This article appears in Nov 27 – Dec 3, 2008.
Being bi sucks sometimes.
So I saw this beautiful girl today. Absolutely stunning. And it’s not like I could say anything to her or hope for anything that I could turn into a psst because I am also a girl. And I can’t just approach girls like I can approach guys in this city,
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Tell me about it! My girlfriend and I are having a hard time finding another girl. I mean, how do you do it without seeming weird and creeping people out. D’oh!
Being bi must suck – at least half of the time.*crickets*
What really sucks is when you go to a certain gay bar, see a cute chick, make a move and get told, “Sorry, I’m only into guys.” I do come across local girls who are looking on a certain dating site, though.
Do share?
Nothing ventured, nothing gained, OP. Strike up a conversation and who knows what might develop? Once you get to know her for a while and realise you have some of the same friends, then maybe you meet her at a party – next thing you know you’re eating at the Baby Gap and you’ll wonder why you ever stressed about it.
My bi friend uses teh internets to find local bi singles. I’m not sure what sites. Some of the major ones I guess, like lavalife.
Gangs have “symbols” that are code, which side the bandana is on, colored laces, all of that stuff. I’m surprised the LGBT community hasn’t come up with something similiar so you can tell. But I guess that brings us back to the what side for the earring convo.
I was hoping to find a scene from Al Pacino’s “Cruising” but came across this instead… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7Ampu8jxP8
Disturbing. Is this normal behaviour? Who are these people??
Now, correct me if I’m wrong here, but Reflections is still open. Blue Moon, or NRG (or whatever the hell they call it these days) too. Plus Seadogs has ladies nights – I believe monthly. Just because our society hasn’t reached the point of “I’m flattered but straight” as a courteous response doesn’t mean you are out of options.