You have issues, and you need to deal with them. Just because all the losers in your past behaved a certain way doesn’t give you the right to plaster me with accusations as a result of you not being able to handle genuine kindness. I am not, was not and never will be these losers you seem to attract. Never. I expected nothing from you. I am simply a nice guy. Sometimes, people are simply nice and don’t need to treat others like shit. It’s a fucking pity these guys had such an impact on an otherwise beautiful soul. Don’t let them live in your head forever. It would be a tragedy. -Nice No More!
This article appears in May 22-28, 2014.
DANGER! DANGER! Nice no More!
This girl will only like guys that treat her like shit, if she gets angry with you for being nice, then this is a BIG danger sign!! Run, don’t look back
nice no more??? you mean this has changed YOUR behaviour now?
I doubt you ever were nice, bud. you were faking it.
GDM,
Or the OB is being sarcastic? I forget though, are only our responses to be sarcastic or the OB as well? Or maybe you are right lol.
So many rules here…
Yeah, run. Some people are crazy. You don’t need them. Keep your head high and you’ll meet a real woman who can handle not being treated like shit.
I remember once I was accused of all sorts of things that weren’t true. It got me down for a while, but I quickly realized it had nothing to do with me, learned my lesson and moved on.
I have no tolerance for shitty people today.
This is akin to a person who has always been lied to and they keep expecting lies so that when someone actually tells them a truth, they don’t believe it.
If you stop being nice you become her self-fulfilling prophesy. Don’t give her that.
Maybe that’s what it is? Insecure and bitter people want everyone else to be miserable, just like them. So when they see good people happy people, their instinct is to take them down the shit path with them, side by side, in misery.
It’s probably a lot easier than to be straight up and honest. That just gets you a plate of eggs thrown your way.
A girl once brought up the “nice guys are only trying to get in my pants” conversation and I laughed and then went quiet. She asked me why I went quiet, and I pointed out to her that any further talking by me would be assumed by her as me trying to get with her.
Then I even went further by calling her an idiot. She got pissed off and I haven’t seen her since.
No loss, only satisfaction.
Daniel,
That’s exactly what I’m talking about – crazy people just can’t take others being nice, or honest. It destabilizes them at their shitty core.
Strong intelligent beautiful women won’t waste their time with an asshole, so when I’m nice and a girl can’t handle it, I take it as a blessing; I have no interest in immature and insecure girls.