What gives a person the right to judge or out-right say, “you are so fucking ugly”? I have met people throughout my life that are so sweet and kind that it breaks my heart when I hear another call them ugly. This seems to escalate when one is drunk. A certain bunny named Pam A might be a beauty to some, but to me I look at their heart first and last. Or when people say the man’s prick size counts when it comes to sex… well large or small its how its done is what counts! I try not to judge people on those things although ladies a guy that has a little extra is nice now and then. But, small or big, pretty or not, we all have a personality that is worth more. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder not all those that judge! —I judge my self worth by my personality not what I see in the mirror or by what others say
This article appears in Jan 6-12, 2011.
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I agree, not much of a bitch, huh? more of a moral sermon. Meh. Looks/attractiveness does matter, just others have different opinions of what is appealing.
as long as you smell good i don’t care
I feel better when I look better. I don’t judge others by the outside or by size….but I judge myself by looks a bit. Meh….what can you do.
Just remember, Beauty is only a light switch away!
OP, I do judge people by their personality. Your preachy tone, your inane celebrity reference and the lack of originality/intelligence in your post lead me to believe you are young, trashy, and probably watch too much TV. Frankly, you better hope to god you’re pretty.
My line of thinking was much the same, meow.
I agree beauty is in the eye of the beholder. For example, I can’t watch kristen dunst because I hate her fangy eye teeth. I wont watch anything with her in it and the same goes for Ryan Renolds films. His gummy smile makes my blood curdle.
I’m with paingirl !
Frankly I love a person with a great personality. There are work situations like models that do have to meet a certain standard of beauty but that is expected. You can also have both beauty and a great personality that is a winning combo! But please if you are pretty don’t be stuck up.
does this mean we can hold hands and skip mr. more^^^
I think it is warranted in this case, painey – just make sure it’s through a field of daisies, please.
http://t1.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:7iaBYOk…
Hm. Wrong flower, but you get the idea.
As much as we would all hate to admit it, looks DO matter, and anyone who says otherwise is outright lying. Thats why you see people mating based on levels of physical attractiveness. Since when have you seen a super hot guy date an overweight or ugly girl? Or a drop-dead gorgeous girl with a less-than-average looking guy?
This phenomenon is proven by economists. Here, read up: http://bigthink.com/ideas/25063
Beauty and brains… it’s a curse I’ve had to live with… since…. >snickerchortleguffaw
Everyone makes first assessments by appearance and appearance alone. Their idea of someone might later change if they are given the chance. Everyone, however, is human and humans are visual. Not much you can do about it.
I’ve seen lots of good looking guys with homely girls and ugly fat men with beautiful women. So many times. More often it seems to be the pretty women/ugly fat guy combo. Men are spoiled in Canada…maybe because there aren’t enough of them to go around from what statistics says.
That’s funny, Z, I notice that there actually aren’t many examples of that. Having been in a (stupid) relationship with a ugly older fat guy once, I kind of subliminally notice that. People tend to stick to the “equal hotness” quotient. Sometimes not, but it’s definitely the norm.
beauty is not in the eye, but in the heart. anyone who believes different, is just another asshole, looking for a chance to score.
skinny, think of drew barrymore and whats his face, there’s a match that should never, ever be.
i prefer “whats his nuts”
Julia Roberts and Lyle Lovett…’nuff said!
I have never heard it before now, sis, but I suddenly prefer ‘what’s his nuts’ too. Cute.
Brad Pitt and Juliette Lewis. Then again, Brad isn’t my idea of hot even though he’s technically good looking, and Juliette may not be an Angelina Jolie type, but I think she’s so funny it makes her attractive.
Character will inevitably stomp appearance to a pulp – the older you are, the most you realize character is what lasts.
True dat, TTFN! Besides, the hottest looking person of any age but with no integrity or character is merely superficial.
I think everyone somewhat attractive! A good personality is what gets me though :3
You guys can have Drew Barrymore- don’t know what the fuss is all about. Nice legs, shame ’bout the face! Salma Hayek all the way.
I work with many wonderful women but only 2 bridge the blood/brain barrier, the rest would be very safe on a sales trip *wink wink*
You’re pretty cute yourself, MissyT. 😉
Honesty? As an ugly person? I’d rather people be honest with me about the fact that I’m ugly. Life isn’t fair and I will never have the same opportunities in life as an attractive person. There’s no point to pretend that I’m equal to them.
Good Morning everybody 😉
TTFN, you’re right, time will take your looks, but not your personality.
OB, Pam was beautiful until the hollywhores got hold of her.
http://www.themoshpit.net/wp-content/uploa…
http://www.celebritysmackblog.com/wp-conte…
My preference; brains & personality (tied for first), then body and fitness level, then the face.
Hard to believe it’s the same person… I find all those artificial alterations that people go through so sad. Ya, no one is perfect, but to go through the pain and sacrifice under the knife to suit someone else’s ideal, it’s just discouraging. I need to lose 10lbs and my nose is too big, but I cope. Thankfully my boy loves me the way I am. And my mom got me new running shoes for Christmas. ha ha.
i felt like an alien when i saw the trailers for “bridalplasty”…i thought it was a snl joke…roo
I KNOW! Can you believe it? A real show about women competing for plastic surgery?? And these women just are not that bright to begin with:
http://www.cracked.com/blog/bridalplasty-n…
major rooooo….
What about all those People of Walmart…..they surely don’t get on there for their good looks and incredible fashion sense.
Beauty is in the eye of the one eyed trouser trout.
Seriously, for me for years it’s always been Annie Lennox……beauty, brains and a voice to die for.
I had to google Annie Lennox cause the person who popped into my head questioned your possible sarcasm in that comment. I guess everyone has their own opinion and own judgment of beauty. There’s a lot of singers and actresses that I think are beautiful because they make me laugh, and have great personalities though.
I’ve confessed my love for Christina Hendricks many times on here.
Also: http://www.marktoon.co.uk/cartoons/dndtoon…
yes nerdboy, we know about your unrequited love for the beautiful redhead❤ annie lennox is a hottie and she’s got a great set of pipes
Attn: Avid Avian Amigos, there is currently some excellent eagle action on-cam!
Screeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
what’s the link sis, i forget?
Damn, damn, damn the office and it’s stupid blocking of my video viewing! Oh well, i still have my bizarro world of LTWWB… enjoy!
I agree, Hugo, I know I’d like to _ _ _ _ Denzel’s brains out first. = p
(whoa! where did that come from! = )
I would tap Jason Statham any day of the week….if I wasn’t in a committed relationship…lol.
Crap, on second thought, I decided to delete that last comment but my finger swiped the mousepad as I shifted toward delete. = (
Now I’m going to have to listen to MM deride my underclass tendencies = p
http://www.jimandellen.org/ellen/RobRoyLia…
There’s just somethin about a man in a kilt eh Miss Pain!
you know it baby!!! http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_bHTl8UVoy6Q/S_MH…
Nice kilted one sis!
Sorry I had to step out just after I screeeeeeeeeeeeeeed, so I was unable to respond before now, (and had to abandon the excellent eagle antics). The link is:
http://hornbyeagles.com
merci beaucoup ma soeur^^
ne rien la, ma belle soeur, just checked and not much eagle activity maintenant, mais some audible human activity.
i think i want to move there, it’s gorgeous. yeah, i hear some chain saws
I watched constantly a couple of year ago – it was so amazing to see the chicks interact with mom & dad. So beautiful….
Talking about sexy warriors 🙂
http://www.filmofilia.com/wp-content/uploa…
Don’t worry, I doubt annie will read this thread.
You’ve got good taste, Hugo…she looks a lot like my daughter–only my daughter is more beautiful = )
(Now if that doesn’t tell you who I am, Kay, then you DON’T know me IRL…not that it matters either way = p)
ME WANT XENA.
OMG… Pam A? All the hot famous women in the world and THAT’s who you pick? This bitch lost its integrity.
I wasn’t aware that it had integrity to begin with jonno. 😛
Hahaha… I just re-read the bitch and saw the term “prick-size”….. reminds me of something that would be in a romance novel…
As for the people who flat-out tell someone that they are “so fucking ugly…..”, sounds more like an abusive relationship than a random statement from a stranger…. in which case, the life these assholes live could just well be punishment enough for their being complete idiots. While beauty is in the eye of the beholder, life is also what you make it. You live life like an asshole, you die an unsatisfied old man/woman with reflections of an empty life. Beauty is mostly on the inside which is what these gommicks can’t get.
Orgasmoman…. I do have to say after getting past the Pam A statement, there is a little integrity in this bitch. Just questioning the context that’s all.
Fair enough. I just thought the OP sounded like a preachy bitch, personally.
This bitch brought to you by PBS.
*cue the star*
the more you know….
Woulda made a good episode of Full House wha? D.J. gets called an ugly, fat slut (we’re talking Season 7 or so….) because she puts out in the guys’ locker room after school. The whole episode is building up to the night a bunch of her schoolmates throw vibrators at the house.
*Cue sappy life-lesson background music*
Danny sits her down and tells her there are better ways to stay popular at school…. Uncle Jesse hands her a 5 pound bag of weed…… “Charge $6 a gram and you’ll be the most popular kid in twelfth grade!… and we won’t all become grandfathers anytime soon…..”
UNCLE JOEY: “gug, gug, gug!!!”
hmmm, season 3 she started junior high so that would put her in grade 11.
….because being factually correct is what’s important in this scenario.
You guys realize that you are far too knowlegeable about this show, right?
And I realize that coming from someone who is far too fond of “Hitler reacts to…” videos, this critique has exactly zero credibility >: )
And THAT’S why I love all the folks on LTWWB – for their useless trivia and vast repertoire of idle chatter to will the hours of the day away – while I’m supposed to be a contributing members of society. It’s all a form of revolt, really. Or is it a religion?
>;)
It’s cheaper than dropping $20 large on a general arts degree – and now with 80% less Chomsky >; )
lololololololol
Let’s not forget Rod Serling’s Twilight Zone “The Eye Of The Beholder” with Donna Douglas (Ellie Mae from The Beverly Hillbillies) as the ugly woman and Edson Stroll (Virgil from McHale’s Navy) as the ugly man.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nE-R60QPh_g…
that was awesome thanks timothy. i really liked night gallery too
Best Night Gallery ever: “The Caterpillar”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ng-scMAyK9c
creeeepy, no wonder people hate earwigs “it was a female” *shudder*
That one so freaked me out when I was 12. Brutal!