So again I see the text messages to and from girls you meet on the internet. Leading them on, talking to them like you do me – your GIRLFRIEND. You can’t blame me for snooping when you are the one hiding shit!
Hey FUCKTARD how many times do I have to catch you before you fucking get it!! CHEATING isn’t always PHYSICAL SEX! There are other forms of cheating to. What you did is un acceptable.
Have any other girls had their heart broken from this? It makes me really hate the internet. Why can’t men just stop trying to get attention and love what they have!! I can honestly say I am a great girlfriend. I entertain, can cook, I am smart, have a great job… I am pretty. ??? what else do you want from me?
I love him but I have to leave him. Fuck! —Starting OVER
This article appears in Jun 17-23, 2010.


how about some fucking quiet time, or a good blow job. can you manage that, or is your mouth always going on about something. and no folks, i’m not the one this o.p. is referring too.
How many times do *you* have to “catch” him cheating before you DTMFA?
If you violate his privacy, you *both* have some boundry issues.
And lastly, when you say “Why can’t men just stop trying to get attention and love what they have!!”, don’t presume this is a male-only problem. Lots of girls betray your trust too, by cheating or, say, violating your privacy.
The first time you “caught” him cheating you should have left. If you are seriously surprised at his behaviour at this point, knowing he’s done this before, you own this as much as he does.
Dump
The
Motherfucker
Already
Yup in order for men to play there have to be women willing to play with them.
Monogamy is so overrated, but its good to have everyone on the same page from the get go.
“You can’t blame me for snooping when you are the one hiding shit”.
Is there anybody left out there who still wonders:
A)Why is the world so fucked up?
and
B)Why isn’t the world getting any less fucked up?
You have your answer.
Bro T:
“Yup in order for men to play there have to be women willing to play with them.”
WTF is that all about? Did you just blame women for the fact that men cheat?
Hello from across the pond,
I am sorry that this has happened to you, you are not alone and I thank you for posting your situation because in doing so you have helped me to see that I am also not alone. Consider yourself fortunate in the fact that at least you are still in Halifax and can end it with this person. I am from Halifax but in my case I quit my job, gave up my apartment along with most of my belongings and left behind some wonderful friends to move back to a foreign country to be with someone I had known previously who turned out to be an internet cheater. I found out one week ago and was both gutted and horrified. Not to mention that this has been going on behind my back for almost 2 years. I feel like a complete idiot. Now I will have to proceed carefully until such a time when my affairs here are in order and I can afford to leave, on the positive side of it, at least I am wiser from the experience and I can smile at the thought of returning to my beloved small city beside the sea!. Take care…
Kim, well let’s see, if men cheat, then they need someone to cheat with and there are women out there who like to try to fuck other women’s men.
I’m with Tim and Ivan. Hoes is just dumb nowadays. I like being single and my freedom to flirt with whomever personally. If you don’t want to commit to anyone then simply don’t.
Install a program that discretely logs keystrokes. Then dump him.
Cheating is cheating. And everyone snoops once in a while – if there’s nothing there to see, then trust is reinstated and you can relax and stop being nosy and silly. If there is something to see, then dump him. Unfortunately, it’s habitual – and cheaters don’t change easily.
Hey you know that saying once a cheater always a cheater? It applies to snoopers too… once a snooper always a snooper… if you don’t trust your man, does it matter if you love him? You’re constantly waiting for him to mess up and break your heart…
Not everyone snoops ralmn. It seems to me that if you feel justified in snooping on your partner periodically, then you have a problem with trust. Maybe this is deserved, maybe not. Either way, this lack of trust is a red flag. Deal with it.
what the hell is internet cheating?
chatting with people is now cheating?
I get the whole leading them on thing… but I don’t see where the harm is on your end?
other than the fact that you don’t trust him and obviously don’t speak with him enough.
Some people see cheating as something beyond sex. Like you tell secrets or share emontional baggage with a non-life partner or something like that. Its definately not the same as fucking someone else but some don’t see a difference. Whatev.