You hurt me then said things about me that were not true to make me look bad. Now I’m alone, very lonely and don’t know where to turn.
I keep going back to you because I love you and lord knows I want you terribly, I have since the first second I saw you. Everyone said that wasn’t so… That person doesn’t know.
I don’t know what to do or where to go to get over you. Obviously you never cared about me. I need to start caring for myself because no one else does and I’m worth it. —Stranger
This article appears in Dec 13-19, 2012.
Time is the only balm there is, OP – put this unpleasantness behind you and don’t let someone else (especially a knob like that) define who you are.
Apply the healing balm of Alcohol, gallons of it, life’s better when you’re shitfaced.
Time to move on, your love is self-destructive. This is a terrible time of year to be depressed, but you’ll find support out there if you look.
When I was most down, Blue was a life saver…got a friend with a dog you can borrow? What ever you do, don’t sit at home and get drunk (not joking).
Sorry, but this is as tactful as I can be today.
Anyway, heal soon.
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And how did YOUR actions help to peretuate this situation?
Bang some oxys. Double bonus… Not only will it melt your sorrows away but, it can quickly become your new love and hobby, all rolled into one.
Hugo OP is getting some kindness from you.I’m sure OP appreciates the hug.
Steve If OP takes your “advice” he/she will be jumping out of the frying pan into the fucking fire.
What can I say Stranger? By your own words they’re not worth your time, in fact, they’re your enemy. Good thing to keep in mind when you feel the need to “go back to them.” Listen to your friends, they have a better perspective.
BTW Steve That’s a very hateful thing to tell OP.
TF There may be information about the situation that OP his/herself doesn’t understand or is a where of, about the person the Bitch is addressed to.Which would explain OP’s confusion.
I wish I had some insight for you Stranger, I do. On the other side of this tremendous hurt you feel there is a whole lot of goodness. I know that there is someone who cares for you. Just ask and they will listen.
When someone hurts you this way, it feels like your heart will crumple and die, but it doesn’t and you will become a stronger person for it.
In the end, the one who hurts you is not that important. How could they be, if they would treat you this way? Let them be and even though you want them, you have to stop returning.
You are worth it, OB.
You might never find someone who does care for you in that way, so you’ve gotta look out for yourself.
Don’t listen to the people who are all “there’s something for everyone! Just be patient!”
That’s a load of horse shit. Some people just don’t have someone out there for them, so you have to be that someone for yourself.
One of the most depressing things I ever learned was the psychological theory that the key to a woman’s heart was actually giving her the right amount and type of control for long enough in multiple situations. I payed attention to this and my relationship improved (but now single by mutual choice).
This is a bullshit robot planet anyways, and all we have are dreams. Don’t let one dream ruin others.
thunder only happens when it’s raining
players only love you when they’re playing
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WHAT IS LOVE?
“I keep going back to you because I love you and lord knows I want you terribly.” Stranger
“love, n. sexual affection or passion or desire, relation between sweethearts.” (Concise Oxford Dictionary)
Stranger’s reference to wanting the object of her love “terribly” situates this particular form of love as romantic love as opposed to parental love or other sorts where the term “love” is commonly used. Two questions then crop up: (1) What, exactly, is romantic love and how, if at all, can it be distinguished from strong affection, being enamoured of or infatuated with and so on, and (2) Does it make any sense to offer advice to someone who, like Stranger, is clearly lovelorn?
(1) There’s the old saying, “Love has its reasons which reason knows not of”. What does this mean? Does romantic love have a particular sort of reason which is to be distinguished from its usual rationalistic counterpart and if so, what would it look like? What we have here, I think, is an extended or metaphorical use of the term “reason” when situated in the context of romantic love.
It is not reason in its logical form, i,e., deductions made from indubitable premises or even inferences made from plausible premises – nor is it reason as employed in its usual empirical sense, i.e., reason based on the weight of evidence for or against some course of action or the adoption of some belief state. So it seems we can conclude that romantic love is not the outcome of a dispassionate judgemental process proceeding from initial premises to a supportable, rational conclusion. Rather, its proper realm lies is that of the emotions, of the impulsive – in a word in the realm of the irrational. But, and this is important, does it then make sense to offer advice to someone who, like Stranger, is clearly lovelorn?
(2) No.
A pleasure as always.
Cheerio!
and 2 shall be the number.
WHAT IS LOVE?
1) Don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me, no more!
2) See 1)
A Pleasure as Always
Raisin Bran
Every time you feel lovey … think of them having explosive diarrhea.
Beware of dudes who say: ‘How do I love thee? Let me count the holes.’