I’m so sick of ugly and average looking women assuming I’m dumb or have no personality just because I was blessed with amazing genes. When a guy chooses to date me instead of them, they say ”Dude’s thinking with his penis and not his brain, choosing looks over personality…” Umm, maybe he chose to date me for my personality as well? And because I have a high paying job (no, I’m not a model, actress, or porn star), these women think I flirted too much or slept with the boss to get it. Not fucking true! I got it because I have an education and gave a phenomenal interview, because I’m very intelligent! I have to say I have as much intelligence and personality as I have good looks. I have a master’s degree and volunteer at a home for seniors. Perhaps they’re jealous? Who knows, but what I do know is that they need to worry about their own lives and not mine! —Not just beautiful on the outside
This article appears in Jun 20-26, 2013.
From the tenor of your bitch I’d have to conclude that you actually are “just beautiful on the outside”, and probably not nearly as attractive as you seem to think you are.
I second that emotion, Ivan, even before my morning java.
A master’s degree in Internet Trolling? Fake!
Fake as fake can be
ON THE PERCEIVED ASYMMETRICAL RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN INTELLIGENCE AND BEAUTY
“I have to say I have as much intelligence and personality as I have good looks.” (Not just beautiful on the outside)
Why is it that the commonly received view maintains that there is an asymmetrical – possibly even an inverse – relationship between intelligence and beauty? Why is it that intelligence and beauty cannot, according to popular opinion, co-exist in the same person? How can this question be approached? How can it be deconstructed so as to gain some purchase on its coherence? What is the first step?
I believe the first step lies in focusing on the key concept, the “sine qua non” (that’s Latin for “without which nothing”) if you like, to profitably engage the question. Contrary to what might be supposed, the key concept is not that of either intelligence or beauty as such. Both are notoriously elusive in terms of stipulating objective criteria. This is not to say that we have no idea what constitutes each – there is a broad consensus on the matter – but nonetheless both invariably reduce to subjective criteria, of being “in the eye of the beholder”. What then. is the key concept? I submit that the key concept lies in what is “perceived” or, more properly, who is doing the perceiving.
Clearly, the object of perception in the present case is a female. Rightly or wrongly, she maintains that in her case both intelligence and beauty can seamlessly co-exist. But it is not about her own self-perceptions. It is about those of others. Who are these others?
In the first instance, we can say that the “Other”, to use its post-structural formulation, consists of other females. As is well known, females are rabidly competitive when it comes to acquiring intelligent and beautiful males so as to maximize similar qualities in their offspring. So their clouded, tendentious testimony may safely be discounted.
This leaves the male as the significant Other whose testimony may, depending on other factors, be given greater weight. The female’s rabidly competitive nature does not cloud the male’s perception. However, the male as Other is not a homogenous entity. There are those, perhaps in the majority, who lack both intelligence and beauty and, as a consequence, DO think with their penises. There are other Others, however, who combine both intelligence and beauty. Their perception of female intelligence and beauty is thereby unclouded by preconceptions which might mitigate its validity. These are the ones who can pronounce on female intelligence and beauty with cool impartiality and, consequently, with greater impartiality and accuracy. They are the ones, well, like me.
I must say that I found the poster’s comments quite arousing and therefore I would be pleased to contribute all that is required to ensure that her offspring were both intelligent and beautiful.
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
Must be the only “10” in Halifax. Too bad you’re so worried about what other people think.
Wait until age creeps in, wrinkles, hair growing in places you wish it didn’t and not growing where you wish it did, saggy jugs, varicose veins, minge as dry as a prune, take some consolation, a dirty old fucker like me would still do ya, masters degree and all.
Oh god… This is a blond. I just know it 🙂
The difference between your interviews and ours is that we conduct the interview sitting in chairs… not on our knees.
😛
Get over yourself.
Complaining about ‘being pretty’…
talk about vapid insecurities.
LOL, yes, you are beautiful on the inside and the guy can see this with their one-eyed penis!
maybe. Or maybe you’re just dumb.
Your bitch is pretty vanilla in the creativity department so it could go either way.
see here’s the thing op. At the risk of all the downvotes, because i’m trying to help you, i am also a pretty girl in a brainy profession. Unlike you, i was also a model for a short period of time. So trust me, you’re not alone in your martyrdom.
But here’s the thing.. the way you bitch about it implies that it surprises you. And furthermore, you don’t know what to do about it.
When you grow up with this phenomenon, neither of these things are true. You don’t express shock at the opinions of 2 dimensional flatlanders ironically questioning your skills. You’re smart enough to know when to act like a bimbo and when to stand up and make your voice heard and above all else, you don’t run around bragging loudly to anyone who will listen.
There is just something very bizarre about the anatomy of this bitch that doesn’t sit well.
If EVERYONE is constantly calling you out for stupidity, then you’re not as clever as you think you are and you may be in over your head. You may be doing a job that you are not that good at.
Because it’s not 1950 op. Pretty girls (yes even ex models) can be taken seriously if they are good at what they do. Just like anyone else. I think you’re trying very hard to justify not having the success on a job you thought you would. SO you’re blaming “the unwashed masses” when maybe you’re just a giant fuckup.
In any case op, i do feel for you. It’s not easy. But if you spend your entire life saying “nothing i do is wrong. THEY’RE just jealous” then you’re not ever going to grow as a human being. And then you’ll hit 40 with no looks, zero coping skills and a whole bucket of resentment.
That won’t be any fun.
Sing it sista. This is the story of my life. I’m retired now, so in the long run you’ll win. Just ignore the little jealous minds. I bet you’d look good in a black bikini.
Anyone who is a physical +10 who thinks it was their intelligence alone that got them the opportunities in life they so enjoy is not as smart as they think they are.
OP’s same job opportunity was open to average (or less) looking people of equal or superior intelligence and education who also likely gave phenomenal interviews, yet she got the job.
Modesty would do you some good.
Hmmmm pics please.
Beauty is only skin deep, but ugly goes clean to the bone…Just a quote I like 🙂
I feel like most of the comments on here prove the OP’s point.
Lucky you OP, all I got was the intelligence and good looks. 😉
Sooo…let me get this straight. You are jealous of ugly people and their shitty jobs that they had to fuck someone to get?
Also…are you saying that you volunteer at a home for seniors so you can say, “I volunteer at a home for seniors” or because you enjoy it?
PS; nobody cares that you are rich, smart, aAAaand pretty you are, well except for blip blip.
I’m so fucking good looking I have to jerk my gherkin every time I look in the mirror, I thought they’d shortened the name on my degree from Masturbate to Masters?
Pfftt…listen here, toots. Any body with half a brain can go far in life if they are atlleast an 8! Just admit your looks and sucking skills got you that job. How you think michelle pfifer got that part in scarface? Her intelligence? Bahaha don’t make me laugh.
Wanna fuck?
That Scarface reference makes your broliness all the more bro-ish, Braw.
My only issue with this bitch is that it sounds like op is CONTINUOUSLY being told she is not as clever as she insists she is.
That’s all. Again i reiterate. It’s not 1950. If everyone is telling you you’re in over your head, chances are you are.
I feel for you op. I do. But I also think you need to really, REALLY evaluate EVERYTHING in context and make sure there isn’t anything you can be doing differently.
I think OP may have an air about her that may make others want to knock her down a peg or three. That`s why she gets the feedback she gets. If you`ve got all that going for you OP don`t worry, you will have a great life. I really believe looks matter a lot more in our personal dealings that we like to admit.
I imagine OP has never been asked to wear a paper bag over her head during sex.
As somebody is is actually unattractive (on a good day- ordinarily, my looks are best described as horsefaced), I don’t give a shit about your “hard life”, attractive OP. Boo fucking hoo.
OP
Some nice guy who you turned down for a date should right a post. Please fill in the blanks as to why you turned him down, so he knows your own “prejudices”, or do I mean in these circumstances, tastes.
Whether you believe it or not, your looks heavily influenced into whether or not you would get that job. You’re just convinced it was on your own merits, which is pathetic.
Nobody cares how hot you are but you. Don’t act like you don’t get your period like the rest of us!
jgoreham Why the long face? lol
I couldn’t resist