Give it up. This has been going on for 8 months now. Stop intruding in my life. You mean nothing to me and you never will. I dont care what your intentions are. You may think that you are trying tosave me but that is classic stalker behaviour. You abused the hell out of me and then tell me you lo e me and want to save me? Youre fucked. You write about how my boyfriend is cheating on me, you write about what his house looks like inside, you write telephone and texting conversations that i have, about daily interactions, about things that i do in the couse of a day. You think youre being sneaky but youre not as smart as you think you are. If this continues, im telling you right now that i will follow up the police. I aleady have you on record. And mark my words, i will win. If you were smart you would walk away you sick sick man. Go get some help. —Tired of your shit.
This article appears in Jun 6-12, 2013.
Then for christssake DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.
I dealt with a similar situation last year. 8 months means you don’t know how to take care of yourself. Block the caller, change your number, get a new email address. And if it continues to escalate, get a restraining order.
Your provider will block that number or change yours under these circumstances. Do some legwork and get it done.
It took me three weeks to completely cut my stalker out of my life.
You are either stupid or feeding on this attention.
Seriously. Stop being such a victim and do something to help yourself.
I’m with you on this one, crayons – I was stalked back in the 1970s, a very nasty experience, especially since the guy in question was the son of a well-known cop. It took my boyfriend at the time throwing him down a flight of stairs in my apartment building before he stopped stalking me.
restraining order…
Should have went to the police and restraining order 7 months ago, but then again I suppose you don’t want to hurt his feelings or some other sort of nonsense.
blip’s cat-lovin’ ex girlfriend. 😀
Oh crayons, you make The Captain laugh…
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I’m of the opinion that those who loosely use the word “stalker”, like being “victims”. And yes, that includes those who had “stalkers” in their life and still talk about them.
Now, I don’t see this behaviour as sociopathic; obsessive yes, not he’s no sociopath (you’d be dead OB).
Finally, like complaining how the big bad cyclist drove by you while you wasted money idling in traffic, there is no point to posting a bitch about it; the behaviour won’t change. Try taking a different route or keep your mouth shut.
Nowhere and at no time (now, past or future) will being a victim help you to change the situation you’re in or create conditions whereby change will occur.
How are you reading what this gent’s writing? Remove every avenue where you can see what he writes to you or about you. “Defriend” him, his family and friends if you have to. Just to maintain your sanity. This type of behavior is a personality disorder and the less he can communicate, the more likely he is to move on.
crayons- Its no surprise to see your anarchist ways and name calling directed to a sweet old lady like myself.
Are you the product of a single mother? maybe you should try acting more like a lady and wash that mouth out with soap, I couldn’t imagine the type of lowlife man that would be interested in you. Or maybe you are a lesbian, the short hair really gives it away.
I agree with Reg. If you haven’t already, block him from everything and change your number. It’s true that you shouldn’t have to change your number because of someone else’s behavior and it will be a pain in the ass but if you have him blocked from contacting you in every way possible and he still manages to get ahold of you (creating new accounts to message you with, etc.) Then you have a solid case for a restraining order. Restraining orders are not as easy to obtain as some people think.
He is no sociopath. If he was, he wouldn’t be stalking you. He would just move on to the next inconspicuous victim, in order to ‘fit in’ and appear ‘normal’, all the while planning his next sociopathic act
JESUS CHRIST FOLLOW UP NOW
Derpderpderp….
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Bahahaha, short hair on a girl means they’re a lesbian. Good one, blip! The Girlfriend’s gonna have to start growing her hair out lest we end up in awkward situations.
Single Mothers raise problem children! – Classic!!!
“maybe you should try acting more like a lady” – OMG, too funny! HAHAHAHA
“I couldn’t imagine the type of lowlife man that would be interested in you” – Or you! Bahaha, oh you gotta stop, blip! You’re killin’ me! I’m crying tears of laughter right now, I can barely see my keyboard. Blip, You’re definitely The Captain’s favorite Bitcher and Life Role Model.
“maybe you should try acting more like a lady”
Yes blip, because “ladies” usually put a picture of their chest as a profile pic.
Shit, I thought it was the chest shot of an ugly transvestite. Or her righteous Christian husband after a dig through the next door neighbour’s lingerie drawer.
Poor OB is the object of Drew’s affection now 🙁 I know what it’s like.
god blip i already said i wasn’t interested. Give up already and have some dignity.. it’s just getting sad.