 🙂
n/c?
And I’m totally with you TTFN.
n/c no contest; by the way shouldn’t you be in getting ready mode for hitting the town to practice what you preach:)
heh, not tonight. School calls, and procrastination on the bitch forum is my specialty tonight.
Fucking excitement to the extreme there : )
Besides, I prefer the whole “friends with benefits” scene anyway. The sex is better that way, and I have a rule against dating/sleeping with guys I meet at bars. Guys can be just as crazy emotional as chicks, and drunken encounters don’t always lead to the best decision making on my part.
omfg smart, responsible, level headed, mature, funny well the hell did you come from and when the time comes i hope you hold out for an A lister!
heh, thanks man = )
…reasoned argument for prudish/shy people to get out there:
http://slate.msn.com/id/2033/
(“More Sex is Safer Sex”)
ps f/a you don’t say your staying for school work; you should be all ..; well my place in cabo is being reno’d and my boy is on the west coast doing his LA thing so i think i’ll just stay in and knock off a couple of chapters on my new bestseller duhlings:)
Interesting article no dogma… :S
LOL@ martym. What are you talking about. School work is the shiznits, I fucking dig on that shit yo!
*eyes shift back and forth, finds something else to do to procrastinate*
what’s your excuse hmm? 🙂
Keeping the guy waiting and waiting and waiting is the best stratagem. If they can’t wait, they ain’t worth keepin’. Works every time.
well i just like to stay in wrapped in my death shawl waiting for the grim reaper and reminis about the days to you kids
LOL @ both Dino and martym
Spot on Dino!
sex for sex’s sake is the best,nsa,all the way.that way you don’t get any hangups with your partner of the minute.if you just want to get fucked,go for it,i’m open for you now.
dude, this exact situation happened to me recently. such a let down, such a WASTE OF TIME, for both parties. good grief! if you just want to fuck, then let it be known.
Whatever happened to COMMUNICATION?!
When I was single, I drank, and had NSA sex; with protection, of course! And I always let the other person know what I wanted, what was going to happen, and whether or not we would even be on speaking terms afterwards…
Why can’t it be like the good ol days… Which was like 2 years ago…
anytime mindsnap,anytime you want it to be.
Communication? It must be getting fukd up in the txt msgs somewhere, ppl don’t talk N E more, it’s like trying to read fucking code.
Hey, at least there is a new “sarcasm” symbol app you can buy now.
Communication at it’s best.
Why are some people getting the impression that the OP is a “tramp”? Does she not state explicitly in her bitch that they had spent time getting to know eachother? Now I don’t know if that means 1 week, 1 month or 1 year, but it certainly wasn’t a one night stand. I think one night stands are fine between 2 consenting adults with protection and no expectations.
But if you are dating a guy for a while, and hold off having sex with him because you like him and he turns around and dumps you the day after the sexy time, he is a lying, insecure, people-user who should probably be forced to wear a sign that says “just looking to get laid”. I don’t think this thread is so much about the right/wrongness of one night stands but the lack of respect and honesty that some men and women in this city have.
haha a conversation that works.
Your a nice girl
Thank you
Wanna fuck
ok
Do you have cab fare home ?
Why?
Cause I just wanna get laid !
heh how about:
Girl: “Aren’t you that poster boy for erectile dysfunction”
Guy: “uh, no”
Girl: “prove it”
haha FA I wish I heard that one myself !!! I’d be willing to prove it haha !!!
My fave was “Nice shoes… wanna fuck?”
Then afterwards: “Why are you still here?”
“1fallingangels1,” I’m horny, let’s meet up for some Round 1 NSA N/C FWB SEX!
LOL at you Q, btw, you have peanut butter, on your chin:)
Peanut butter? Kinky! I like the way you’re thinking. Wellll it doesn’t look like Ms. Angel is here, what are you up to tonight, Puss? How are things with Mr. Suit Man?
Out with the old, in with the new:) What’s up Mr. Q?
Sec, Let me lick that for you:)
Out with the old and in with the Q! Not too much happening tonight, it’s just cold as fuck outside, I’m a bit drunk, and wish I had some sexy lady to warm me up, he he. The peanut butter’s slipped down a bit, you need to get that, too! Yummm.
The Coast really needs to allow its users to contact eachother in private!
haha, I think I posted twice…to you Q, might of been the wine?
Lick, lick, lick……………..practicing those slurpeeeees on ya, babe 🙂
Puss:)
Ha ha, wine will do that. Beer too. I love both.
Keep up the good work, practice will eventually make perfect. Damn, we really need to get a room!
Jealous, LIFE SUCKS? The drunk Bitch babes love MEEE!
Hey, I never said I was drunk, Q…I love makin’ out sober. I like to touch, smell, taste, hear and see, in real time not drunk time. It’s waaaaaaaayyyy better, not to dull ones senses. Wouldn’t you agree?
Q
wow, it got hot in here = )
mmmmmmmm….drunk and horny Q.
i’m always lurking somewhere, q. and for the record, miss lala done chickened out,methinks, must be told for her, at a hunnerd. but i’m still up for the grabs, just not the crabs, ouch.