Thank you…

I’m with Troodon … on a few things.

Singling out and intentionally trolling someone like this would be cruel and malicious. This degree of fucking with someone for shits and giggles would, in my opinion (I’m no psychologist), result in diagnosis of something that is detailed in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders.

Boru, I’ve read comments you’ve made on different bitches/loves, and have read bitches/loves that (I think) you’ve written. I have to say you seem to be all over the place (my perception based on what you’ve written) and I’ve given up trying to piece any of it together; but you don’t strike me as someone who isn’t intelligent enough or possess enough life experience to gauge what may/may not be appropriate to share.

It’s about common sense and impulse control. And it’s the latter that seems to challenge you the most. That assumption has nothing to do with your repeated declarations of your lack of education or ability to write. Try to step back and think before acting/reacting; give yourself a chance to get a bit of perspective on something; and if you need answers/information from others to get that perspective, you should seek it from them directly. If you do this and impulse control continues to be an issue for you – talk to your doctor. Especially if you also have issues with inattention and/or hyperactivity.

By the way, I understand that people handle things differently. I’m very accepting of that, I’m not judging you and I’m not saying these things to be hurtful. My intention is the exact opposite. I’m saying this because you seem to be struggling and, like Troodon, I’m offering my two cents. Only you know if the two cents I’ve offered has any value. And, please, don’t feel I’m asking you to reply or to disclose things that should be private to you on a public (albeit ‘anonymous’) board – this level of personal information is none of my business and you do not need to explain yourself to me or to anyone here.

Boru, in my comment I specifically stated that I am not a psychologist. The paragraph of my comment relating to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) – that was referring to the person that seems to be fucking with you. I made no reference to you needing ‘retarded papers’ (your words, not mine). And the DSM is about illnesses of the brain, of which there are many, and they don’t all carry the ‘retarded’ status you seem to think I’ve handed you. Just as you said, I don’t know you. I only know what you write on this board.

I was also not saying you are of low intelligence. In fact, in my mind anyway, I was saying that you seem to be of higher intelligence than you attempt to lead readers to believe. You’re the one who regularly uses your lack of education and ability to write to explain your behaviour on the board. But, perception is, you tend to be impulsive in sharing your thoughts. And when impulse control is a problem for someone, it doesn’t matter how intelligent you are or how much common sense you possess – the impulse to do something can be so strong that all else is forgotten.

My suggestion for you to see your doctor if you do in fact have issues with impulse control, accompanied by one or the other or both of inattention and hyperactivity – possible adult ADHD. It’s real and there are medications that can help. But again, I don’t know you. I’m not a doctor. I’m not a psychologist. This is why I made the comment that “Only you know if the two cents I offered has any value.”

By the way, Justice – when there is no gender reference, I think people tend to assume something is written by a man when emotional fluffiness is absent from a love. I’m not looking for confirmation, but I’m gonna make a guess that you are the Stranger.