They don’t know what they had until it’s truly gone…—Better Off
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They don’t know what they had until it’s truly gone…—Better Off
This article appears in Apr 1-7, 2010.
18 Comments
this is true.
and speaking as a new lesbian,
what do you plan to do now?
please do not paint us all with the same dirty brush, there are those of my kind who are decent and honest. now if you are talking about polititions, well then, they are all rotten to the core.seems like you got dumped here, well buck up, their are 1000 guys to every creep out there. it is up to you to weed them out, and find the best one for you.
Respect.
And you’ll never be thirsty till the your well runs dry.
It’s true.
This is dumb.
I felt that way when my dick fell asleep!
…and many sigh a breath of relief.
Yes it’s only men that are bad; women are saintly and uncorrupted by the evils of modern life…because all men are satan and dispicable.
Your world is what you make of it…perhaps it is you that is the problem and are prone to making poor choices in mates?
women were the torturer’s for their tribes
I believe this comment could have that first word changed to women, & it would still work.
I’m really happy mines gone, every morning I wake up it feels like a new world,,, all sunshine & wonderful & even when you gotta get a wrecker in to haul your truck out of the mudhole you’ve burried it in…
Great point, DER?. Betcha $5 this same OB already has a date lined up with a guy who fits the same mould as her previous.
You know how it goes; never her fault but all guys are assholes. If all guys are assholes, I contend that all gals are cunts.
Same can be said for either sex.. its alllll crazy
It’s true…there are losers on both sides, but it seems to be the same repeat offenders that keep dating them.
“Ohhh I like bad boys but I am like totally surprised when he treats me like trash” or “I do loooove a FUN girl…but why do those bitches always cheat on me?”
It’s always someone elses fault isn’t it?
OP, he broke up with you because you’re full of yourself. You’re not better off, he’s better off.
More great examples, DER?.
I recall hearing stories like that during my undergrad where the same gals would go out, suck some new guy off or fuck him (or the same one repeatedly), come back Monday and cry about how ‘he’ treats ‘her’ like crap and doesn’t respect ‘her’, etc. Whenever I spoke up saying that she should change her MO I was the asshole. Probably because I was male too and making a legitimate point.
The real irony is how ‘her’ gal pals would pretend to pity her while together, bitch at me for speaking out against their repeat-failures, and then call ‘her’ a skank when she was gone. Hoes are cut-throat. That’s why I stay pimpin’.
If he “truly” had something, why would he break up with you, OP?
*nods head* that’s right — because you’re probably nothing special and a tighter pussy probably came along. *shrug*
But keep telling yourself whatever you need to to get over it.
The OB obviously never met my ex.
Oh…guilty as charged. Like when You break up with someone because there is something fundamentally wrong with the relationship. Then when you’re apart you miss the “feeling regulators” she used to give you. And sometime you even want her back; even though you know it’s toxic.
Then another lady comes along.