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That you didn’t meet me at the bar on Friday night. I was wrong about what was supposed to be going on at the bar but I went anyway because I told you I was going…
I hoped that the problem I’ve had for over six years would be solved by you last Friday. —Six Years and Counting
This article appears in Jul 12-18, 2012.
24 Comments
Give your head a shake fucktard.Maybe the person you thought would meet you had plains,maybe thie person’s fucking with your head ,or simply doesn’t want you.The important thing was you went.
…maybe the other person showed up but you didn’t notice.OP I don’t know your sex but if your female out at night alone,it can be alittle scary.
What’s with the “plains” Boru? You mean “plans”? Or are dropping messages to Mr. Abraham?
Troodon-Lol lol lol…I’m tired and not paying attention. LS Ivan already set me straight on my stupid mistake.
I meant to say ‘plane’ not ‘plain’…..No secret messages to Sheik Abraham.Lol…
Boru – no such thing as a stupid mistake when you’re hammering away on a keyboard. >; )
LS-Ok I’m big enough to admit it,I’m stupid
PS:Don’t tell anyone.
Our secret. I’ll keep schtum.
U can’t have him, u wanna take care if 6 yr problem, come do it urself, open invitation
Just ribbing you Boru. I get “boarder” and “border” mixed up. So a border collie is not a dog that rents a room, it actually herds sheep. Something I learned the other day.
Sydney Van Der Meer-I don’t know who you think I want.I’m telling you it’s not LS Ivan.
I called him Skin as a refernce to LS’s interest in RAN.My ex was in the RCN,he called his Army buddies Skin. I am interested in someone but it is not LS Ivan.
-‘Next Time Ask.’-
Boru, I have to ask, if you’re “six years” and this thread was written by “six years”, why did you call them a fucktard? Is Sydney Van Der Meer another one of your persona? I doesn’t matter, I’m just curious. You seem to have a few layers to you.
I was TRYING to be stealthy but I couldn’t carry a lie if it was nailed to me.
I thought I knew who my Stranger was but had second thoughts about that.
I told the man who I thought was my Stranger I was going out on Saturday night(I mistakingly typed Friday) to an event at a bar in Halifax(I was also wrong about the event happening).I realised I was wrong about the singles night at this bar that night but I told this man who i thought was my stranger, i was going and i am nothing if not a woman of my word. Nervous I went alone stayed for 2 hours, ordered 2 draft and food ,i had hoped he would show but he did not.Disappointed I took the ferry back to Dartmouth then walked home…….That explaination was probably more than you asked for.
No other presona’s no layer’s just me. I don’t have anything to hide.
That’s okay Boru, I was curious about a couple of inconsistencies in the posts. I wasn’t trying to be intrusive though upon reflection I was. Good luck in contacting the “stranger”.
No problem Troodoon I understand,I’m not upset by what anyone has said on Bitch/Love.If someone wants to tell me how they feel about me or anything who am I to agrue with them?As long as they’re honest with themselves.
I once told my stranger I liked that he was direct,while I apreciate he may feel a need for caution I;ve thought about him and ‘us’ for months and I am ready to make the leap.
Thanks Troodoon your very kind. I just hope I haven’t fucked up my chance with my “stranger”.
looks like you have all kinds of ‘frazzle’ going on up in that noggin.
get your head together before pulling someone else into the fray.
Um, have you actually ever, uh, seen this person in real life, or even a picture?
Because I’m getting the feeling that you’ve got feelings for some random online persona?
This whole ‘stranger’ situation doesn’t make a whole lot of sense, boru….
No you have the wrong impression,I’m 100% ok. I’m having difficulty keeping track of the names of the folks in this chatroom .
-I have total control of my faculties’
-I HAVE NEVER FELT THIS GREAT IN MY LIFE!!:) 🙂
-I am not interested in his posession’s or money I only want him.
Unless his feelings for me have changed due to my lack of writing skill of which I am relearning.
PK- I’m 99% sure I know who my stranger is.He’s aware of my feelings for him.
Uh huh. And he’s done nothing about it? Have YOU done anything about it?
If you haven’t, then why don’t you? Probably better than submitting 50 loves a day going on about every little aspect of this person (you sound a little obsessive).
And if you HAVE done something about it and he hasn’t responded favourably or actually done anything about it in return, well I hate to break it to you but it probably means he’s not interested and you should probably move on.
So either do something about it, or move on, but for pete’s sake, stop writing creepy obsessive loves to some guy you equate to a ‘stranger’ because it makes you look creepy and obsessive.
PK-I told me how I feel.
He tried to do something but we just missed each other.I don’t know maybe he doesn’t want me anymore.
Yes your correct my posts are sounding obsessive and creepy.I was concerned that he may have thought I didn’t want him last Saturday. I didn’t know wether he was driving the car that stopped me close to where I live.
With the different people in this room it’s hard to track him down.Along the way I’ve put my foot in my mouth a few times saying things that can be taken the wrong way.I also have a poor sense of humour.
In hindsight it does look as though I’m some kind of crazy stalker woman.Normaly I’m not like that.I am sorry for plastering my busyness in the open.I am embarassed for having done that.I am also sorry for bothering everyone.
Like I said to Daniel on the bitch side Boru, this is an anonymous site and you have the right to express your feelings and opinions. You don’t have to embarrassed or sorry particularly since this is the love side. Be prepared to hear frank opinions of what you say but don’t second guess yourself about what you post because of what someone else might say about it.
I went over my posts of the past week and realised I did sound like a crazy stalker woman.Yes while most of you don’t know me the man that’s been sending messages to me for a few months may have read my crazy posts.Again I was concerned for his feelings.
I don’t know maybe that wasn’t him in that car Saturday night.I just know that I don’t like how I overreacted trying to make sure I didn’t hurt his feelings because I do genuinely like him,no hidden agenda.
While noone else knows who I am I presume He’s a poster on this sight and has seen me embarass myself,along with him.
Ahhh ok. It makes sense now.
If he’s a poster on the site then it makes a little more sense, especially if this is your main mode of communications.
I think right now you just have to sit and wait. If you’re certain he knows that you’re still into him. But don’t wait too long. No guy’s worth waiting around too long for. If he’s ignoring you just say ‘fuck it’ and find someone who actually doesn’t act like a complete douchehat to you. No guy is *that* special.