I’m no stranger to the dating game. In my experience 90 percent of these idiots your stuck with are not worth the time of day. Most prove to be only useful for sex and nothing more. Most lie, cheat or pull disapearing acts then suddenly reappear. They think you will forgive but then get bent out of shape when you call them out on there shit. A person can only handle so much bull before saying no more and either give up or end up bitter over it.
My point being i have given up and will not even bother trying to date due to all the idiots out there who deserve to be single.
If your a liar,cheater, etc you do not deserve anyone and should do all a favor and not bother wasting others time. If all you want is sex just say it. Don’t lead someone on with false promises. Karma is a bitch and will get you for it. If you don’t want to be with someone tell them rather than dissapear like a little boy/girl. No one is perfect and we all have our pros and cons. But if your cons outweigh the pros then you should not waste anyones time with your pathetic lies and excuses.
All your doing is burning out the good ones who can be honest and loyal. —Burnt out and staying single
This article appears in Jun 16-22, 2016.
Why do you not just lie back and enjoy the ride? They do…
Alternatively, be upfront and tell them you are looking for a husband, a house with a white picket fence and 2.5 chidren; that’ll keep them from sniffing your butt!
Karma is nonsense. Too many dog shit people living great lives, too many good people stepped on.
Your fedora is on too tight, OP
Welcome to the instant access world we live in today. If it’s difficult, it’s not worth it. It’s so easy to fuck a different guy/girl every night just by sending them a message from your phone, why would anyone bother with feelings and stuff? This only works until it’s time to grow up and find something meaningful and real, but that takes effort, hard work and determination. I wouldn’t hold your breath waiting for shit to change in the dating game any time soon, but don’t worry, you’ll soon be able to have your perfect relationship via virtual reality.
Online dating is what you make of it.
OB said, “i have given … trying to date “
I think your chances of meeting someone decent have just improved immensely. Actively looking for someone almost always leads to trouble because the people you meet are also “shopping” around for the best buy. It’s just a confusing jumble of heightened expectations followed by rejection. On the other hand, not “trying” but being open to meeting someone while doing things you enjoy will give you the opportunity for meeting a decent person. And it will be under more civilized circumstances – no pretentions and no pressure to decide.
not sure if you can accuse someone of disappearing on you.
Afterall, they had a life before meeting you.
Very true WTW. Some effort can certainly help though, as long as you’re not trying to force it.
First of all, your spelling and grammar hurt my brain. Second, nevermind there is no second. I’m tired of commenting on dating….
Spelling/grammar mistakes aside, I whole-heartedly agree with this bitch. I’m 35 and have given up completely on relationships. Single > Coupled, hands fucking down. The only single men left in this town aren’t even men at all, just little boy lackies who aren’t even much good for sex (as in they can’t fuck – get a vibrator, ladies).
Since I’ve been back home to NS over 15 months ago, I’ve had five guys I met online/real world waste weeks of my time only to then disappear or go back to their exes. I slept with three of them – two weren’t very good. One actually was pretty good, but guess what happened to him? He went back to his fucking ex! Little dickhead cowards who fuck off with no explanation piss me off enough, but guys who waste my time and suddenly go back to their ex make my blood boil. You’re clearly not over your damn ex, so why, after just breaking up with you significant other, does your unstable, wishy-washy ass have immediately jump on the first dating site you can think of and write ME and waste MY TIME?!
And for those of you who are glum about being single, don’t be. Over half of those “happy” couples you see on your facebook aren’t really happy at all. They’re cheating or being cheated on. They’re having financial issues and are fighting like cats and dogs because of it. The sex is boring/predictable/non-existant. They’re just plain bored/sick of each other and can’t even stand to be around one another. Those photos/posts your facebook friend put up about how oh so happy he/she is with his/her lover – it’s a facade. It’s not much better with your real-life buds either. How do I know? 12/14 of my coupled friends/close family members are miserable…and you would never know it by their social media posts if you didn’t know them really well…
Enjoy the single life – it’s blows the overrated coupled life outta the water!
I couldn’t agree more, MizzNyowie – most couples I’ve encountered over the years put on a brilliant facade to hide their chronic unhappiness for all the reasons you named and then some.
The grass is always greener….
Nothing new really. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xUWcbSWIt9…
I know what op is talking about. I have experienced the guys who disappear, the one who come around for a while then suddenly gone, the ones who keep going back to their exs. And the list goes on. I never asked them to change their life for me but i did ask them to put in effort and make small changes like i did to try and make it work. I never made big changes for them either cause i had a life before them as well. But none were willing to even make small changes. When they realize they need to try they turn onto little boys. I hear the horror stories about women too from my male friends. So i know it goes both ways. No wonder so many people rather be alone than have a special someone in their life. I sleep better at night knowing i don’t have to worry about maintaining a relationship with a potental little boy.
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LOL the dislike button was clicked on my comment 9 times by, lemme guess, the following types of individuals:
1) those loser guys out there who are single for an obvious reason
2) “happy” coupled people (these same people probably disliked TTFB’s comment as well)
3) those who cannot ever be single or they don’t feel “complete” (usually goes hand in hand with group 2)
…and I’m just waiting for the dislike button to blow up on this comment by said people….
I’m #10. Coupled and Happy, just so ya know.
Lol i bet all mizz dislikes are mostly the single men who think they have something to offer.
Yes, mizz, I hope you have lots of vibrators and a body pillow, cuz you’re likely gonna need both if you let your bitterness eat away at you. Being single doesn’t make you brave or confident, it makes you incompatible with what’s left over. Finding the confidence to trust another person (judging by what you say is out there) to share your life with, now that’s brave. You sound ridiculous, all the people in relationships are unhappy and boring, but if you found the right guy, I’m guessing you’d be all over being in a relationship with him. Or are you saying that even if you found the right guy you’d remain single cuz it’s the MOST awesome? I call bullshit!
It also makes you shit poor living in Halifax.