Sitting in a coffee shop and two known (to me) bar/waitress’ sit next to me. They immediately start ranting “where are all the good men? Why are all guys jerks? There’s no good men in Halifax.” etc. I should have SHOUTED;
They won’t go near you because all you do is drink and party. You finish your shifts and sit on your ass to drink. Then you go drinking on your days off, sleep all day, and repeat. You’re a depressed mess shrouded in a very thin veil of EVERYTHING IS GREAT.
You are boring, insecure and a drunk. Just because everyone around you “drinks just as much” doesn’t mean you’re not a drunk. You surround yourself with the same people and then wonder why you keep meeting the same type of guys? Are you really shocked when “that regular” turns out to be a complete jerkoff? I think your partying ways have clouded your thought process.
So until you grow up, darlings, you’re stuck with jerks. You have nothing to offer (other than sex) to a real man.
So where are all the good women in Halifax? —You suck
This article appears in Oct 10-16, 2013.
Well, SEX is the key offering ….. so, your bitch is invalid.
Koda – women have a lot more to offer than sex, dear boy. They’re kind of lovely all around.
And to the bitcher – welcome to Halifax, capital of lost drunk souls.
Real man.
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One has to kiss many toads before prince or princess shows up
Maybe they would be able to find a man if they had cars.
lololol hoist!
OB, why don’t you tell us how you really feel?
Hoist has been rather funny lately. (:
Where are all the good women? Take your own advice, you boring, insecure drunk. If you’re watching these women self-destruct on a daily basis, it means you’re attending the same parties. And the rules are the same for both genders. Nobody wants a drunk, Mr. Sloppy.
The GreatBatShit…
Yeah…I think he was being funny with the last comment. I could be wrong. He did say he was sitting in a coffee shop, not a bar. Regardless, I know far too many women who behave the same way and complain about the same thing – and I don’t hang out in bars on a regular basis. If more people called them out on it maybe they’d stop complaining or, even better, grow up a little and find their real man.
People need to own up to their shit. If you behave like an idiot, you will attract idiots.
Interestingly there have been a lot of bitches recently about similar female behavior. Would be nice to hear from the lovely women of Halifax what they think of all this…
OB, all the good women in HRM have already settled down and either married or moved in long-term with someone and/or had kids. Any woman in the bars after the age of thirty is either having an after-work drink, an evening with the girls, or is working there. If your friends are in this state, it’s because they have been at their jobs way too long.
There are some good recently single women in Halifax who are happy and feel confident enough to walk into a pub or bar for a drink then go home alone. These women don’t bitch about the lack of good men.,they know there are good men out there.
An asshole has no gender. (:
WHAT IS A GOOD MAN?
“They immediately start ranting ‘where are all the good men? Why are all guys jerks? There’s (sic) no good men in Halifax.'” you suck
“Good, a., Having the right qualities. satisfactory, adequate.” The Concise Oxford Dictionary
To say that answer to the question, “What is a good man?” is one who has the right qualities, is satisfactory or adequate clearly does not take us very far since it leaves open what those right qualities might be. However the concept of right qualities, of what it means to be satisfactory or just adequate suggests a standard in term of which those qualities and, by extension, a good man, might be assessed. What, then, is that standard?
Before engaging the question as to the standard which qualifies one to be a good man we must first clarify just what is to be understood by a “standard” in the first place. What is a standard, anyway? The Concise Oxford Dictionary defines a standard as a “Degree of excellence required for a particular purpose.” The good man, then, will possess the relevant excellence(s) required to fulfill the relevant purpose, the relevant purpose in the present case being that which will meet the expectations of the waitresses in particular and, one supposes, females in general. So what are those excellences? I see two.
The waitresses used the term “jerk” which suggests a moral failing in the male, one who might be unfaithful in his dealings with women. As we know, when it comes to relations with women, men can be pigs. The good man, then, will not be unfaithful, he will not be a pig. He will display the relevant moral virtues of honesty, truth-telling, and generally speaking, an unimpeachable moral probity. He will embody what has become known in philosophy as “virtue ethics” in his relations with females.
The second excellence the good man must possess is that of sufficient provision. The good man must be able to support the female and her off-spring in minimal conditions of comfort. One must remember that the female is a realist. While she might admire the morally upright good man, the heart of the matter for her is material. While the male’s attention in the mating dance is his lustful desire for copulation with the female, the female’s attention, in addition to the sensory pleasures of sexual intercourse, is the nurturing of her children in order to both fulfill her maternal instincts and, probably unknowingly to her, the survival of the species.
So there we are. The good man embodies the relevant moral and material excellences which will ensure the undisturbed procreative activities of the female. The further question, of course, is whether the waitresses will encounter this paragon in the bar.
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
The waitresses are probably just idiots that can’t own up to the fact that they’re drunks and hate themselves enough to sleep with these losers. Complaining makes it somehow all better by blaming the lack of good men. Or so they seem to believe.
I agree with HalKell. I have lived in Halifax since 1999, minus 4 years in B.C., and I am completely fed up with Halifax. The problem as I see it is that anyone interesting is in university, or has already found someone and is in a committed relationship. The dating in Halifax is terrible, oh sure it is great if you are 18-28 and just want to drink and fuck, but sooner or later everyone cool gets married, or leaves by the time they are thirty. Don’t even bother trying if you don’t live on the peninsula unless you really like 4wheelers and mudding because I highly doubt you’ll find that woman who can add something to your life..
So sad about the slut-bashing 🙁 That’s cyber-bullying, y’all!
The bashing seems to be mostly about their complaining. If they didn’t complain about it, then there would be no bashing?
Wish they would just say “I was lonely and desperate, and that loser over there fit the bill” Happens to everyone.