I realize you regard my boyfriend as your son, however the way you behave toward me is just plain ridiculous, childish, RUDE, and ignorant. You are literally insane.
Thank you for making my life so difficult on a regular basis. Thank you for constantly forcing me to do favours for you without so much of a hint of appreciation, or even good manners. Thank you for taking complete advantage of the fact that a good relationship between us is SO important for my boyfriend, and potentially future husband, that I cannot tell you off, even though I want to EVERY SINGLE DAY.
The way you take advantage of people is disgusting, and no, acting like a GIANT bitch is not the least bit cute. The thought of spending my life around you makes me clinically depressed. The thought of raising children around you, to have to delicately explain to my husband why I will not let his psycho, morally-corrupt sister baby-sit our children makes me physically ill.
Thank you for making it so incredibly hard to form an honest friendship with you, seemingly on purpose, when you and I know it is an absolute necessity to my boyfriend that we not only do we get along, we become best friends. This should not have been difficult, considering you are only TWO YEARS OLDER THAN ME.
Since you act like such a bitch all the time, however, and not just to me, you have effectively robbed any respect I could ever have for you and therefore, any honest friendship can never form between us because I detest your personality and the fucked up, selfish way you see the world.
I cannot satisfy my boyfriend in that regard, and it’s all your fucking fault. He will never feel as though we are one happy family, because you have alienated me completely. You are like hanging out with the bitchiest, rudest grandmother-in-law in the entire universe instead of a normal 31-year old sister-in-law.
Yes, I am seriously dating your brother and one day we will most likely get married and move away, not necessarily in that order. To act like I am stealing your brother from you, and actually voice these concerns (particularly after we have been together for FIVE FUCKING YEARS) is fucking insanity and I refuse to take your opinion at all seriously.
There is no need for me to mention the fact that I have only ever treated your brother with the utmost respect, kindness, and care – you have chosen to ignore this obvious fact for the past five years. Did I mention FIVE YEARS?
Thank you, for making my life so fucking difficult for loving your brother. I hate you. —Exhausted
This article appears in Aug 12-18, 2010.
run away; do it now
This is a crazy, way too long bitch, OB, but honestly, You need to figure something out. If your boyfriend honestly loves you, he must see what kind of shit you’re going through… and try to help it out somehow! Running away seems like an excellent option. With or without the dude.
I needed to get away from the crazies in my life. And I’m thankful I did. Amazing what even 2 hrs away can do for a relationship. So. Much. Healthier.
Doll, I hope your female children don’t turn out like their lovely aunty.
Pauvre OP. Seriously some ppl are a chore.
Run for your fucking life. It won’t get better, OP, not unless your man tells this cunt to piss off. Otherwise, look forward to a life of ongoing drama.
But if you get far enough away that you on;y have to deal with her3-4 time a year, ya might be safe. The key here is that your boyfriend sees it and understands, or the two of you will fight about it for the rest of your lives. Trust me. I had an evil mother in law. *shudder* I still swear it was the beginning of the end of my marriage. Nasty, nasty woman. My x only agreed when it suited him.
i kin dig it op…it helps when your hub-unit dislikes his crazy(not fun crazy) blood units as well. distance, like another continent does help
If your bf is letting this go on, then he has just as much responsibility in this than his sister.
There’s a time for being a doormat, and there’s time for being assertive and demanding respect. Just because she’s your bf’s family does NOT mean she can treat you like a bag of shit. No one deserves that.
And if your BF doesn’t understand that, then he’s not worth being with in the first place. I have a family member who was being pushed around by her mother in law and her husband told his mother: back off. Things are much better now.
If you don’t demand respect in this situation, OP, no one’s going to give it to you.
Tell her off, to her face, and do it now. See how your boyfriend reacts. Then decide whether or not to stay.
Yes it would be really interesting to see if, how, and when your BF backs you up here…might tell you something about him you need to know b4 you start throwing the “husband” word around…
I had an issue with a grandmother-in-law recently that i got stuck living with for a yr and a half…in MY home!!!…first month fine…after that she began taking little jabs (and a few verbal roundhouse kicks) at me…not directly at me but always within my earshot…my gF understood but kept begging me to take it…to let it go…and i took some amazing shit lemme tell you…in her case being old was no excuse for being an ignorant cunt..finally one month before she moved out at our polite request she said something to me about how I was raising my new baby daughter and I snapped!!!…like a fucking thunderclap…everyone in her family had always ignored her behavior thinking oh well she is family or she is old or she will die soon so dont hurt her feelings…well fuck that …old or not she needs to be accountable for her mouth just like the rest of us…as does this sis in law to be…someone has to stand up to her ..especially if your bf recognizes the behavior…if he doesnt see it then SHE isnt even your biggest problem!!!
So how’d the old bat take it, shaker?
Tell the bitch off already. Maybe after spending five days writing this long ass bitch you could print it off and slip a copy under her door. Writing a bitch isnt gonna make her stop!
Your bf’s sister sounds more like a jeleous ex than a sister! Maybe he should go marry her instead of you, since it’s her who seems to be the one he’s most interested in making happy! She’s a meddling, controlling, JELEOUS bitch and he’s a dithering baby who seems to care more about her feelings than yours! Do you know what you’re in for if he doesn’t suddenly, and miraculously change? A life of being second!
Don’t marry a guy who can’t stand up for you; if he can’t do it now he never will! I’m sure he loves his family but he’s not supposed to be a little boy anymore and so the new family you and he are planning to create by getting married is supposed to be his priority. Unless of course you are psycho, which you don’t sound like you are!
No chance of a 3 some any time soon?
we all go a little mad sometimes
Basil, why would you ever suggest that (even in jest) … D:
I presume she’s not trying to start her own Goler clan.